The Kinky Tavern

Episode Summary: Today’s episode is full of Switchy Shenanigans as the two switchy hosts, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr sit down with switchy friend Neko (they/them), and their chaotic and understanding partner, Silence (he/him). With the mission of giving a bit of a deeper perspective on switches, we gathered in this quasi-panel to discuss daily life, emotions, communication, and so much more in the life of a switch (well in our switchy lives, anyway.) Tune in and you can even hear a real-life switch fight! 

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CW: highly gendered language and ideology, conservative politics and the harm it does, racism, misogyny, homophobia, transphobia

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Episode Summary: Have you ever found yourself wondering about Tradwives? Ever fantasized about it?  This episode delves into the harmful ideologies associated with the traditional wives (tradwives) movement. It explores how adherence to traditional gender roles can lead to alt-right ideologies, perpetuating white supremacy and harmful gender norms. Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr highlight the harm caused to participants, such as discouraging education and independence, as well as dangerous connections to extremist beliefs. They also offer suggestions for exploring traditional values in a safer way, outside of harmful ideologies. Ultimately, they urge individuals to critically evaluate their beliefs and be mindful of the potential harm from strict adherence to traditional gender roles.

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CW: brief mention of abuse/sexual assault and their consensual roleplay counterparts

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Episode Summary: Have you ever found yourself fantasizing about a vampire, a werewolf, or maybe even something more monstrous? Was Beauty and the Beast your favorite movie growing up? Do you look for love in the unlovable? Well, this might be the episode for you! Join us in this episode as Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr talk about the Monster Lovers genre! We discuss what it is, where it shows up in history, our own feelings and experiences, and so much more!  

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Episode Summary: Today we are finally covering a hugely popular and even titular topic within BDSM, rope! We’re bringing in our friend Hope Lythi, a rope educator, bottom, and service top! She shares with us a ton of information from the ins and outs of the rope community to correcting misconceptions about the practice of rope!

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Episode Summary: Have you ever been curious about how dynamics work? Have you ever wondered about our dynamic? This week, we are discussing just that! What exactly is a dynamic? A role? What can a contract look like? How does this work in real life?  Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr as they discuss all of this and more as well as share their own opinions and experiences with contracts and dynamics!

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Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. 

Episode Summary: Have you ever thought about playing or having sex in public? This week, we are discussing Public Play! What exactly is public play? How can you be ethical in participating? How do you go about finding people and negotiating it?  Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr as they discuss all of this and more as well as share their own opinions and experiences with Publica Play!

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CW: mental health, rejection, brief mention of SI

Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. 

Episode Summary: Have you ever thought about disclosing your kinky identity and desires to someone(s) close to you? This week, we are discussing exactly that! What are some things you might need to consider? How can you best prepare yourself for the possibility of rejection and/or questions? How do you go about having this conversation? What are some questions that might be asked of you?  Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr as they discuss all of this and more as well as share their own experiences with disclosing their kinky identities to their loved ones!

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CW: slavery, sexual violence, fantasy violence

Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. 

Episode Summary: This week, we are reacting to and reviewing the 1987 Gor movie! With 3.4/10 stars on IMDB and 4% on Rotten Tomatoes, the film, which is VERY loosely based on the John Norman novel series, is not the most popular in the general population or even with fans of the novels. Rekkr has read some of the books and Mx Dizzy hasn’t, which ended up not really mattering much beyond knowing how different the movie is! As a note, we are not discussing or commenting on the Gorean subculture as a whole or how they think, act, believe, etc.  Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr as they watch and react to Gor, the film, for the first time ever!

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Episode Summary: This week, we’re getting back to basics and Breaking Down B.D.S.M as a term! What does BDSM mean? What does it stand for? There’s definitely more to it and much more misinformation out there about it than you might think! Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr to cover the abbreviation and its definitions and nuances in this episode of The Kinky Tavern Podcast!

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Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is something we’ve never done before on The Kinky Tavern Podcast: Reddit reactions! Join us on the Reddit Rainbow as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr react to stories from subreddits such as r/AITAH, r/sextips, r/bdsm, and r/NSFW_Switch_Community. We’ll read the post and give our perspectives, ideas, and advice based on our experience and knowledge. 

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