Welcome back to the Law School Toolbox podcast! Today, we're talking about what we learned about relationships at the Wisdom 2.0 conference we recently attended.

In this episode we discuss:

• Relationships in the workplace and how they can foster growth
• Why learning to cope with emotionally-challenging work can make you better at your job
• How lawyers tend to neglect their emotional brain and how this can impact your work life
• Why it’s important to be a better communicator and steps to do so
• How to advocate to a superior about why your skills are better used elsewhere (not on boring document review)
• The importance of paying attention to what and how you are emailing 

Resources:

• Wisdom 2.0 Summit (http://www.wisdom2summit.com)
• Marriage Minute (http://www.gottman.com/marriage-minute/)
• Brené Brown (https://brenebrown.com/)
• Podcast Episode 107: How to Build Positive Relationships in Law School (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-107-how-to-build-positive-relationships-in-law-school/)
• Relationships and Law School: Can They Coexist? (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/relationships-law-school-can-coexist/)

Download the Transcript (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/Episode-191-Wisdom-2.0-What-We-Learned-About-Relationships-1.pdf)  

If you enjoy the podcast, we'd love a nice review and/or rating on Apple Podcasts (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/law-school-toolbox-podcast/id1027603976) or your favorite listening app. And feel free to reach out to us directly. You can always reach us via the contact form on the Law School Toolbox website (http://lawschooltoolbox.com/contact). If you're concerned about the bar exam, check out our sister site, the Bar Exam Toolbox (http://barexamtoolbox.com/). You can also sign up for our weekly podcast newsletter (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/get-law-school-podcast-updates/) to make sure you never miss an episode!

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Alison & Lee

Welcome back to the Law School Toolbox podcast! Today, we're talking with ex-BigLaw recruiter Sadie Jones about how to pass the dreaded interview "happy hour test."

In this episode we discuss:

• What the "happy hour test" is
• Why you can’t forget to prepare for the social aspects of interviewing
• Red flag behaviors and conversation topics to avoid
• Why having and showing personality and healthy confidence is a good thing
• How to walk the line between arrogance and confidence
• Small things to do to start the interview off on a good note
• How to hold up your end of the conversation
• Why it is so important to be nice to everyone, not just your interviewer

Resources:

• Is the Secret to Acing a Job Interview Passing the Happy Hour Test? (https://thegirlsguidetolawschool.com/02/is-the-secret-to-acing-a-job-interview-passing-the-happy-hour-test/)
• Podcast Episode 27: Job Interview Basics (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-27-job-interview-basics/)
• Podcast Episode 173: FAQ’s About Resumes and Cover Letters (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-173-frequently-asked-questions-about-resumes-and-cover-letters-w-sadie-jones/)
• Podcast Episode 175: Top Interview Questions (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-175-top-interview-questions-with-ex-biglaw-recruiter-sadie-jones/)
• Podcast Episode 5: Maintaining Authenticity in the Legal Profession (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-5-maintaining-authenticity-legal-profession/)
• How to Prepare for OCI Interviews (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/prepare-oci-interviews/)

Download the Transcript (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/episode-190-interview-happy-hour-test/)

If you enjoy the podcast, we'd love a nice review and/or rating on Apple Podcasts (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/law-school-toolbox-podcast/id1027603976) or your favorite listening app. And feel free to reach out to us directly. You can always reach us via the contact form on the Law School Toolbox website (http://lawschooltoolbox.com/contact). If you're concerned about the bar exam, check out our sister site, the Bar Exam Toolbox (http://barexamtoolbox.com/). You can also sign up for our weekly podcast newsletter (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/get-law-school-podcast-updates/) to make sure you never miss an episode!

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Alison & Lee

Welcome back to the Law School Toolbox podcast! Today, we're talking about what to focus on in class so that you can get the most out of the experience.

In this episode we discuss:

• What going to class teaches you that books, outlines, and supplements cannot
• Why paying attention to what your professor thinks is important is very important
• Why in-class hypotheticals are so important to your understanding of the law, and to preparing for the exam
• How class can help you learn to live with ambiguity and think like a lawyer
• How learning the policy behind the laws can help you piece together what you learn into a coherent whole
• Ways to enhance your listening and note-taking to set you up for success later
• Why you should strongly consider handwriting your class notes
• How to handle distractions and why you should really unplug in class

Resources:

• Podcast Episode 62: Surviving the Socratic Method in Law School Classes (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-62-surviving-the-socratic-method-in-law-school-classes/)
• A Novel Listening Technique for Law Students: “Professor Says” (https://thegirlsguidetolawschool.com/10/a-novel-listening-technique-for-law-students-professor-says/)
• Are You Taking Good Law School Class Notes? (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/taking-good-law-school-class-notes/)
• Is Handwriting Notes a Good Thing or a Bad Thing? (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/is-handwriting-notes-a-good-thing-or-a-bad-thing/)
• The Cornell Note-taking Method (http://lsc.cornell.edu/notes.html)
• Evernote (https://evernote.com/)
• Cal Newport: Digital Minimalism (https://www.amazon.com/Digital-Minimalism-Choosing-Focused-Noisy/dp/0525536515)
• Start Law School Right (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/start-law-school-right/)

Download the Transcript (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/episode-189-why-you-should-go-to-class-and-how-to-make-it-productive/)

If you enjoy the podcast, we'd love a nice review and/or rating on Apple Podcasts (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/law-school-toolbox-podcast/id1027603976) or your favorite listening app. And feel free to reach out to us directly. You can always reach us via the contact form on the Law School Toolbox website (http://lawschooltoolbox.com/contact). If you're concerned about the bar exam, check out our sister site, the Bar Exam Toolbox (http://barexamtoolbox.com/). You can also sign up for our weekly podcast newsletter (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/get-law-school-podcast-updates/) to make sure you never miss an episode!

Thanks for listening!

Alison & Lee

Welcome back to the Law School Toolbox podcast! Today, we're talking with ex-BigLaw recruiter, Sadie Jones, about how to make people hate you at work, so that, basically, you can avoid doing these things.

In this episode we discuss:

• Things to avoid, such as being late on your first day of work!
• How to make a good impression at social events (and how to make a bad one)
• Why there is almost no excuse for not showing up or notifying a host that you can’t make an event
• Why treating everyone with respect, always, is so important
• Why you need to treat summer jobs as the start of your professional reputation
• Why first drafts aren’t really drafts
• That it’s your job to make your boss look good
• Why you need to do your homework, and then ask good questions, to avoid surprises
• How important communication is to success at work
• What to do if you do mess up at work

Resources:

• CareerDicta (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/careerdicta)
• Networking Strategies (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/careerdicta/networking-strategies/)
• Getting a Law Job, What to Wear, and How to Behave (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/careerdicta/getting-law-job-wear-behave/)
• Getting an Offer: Being Professional in a Generation-Gap Workplace (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/getting-an-offer-being-professional-in-a-generation-gap-workplace/)
• Podcast Episode 25: How to Behave Like a Professional in the Legal Workplace (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-25-behave-like-professional-legal-workplace/)

Download the Transcript (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/episode-188-making-people-hate-you-at-work/)

If you enjoy the podcast, we'd love a nice review and/or rating on Apple Podcasts (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/law-school-toolbox-podcast/id1027603976) or your favorite listening app. And feel free to reach out to us directly. You can always reach us via the contact form on the Law School Toolbox website (http://lawschooltoolbox.com/contact). If you're concerned about the bar exam, check out our sister site, the Bar Exam Toolbox (http://barexamtoolbox.com/). You can also sign up for our weekly podcast newsletter (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/get-law-school-podcast-updates/) to make sure you never miss an episode!

Thanks for listening!

Alison & Lee

Welcome back to the Law School Toolbox podcast! Today, we're talking about thinking on your feet when you're on the spot.

In this episode we discuss:

• How practicing mindfulness when you aren’t stressed can help you cope when you’re on the spot
• Why it is not just okay, but important, to take a breath, pause, and think before answering questions
• The benefits of asking clarifying questions
• Why paying close attention and using active listening techniques is useful
• How to handle interruptions and other moments when you have to go “off-script”
• Why speaking in class is a skill set that you can (and should) practice
• How to project confidence even when you’re not feeling it

Resources:

• Podcast Episode 29: Self-Care During Bar Exam Prep (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-129-self-care-during-bar-exam-prep/)
• Podcast Episode 37: Surviving Law school Moot Court (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-37/)
• Podcast Episode 62: Surviving the Socratic Method in Law School Classes (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-62-surviving-the-socratic-method-in-law-school-classes/)
• Podcast Episode 138: Top Ten Public Speaking Tips (w/Jennifer Warren) (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/episode-138-top-ten-public-speaking-tips-w-jennifer-warren/)
• Toastmasters (http://www.toastmasters.org/)
• What Did Improv Classes Teach Me About Public Speaking (https://magneticspeaking.com/what-did-improv-classes-in-san-francisco-teach-me-about-public-speaking/)

Download the Transcript (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/episode-187-thinking-on-your-feet/)   

If you enjoy the podcast, we'd love a nice review and/or rating on Apple Podcasts (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/law-school-toolbox-podcast/id1027603976) or your favorite listening app. And feel free to reach out to us directly. You can always reach us via the contact form on the Law School Toolbox website (http://lawschooltoolbox.com/contact). If you're concerned about the bar exam, check out our sister site, the Bar Exam Toolbox (http://barexamtoolbox.com/). You can also sign up for our weekly podcast newsletter (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/get-law-school-podcast-updates/) to make sure you never miss an episode!

Thanks for listening!

Alison & Lee

Welcome back to the Law School Toolbox podcast! Today, we're kicking off a new series: The Law School Toolbox Book Club. This is a chance for us to chat with you about the books we're reading and why you might want to check them out. Today we're talking about Becoming, by Michelle Obama.

In this episode we discuss:

• The new autobiography, Becoming, by Michelle Obama
• Some key takeaways about gender and race in the legal profession
• Embracing a growth mindset and asking for you want
• That even someone as accomplished as Michelle Obama can fail the bar!

Resources:

• Becoming, by Michelle Obama (https://becomingmichelleobama.com/)
• We Were Eight Years in Power, by Ta-Nehisi Coates (https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/550170/we-were-eight-years-in-power-by-ta-nehisi-coates/9780399590573/)
• The Final Year (https://www.finalyearfilm.com/)
• The World as It Is: A Memoir of the Obama White House, by Ben Rhodes (https://www.amazon.com/World-Memoir-Obama-White-House/dp/0525509356/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=_)

Download the Transcript (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/episode-186-book-club-becoming-by-michelle-obama/)

If you enjoy the podcast, we'd love a nice review and/or rating on Apple Podcasts (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/law-school-toolbox-podcast/id1027603976) or your favorite listening app. And feel free to reach out to us directly. You can always reach us via the contact form on the Law School Toolbox website (http://lawschooltoolbox.com/contact). If you're concerned about the bar exam, check out our sister site, the Bar Exam Toolbox (http://barexamtoolbox.com/). You can also sign up for our weekly podcast newsletter (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/get-law-school-podcast-updates/) to make sure you never miss an episode!

Thanks for listening!

Alison & Lee

Welcome back to the Law School Toolbox podcast! Today, we're talking with ex-BigLaw recruiter Sadie Jones, about how to start thinking about your 2L job search when you're still a 1L.

In this episode we discuss:

• What your priority should be at this point in your 1L year
• How to get organized and set yourself up for success
• Why you should engage with your Career Services office sooner rather than later
• How to maximize your 1L summer experience in your 2L job search
• Why networking both on and off campus can pay off
• How to stand out by being prepared and polished from the start of your job search

Resources:

• Podcast Episode 7: Time & Life Management Basics (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-7-time-life-management-basics/)
• Podcast Episode 55: An Overview of BigLaw OCI (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-55-overview-biglaw-campus-interviewing-oci/)
• Podcast Episode 140: OCI Strategy (w/Sadie Jones) (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/episode-140-oci-strategy-w-sadie-jones/)
• Podcast Episode 179: What to Do If You Still Don’t Have a Summer Job (w/Sadie Jones) (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-179-what-to-do-if-you-still-dont-have-a-summer-job-w-ex-biglaw-recruiter-sadie-jones/)
• CareerDicta: Strategies & Resources for Your Legal Career (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/careerdicta)

Download the Transcript (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/episode-185-thinking-about-the-2l-job-search-as-a-1l-w-sadie-jones/)

If you enjoy the podcast, we'd love a nice review and/or rating on Apple Podcasts (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/law-school-toolbox-podcast/id1027603976) or your favorite listening app. And feel free to reach out to us directly. You can always reach us via the contact form on the Law School Toolbox website (http://lawschooltoolbox.com/contact). If you're concerned about the bar exam, check out our sister site, the Bar Exam Toolbox (http://barexamtoolbox.com/). You can also sign up for our weekly podcast newsletter (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/get-law-school-podcast-updates/) to make sure you never miss an episode!

Thanks for listening!

Alison & Lee

Welcome back to the Law School Toolbox podcast! Today we're talking with Lyssa Thaden of AccessLex Institute, a non-profit which works to increase accessibility and affordability for law students, about student loans and other financial topics.

In this episode we discuss:

• Student debt, and what you need to consider before you choose law school
• How to increase your access to scholarship dollars
• Why being realistic about your finances and your future is key to avoiding the worst-case scenarios
• Why making a budget and cutting your living expenses can pay off after you graduate
• How to plan for the post-graduation bar exam expenses (and why you need to!)
• Strategies and resources for graduates who are struggling with repayment

Resources:

• MAX by AccessLex: Strategy Changes Everything (https://www.accesslex.org/about-max-by-accesslex)
• AccessLex Student Loan Calculator (https://www.accesslex.org/student-loan-calculator#/)
• AccessLex Diversity Pipeline Program Directory (https://www.accesslex.org/accesslex-diversity-pipeline-program-directory)
• AccessLex Diversity Pipeline Research Grant Program (https://www.accesslex.org/legal-education-diversity-pipeline-grant-program)
• StudentLoans.Gov (https://studentloans.gov/myDirectLoan/index.action)
• Law School Myth #1: Lawyers Make a Lot of Money (https://thegirlsguidetolawschool.com/09/law-school-myth-1-lawyers-make-a-lot-of-money/)
• Podcast Episode 174: The LSAT is Going Digital (w/Nathan Fox) (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-174-the-lsat-is-going-digital-thoughts-from-lsat-expert-nathan-fox/)

Download the Transcript (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/episode-184-money-money-money-w-lyssa-thaden/)  

If you enjoy the podcast, we'd love a nice review and/or rating on Apple Podcasts (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/law-school-toolbox-podcast/id1027603976) or your favorite listening app. And feel free to reach out to us directly. You can always reach us via the contact form on the Law School Toolbox website (http://lawschooltoolbox.com/contact). If you're concerned about the bar exam, check out our sister site, the Bar Exam Toolbox (http://barexamtoolbox.com/). You can also sign up for our weekly podcast newsletter (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/get-law-school-podcast-updates/) to make sure you never miss an episode!

Thanks for listening!

Alison & Lee

Welcome back to the Law School Toolbox podcast! Today, we're talking with ex-BigLaw recruiter, Sadie Jones, about when and how to change direction in your job search.

In this episode we discuss:

• How you know it’s time to change direction in your job hunt
• How to best use your time, energy, and network
• Why you need to be realistic and honest with yourself
• Who to ask for feedback, and what feedback you need
• Why it’s time to just get started!

Resources:

• CareerDicta: Strategies & Resources for Your Legal Career (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/careerdicta)
• Podcast Episode 5: Maintaining Authenticity in the Legal Profession (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-5-maintaining-authenticity-legal-profession/)
• Podcast Episode 27: Job Interview Basics (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-27-job-interview-basics/)
• Podcast 111: Resumes and Cover Letters (w/ex-BigLaw recruiter Sadie Jones) (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/podcast-episode-111-resumes-cover-letters-ex-biglaw-recruiter/)
• Michelle Obama: Becoming (https://becomingmichelleobama.com/)
• Spring Semester Sprint: SOS Suggestions for Snagging a 2L Summer Job (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/spring-semester-sprint-sos-suggestions-for-snagging-a-2l-summer-job/)

Download the Transcript (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/episode-183-changing-course-in-the-job-hunt-w-sadie-jones/)  

If you enjoy the podcast, we'd love a nice review and/or rating on Apple Podcasts (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/law-school-toolbox-podcast/id1027603976) or your favorite listening app. And feel free to reach out to us directly. You can always reach us via the contact form on the Law School Toolbox website (http://lawschooltoolbox.com/contact). If you're concerned about the bar exam, check out our sister site, the Bar Exam Toolbox (http://barexamtoolbox.com/). You can also sign up for our weekly podcast newsletter (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/get-law-school-podcast-updates/) to make sure you never miss an episode. 

Thanks for listening!

Alison & Lee

Welcome back to the Law School Toolbox podcast. Today we're talking to Jennifer Warren about the realities of motherhood, and parenthood in general, in the legal profession.

In this episode we discuss:

• How you know it is the “right” time for children
• What to consider about your job and career when thinking about having children
• How to balance your life and job with the physical reality of being pregnant
• When to tell your coworkers and boss that you’re pregnant
• How to plan for your parental leave and childcare
• How social media can be a game changer for finding information and support as a new mom
• Pumping, bottle-feeding, and why feeding your baby isn’t always as simple as it seems

Resources:

• Parental Leave: What to Expect When You Return to Work (https://thegirlsguidetolawschool.com/04/parental-leave-what-to-expect-when-you-return-to-work/)
• The Leaky Pipeline: Can Women Have a Family in BigLaw? (https://thegirlsguidetolawschool.com/12/the-leaky-pipeline-can-women-have-a-family-in-biglaw-with-podcast/)
• Lessons Learned While Preparing for Parental Leave (https://thegirlsguidetolawschool.com/04/lessons-learned-while-preparing-for-parental-leave/)
• The Office Maternity Leave Checklist for the Type A Professional (https://fairygodboss.com/career-topics/the-office-maternity-leave-checklist-for-the-type-a-professional)
• State Family and Medical Leave Laws (http://www.ncsl.org/research/labor-and-employment/state-family-and-medical-leave-laws.aspx)
• How to be Both a Parent and a Lawyer (https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2015/09/mom-dad-parent-lawyer/405742/)
• 10 Out-of-the-Box Childcare Options That Are Changing Working Moms’ Lives (https://www.workingmother.com/10-out-box-childcare-options-that-are-changing-working-moms-lives)

Download the Transcript (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/episode-182-motherhood-in-the-legal-profession-w-jennifer-warren/)

If you enjoy the podcast, we'd love a nice review and/or rating on Apple Podcasts (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/law-school-toolbox-podcast/id1027603976) or your favorite listening app. And feel free to reach out to us directly. You can always reach us via the contact form on the Law School Toolbox website (http://lawschooltoolbox.com/contact). If you're concerned about the bar exam, check out our sister site, the Bar Exam Toolbox (http://barexamtoolbox.com/). You can also sign up for our weekly podcast newsletter (https://lawschooltoolbox.com/get-law-school-podcast-updates/) to make sure you never miss an episode!

Thanks for listening!

Alison & Lee