The Kinky Tavern

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen were allowed the honor and privilege to sit down with Lulu aka tbhimababysub on TikTok! She has been documenting and educating as she’s learned since she started her journey in the kink lifestyle in 2020. While there are a myriad of topics we could cover with this lovely lady, we focused for this episode on self collaring. Before becoming collared by her current Dominant, she was, and still is, self collared. Find out what that means, what it can mean, what the discourse is, and more in this fabulous episode!

Links from episode:

Support Allen with the costs of their wreck:

Support our friend Magic:

Other Resources:

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

TRIGGER WARNING:  All of these are talked about as concepts, warnings of how the statements contained in the survey could contribute to and perpetuate harm in the community: eating disorders, abuse, toxic relationships, sexual predators and their tactics, consent and lack thereof

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are discussing the very popular BDSMtest.org! Who created this test? What are their motives? Are they really working to create social media and other projects for the BDSM community? Do they even understand what the BDSM community wants? Or what it is for that matter?!  Find out all this and much more by listening to this episode of The Kinky Tavern.

Links from episode:

Support Allen with the costs of their wreck:

Support our friend Magic:

Other Resources:

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

TW/CW: Brief mention of dealing with past trauma, discussion of mental health

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are discussing the age-old discourse (well…of the past couple decades of kink), age regression versus age play. The age regression community has lots of ideas about age play and kink which demonize and ostracize us, even if we are also age regressors. On the flip side, they do have minors in their community but should age regression and age play be so far separated? Is there a good reason besides the misconceptions behind kink?  Join us as we deliberate these questions and more!

Support Allen with the costs of their wreck:

Support our friend Magic:

Other Resources:

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

Thank You to the listeners who asked questions:

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are joined by two queer leather bootblacks Moxie Minion (she/her) and Buck Harder(he/him)! Both of our lovely, esteemed bootblack panelists are always educating on TikTok and IRL (in real life) about bootblacking and kink in general. Of course, we’re joined, as per usual, by our resident bootblack, the gender experience known as Lord Allen! Moxie has a more traditional background of having gone through a bootblack mentorship program while both Buck and Allen were mostly self/community-taught.  Tune in to hear us ask ALL the questions!  Easy, hard, and fun! P.S. Bring chocolate cake.

Links from episode:

Support Allen with the costs of their wreck:

Support our friend Magic:

Other Resources:

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

Thank You to the listeners who asked questions:

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

TRIGGER WARNING: Sexual Assault, Abuse, 

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen give their complex, nuanced, and captivating takes on Consensual Nonconsent. What is it? What does it entail? Is it ethical? How do you ensure it’s done with safety in mind? How do you negotiate? We will answer all these questions and discuss CNC at large.

Support Allen with the costs of their wreck:

Support our friend Magic:

Other Resources:

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

This week, to kick off Locktober, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss chastity play. Locktober is an alternative holiday in which those who enjoy chastity play encourage themselves to be locked in chastity for the entire month of October. We talk about the risks and rewards of chastity, many ways that you can enjoy this kink, and advice on how to pursue it.

Links from episode:

To help support Allen with the costs of their wreck:

Other Resources:

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen discuss Praise and Affirmation kinks!  This is a very nuanced type kink and focuses on the psychological domination of someone. Join us to learn about the kinks that overlap, how to use praise and affirmation, and so much more!

To help support Allen with the costs of their wreck:

Other Resources:

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen discuss Service Submission vs Consensual Slavery. There are a lot of comparisons between the two, but definitely a few differences. We also discuss why we use the word “slave” and about different types of service.

Links from episode:

To help support Allen with the costs of their wreck:

Other Resources:

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

Thank You to the listeners who asked questions:

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss FemDom. What is it? Is it reserved for cisgender heteronormative couples? What kind of styles or archetypes are there for FemDoms? What kinds of subs do FemDoms have? Find out this and more when you join us for this week’s episode! Also, join us on social media, specifically Discord, to get in on the topics we cover as well as questions we answer!

Other Resources:

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

Thank You to the listeners who asked questions:

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!