The Kinky Tavern

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr are finally joined once again by the incomparable Lord Allen! First off, we have a correction for our needleplay episode, courtesy of Princess Rara of The Pink Kink Podcast and The Pink Kink Institute! We also discuss our opinions on educators and being open to corrections and learning new things! Then we dive into the CHAOS that The Kinky Tavern has been drowning in the past few months! In this episode, we will talk about what’s been going on and what our plans are!

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TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. 

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr delve into the topic of Chemical Play. The discussion starts with the “age old” saying “There’s no safewords in chemical play” and what that means. Then we move on to cover the different types of irritants you can use in chemical play, where on the body is best (and worst) to use irritants on, and some safety tips on how to play more safely with irritants.  We also share tips on negotiating and what to include in your kit if you are planning to participate in chemical play.

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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr delve into the topic of Needle and Piercing Play. The discussion covers the different types of needle and piercing play, including their history and motivations, and how to appreciate the art of the play without appropriating cultural practices. Additionally, the episode addresses the safety and science behind needle play and piercings. We also share tips on negotiating and what to include in your kit if you are planning to participate in needle play.

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TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. 

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about vorarephilia! In this episode, we will start off by defining the terms specific to the vore community and language thereof. We will discuss the parallels of vore in society and media as well as a couple of infamous cases which show what can happen in the astronomically rare case that someone takes this kink too far. Then we’ll talk about how most vorarephiles participate in their kink purely in fantasy, why they may have the desire to participate in this kink, and a few examples of how one might do so. Vore is a more extreme and fantastical kink in which the line between fantasy and reality must be bold! It’s also hugely misunderstood even by those in the kink and leather communities. Hopefully this episode will shed some light on this shadowed topic.

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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down to talk about Role Play! How do you do it? How do you talk about it? How do you decide who is playing what role? Why would you even want to role play? We’ll discuss these burning questions and more, even giving a TON of examples for your own imaginative pleasure.

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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr are sitting down to talk about Orgasm Control! Orgasm control is an umbrella term which covers orgasm torture, denial, delay and the ever popular, edging. We discuss what these kinks are, how they’re practiced, a few methods, the risks you oughta take into account. Join us in this episode to learn about orgasm control!

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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down with Lady Gidget, the producer of Midwest Leather Kink Alliance, a contest weekend in November 2023 which will be hosting the Midwest Person of Leather and Midwest Power Exchange titles! Throughout the weekend, there will be opportunities to go back to the basics and learn the most important, foundational concepts of kink as well as to dive deep into the more cognitive concepts such as mental health, the submissive mind, and protocol. Lady Gidget has proven beyond a doubt that accessibility is in mind this weekend with a ramp to avoid stairs, ASL interpreters, a sensory safe space (sponsored by The Kinky Tavern Podcast), service pets, and free HIV Testing on site (provided by KC Cares)! Tune in to find out more about the weekend, Lady Gidget herself, and where else our conversation lead us!

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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are starting season 3 off with a more serious topic: the Covid-19 Pandemic. For the last 3 years (almost 4, can you believe it?!), the world has been reeling from and reacting to the consequences of the Covid-19 Pandemic. When it hit, the most fun parts of our lives were the first to be affected, including for many of us, kink. The three hosts will discuss how it affected their lives and how they’ve learned to stay safe while still having fun, especially those of them who are immunocompromised. This topic is beyond politics. It is simply facts and harm reduction, which our communities have historically held in high priority.

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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are talking about Sounding in kink and BDSM. What is it? Can it be done safely? Why would you want to engage in this kink? Tune in to learn and hear our perspectives discussed! We also wrap up the episode with our update from Southwest Master/slave Contest weekend and let you know where you can find Lord Allen themself coming soon on stand for your boots to be beautified!

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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr are talking about Solo Play or Self Play in kink and BDSM. This can be as simple as masturbation or go far beyond! Tune in to learn what the solo and self play umbrella covers, the dangers specific to this kind of play, how to mitigate risk as much as possible. We also, as per usual, give you tips that we’ve found through personal experience and research as well as our silly antics which in this episode, invented a new type of fetishwear!

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