The Kinky Tavern

TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. 

Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is all about Consensual Non-Consent! Join us as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr share their perspectives and ideas about CNC. From what it is and is not to how to negotiate it; from examples and risks to where the interest even comes from; they cover a lot of the nuance surrounding the topic! And a LOT of nuance there is! This episode is hot and ready for ya, but is not all inclusive (part of a balanced breakfast)

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Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is all about Medical Play! Join us as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr delve into the captivating world of kink known as medical play. From exploring the psychological depths of role-playing medical scenarios to discovering how everyday medical equipment can be repurposed for pleasure, this episode will open your eyes to an intriguing realm you might not even realize you're interested in. Tune in to explore the diverse facets of medical play, unravel the origins of its allure, and uncover surprising aspects you never knew existed!

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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down to talk about their experiences at Southwest Master slave Conference 2023! We discuss the diversity, the accessibility, the general vibe, and so much more! Join us this week to hear about this Colorado con!

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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are back with  Lady Katerina, to finish up our conversation on Sacred Tobacco and get to know the Lady herself! Lady Katerina sits with us to talk about sacred tobacco, its role in her life and in her leather journey. You’ll learn what the Kinky Bibliophile herself suggests as the best books to start with BDSM and kink. 

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TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. 

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are honored to share space and discussion with Lady Katerina, a dear friend and Indigenous leatherwoman! Lady Katerina sits with us to talk about sacred tobacco, its role in her life and in her leather journey. Tune in to learn with us about the indigenous perspective on cigar service, tobacco use in general, and cultural appropriation within the leather community and society at large. And this is just Part One of Two we’ll be releasing from this conversation!!

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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen get the chance to talk with the marelous Moxie Minion, mentor to our very own Lord Allen! Moxie has been a mentee and a mentor, making her doubly qualified to join in on this episode about Mentorship in Leather! Both Lord Allen and Moxie talk about their mentorship experiences and ethics! We discuss the ins and outs of mentorship, how to keep your values and behavior aligned, the pros and cons of being a mentee and also a mentor, and much more! Join us for this discussion turned kiki with Moxie Minion!

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TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. 

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down with one of their favorite educators, Master Devyn Stone!!!! Master Stone is gracing us with speaking on his class on Conscious Language.

“​​They say actions speak louder than words, and the adage isn’t any less true within the kink and BDSM community. Oftentimes, however, the language we draft has an opportunity to act and create impressions before we have a chance to speak. Whether you’re drafting policies, designing signs for your dungeon, or creating invitations to your event, you will want to make everyone feel included. In “Conscious Language,” Devyn Stone fosters discussion with participants on how to consciously craft language and persona in media and presentation in order to evoke the values and principles of individuals, organizations, and event spaces. Please note: there will be examples of language that may be harmful to BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, Neurodivergent, and disabled folx in order to demonstrate to attendees what is and isn’t conscious language.”

Join us for TWO WEEKS of Master Devyn Stone on Conscious Language, a skill everyone in the community and outside of it can and should use!!

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TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some possibly triggering language. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. 

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down with one of their favorite educators, Master Devyn Stone!!!! Master Stone is gracing us with speaking on his class on Conscious Language.

“​​They say actions speak louder than words, and the adage isn’t any less true within the kink and BDSM community. Oftentimes, however, the language we draft has an opportunity to act and create impressions before we have a chance to speak. Whether you’re drafting policies, designing signs for your dungeon, or creating invitations to your event, you will want to make everyone feel included. In “Conscious Language,” Devyn Stone fosters discussion with participants on how to consciously craft language and persona in media and presentation in order to evoke the values and principles of individuals, organizations, and event spaces. Please note: there will be examples of language that may be harmful to BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, Neurodivergent, and disabled folx in order to demonstrate to attendees what is and isn’t conscious language.”

Join us for TWO WEEKS of Master Devyn Stone on Conscious Language, a skill everyone in the community and outside of it can and should use!!

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Join our ⁠Discord⁠ server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

⁠Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!⁠ If you have any questions about the kink, BDSM, or Leather public, please send them to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are covering boundaries! Boundaries are so important both in the kink realm and in the rest of the world. In this episode, we’ll talk about what a boundary is and is not, what types of boundaries you can consider, and how to find and set your own personal boundaries. We’ll also discuss what kinds of negative responses you might encounter when setting boundaries and one way of how we might handle them in our own lives. 

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