The Lemon Tree Coaching

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In this episode, I will be talking about the cognitive distortion of black-and-white thinking, also known as all-or-nothing thinking and what you can do to stop all-or-nothing thining.

Kind reminder: positive psychology is the study of human strengths and flourishing, whereas toxic positivity is the belief that people should maintain a positive mindset no matter how bad, sad, or challenging a situation is. Toxic positivity is a red flag.

Social Media Links
The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast
Instagram
Twitter

Teacher Resources (really, for anyone)
The Lemon Tree by AKS
Box Breathing

Other Important Resources:
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline call (866) 331-9474, or text: loveis to 225
loveisrespect.org
A Call For Change Helpline (877) 898-3411. Visit their website at acallforchangehelpline.org.
Al-Anon
SAMHSA’s National Helpline
Laura's House
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 
or TEXT the word “start to 88788
National Emergency Telephone Number in Australia - dial 000

Ask The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast a Question. Text the TLT Pod today.

In this episode, I will be talking about how to survive an election year and how to use the election as an opportunity to build resilience regardless of the outcome. This episode is not about politics, but discusses strategies you can use this election season to reduce anxiety and navigate social situations when they do turn to politics.

Kind reminder: positive psychology is the study of human strengths and flourishing, whereas toxic positivity is the belief that people should maintain a positive mindset no matter how bad, sad, or challenging a situation is. Toxic positivity is a red flag.

Social Media Links
The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast
Instagram
Twitter

Teacher Resources (really, for anyone)
The Lemon Tree by AKS
Box Breathing

Other Important Resources:
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline call (866) 331-9474, or text: loveis to 225
loveisrespect.org
A Call For Change Helpline (877) 898-3411. Visit their website at acallforchangehelpline.org.
Al-Anon
SAMHSA’s National Helpline
Laura's House
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 
or TEXT the word “start to 88788
National Emergency Telephone Number in Australia - dial 000

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Ask The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast a Question. Text the TLT Pod today.

In this episode, I will be talking about people-pleasing vs. kindness, how to identify if you are a people-pleaser, and what you can do to change this behavior.

Kind reminder: positive psychology is the study of human strengths and flourishing, whereas toxic positivity is the belief that people should maintain a positive mindset no matter how bad, sad, or challenging a situation is. Toxic positivity is a red flag.

Social Media Links
The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast
Instagram
Twitter

Teacher Resources (really, for anyone)
The Lemon Tree by AKS

Other Important Resources:
The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel
Set Boundaries, Find Peace, A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself by Nedra Glover Tawwab
Romancing the Shadow by Connie Zweig & Steve Wolf
The Enneagram Institute
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline call (866) 331-9474, or text: loveis to 225
loveisrespect.org
A Call For Change Helpline (877) 898-3411. Visit their website at acallforchangehelpline.org.
Al-Anon
SAMHSA’s National Helpline
Laura's House
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 
or TEXT the word “start to 88788
National Emergency Telephone Number in Australia - dial 000

Ask The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast a Question. Text the TLT Pod today.

In this episode, I will be diving deeper into shadow work. Listen to episode # 36 for Shadow Work (Part 1). Episode # 36 is not a prerequisite for this episode, but certainly complements it. I hope you find both episodes valuable.

Kind reminder: positive psychology is the study of human strengths and flourishing, whereas toxic positivity is the belief that people should maintain a positive mindset no matter how bad, sad, or challenging a situation is. Toxic positivity is a red flag.

Social Media Links
The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast
Instagram
Twitter

Teacher Resources (really, for anyone)
The Lemon Tree by AKS

Other Important Resources:
The Shadow Work Journal by Keila Shaheen
Romancing the Shadow by Connie Zweig & Steve Wolf
Joseph Campbell & The Shadow System
Face Your Dark Side - Carl Jung & the Shadow
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline call (866) 331-9474, or text: loveis to 225
loveisrespect.org
A Call For Change Helpline (877) 898-3411. Visit their website at acallforchangehelpline.org.
Al-Anon
SAMHSA’s National Helpline
Laura's House
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 
or TEXT the word “start to 88788
National Emergency Telephone Number in Australia - dial 000

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Ask The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast a Question. Text the TLT Pod today.

In this episode, I will be talking about fire evacuation readiness and tips on how to support yourself and others if you are threatened by a fire evacuation. I will also share my latest experience with the Airport Fire in Southern California.

I hope you find this week's episode informative. See below for a list of resources.

Social Media Links
The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast
Instagram
Twitter
Watch Duty

Teacher Resources (really, for anyone)
The Lemon Tree by AKS

Other Important Resources:
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline call (866) 331-9474, or text: loveis to 225
loveisrespect.org
A Call For Change Helpline (877) 898-3411. Visit their website at acallforchangehelpline.org.
Al-Anon
SAMHSA’s National Helpline
Laura's House
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 
or TEXT the word “start to 88788
National Emergency Telephone Number in Australia - dial 000

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Ask The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast a Question. Text the TLT Pod today.

In this episode, I will be revisiting Dr. James Pawelski’s teaching on the Red Cape, Green Cape, Reversible Cape, and a Balanced Approach to Life.

I always want make sure I reflect and revisit what I have learned from the greats in positive psychology, especially if I am not incorporating it into my own curriculum at the moment, but want to be reminded of the lessons to apply to my own life as well as share with listeners.

I hope you enjoy this week's episode. See below for a list of resources.

Kind reminder: positive psychology is the study of human strengths and flourishing, whereas toxic positivity is the belief that people should maintain a positive mindset no matter how bad, sad, or challenging a situation is. Toxic positivity is a red flag.

Social Media Links
The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast
Instagram
Twitter

Teacher Resources (really, for anyone)
The Lemon Tree by AKS
2.1 Revisit the Reversible Cape - Positive Psychology: Applications & Interventions (video)
Revisiting the Reversible Cape with James Pawelski (TPT corresponding handout)

Other Important Resources:
Practicing Radical Acceptance
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline call (866) 331-9474, or text: loveis to 225
loveisrespect.org
A Call For Change Helpline (877) 898-3411. Visit their website at acallforchangehelpline.org.
Al-Anon
SAMHSA’s National Helpline
Laura's House
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 
or TEXT the word “start to 88788
National Emergency Telephone Number in Australia - dial 000

Ask The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast a Question. Text the TLT Pod today.

In this episode, I will be defining and talking about cognitive reframing vs. toxic positivity.

Kind reminder: positive psychology is the study of human strengths and flourishing, whereas toxic positivity is the belief that people should maintain a positive mindset no matter how bad, sad, or challenging a situation is. Toxic positivity is a red flag.

Social Media Links
The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast
Instagram
Twitter

Teacher Resources (really, for anyone)
The Lemon Tree by AKS

Other Important Resources:
Practicing Radical Acceptance
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline call (866) 331-9474, or text: loveis to 225
loveisrespect.org
A Call For Change Helpline (877) 898-3411. Visit their website at acallforchangehelpline.org.
Al-Anon
SAMHSA’s National Helpline
Laura's House
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 
or TEXT the word “start to 88788
National Emergency Telephone Number in Australia - dial 000

Ask The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast a Question. Text the TLT Pod today.

Hello & Welcome to The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast. I’m your host, Dr. Allison Sucamele. Each week I’ll be taking the science of positive psychology, adding a little humor, and through evidence-based research, provide you with tools and strategies to help you live a life of peace and purpose.  

In this episode, I will be talking about Knowing What We Can and Cannot Change.

But first, if you’re interested, social media links, my website, and other information can be found at thelemontreecoaching.com. See a list of additional resources below. 

If you’d like some daily inspiration, you can follow me on Instagram @thelemontreecoaching. I post quotes and make book recommendations from time to time. Currently in my reading stack this week, I have an article from the American Psychological Association titled “How Heat Affects the Mind” by Stephanie Pappas and I’m revisiting Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach. 

As we continue to discuss positive psychology and related strategies throughout each episode, kind reminder that positive psychology is the study of human strengths and flourishing, whereas toxic positivity is the belief that people should maintain a positive mindset no matter how bad, sad, or challenging a situation is. Toxic positivity is a red flag

Teachers, you may want to check out my TPT shop called The Lemon Tree by AKS. There are some free lessons you can download or explore the shop for more. 

Social Media Links
The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast
Instagram
Twitter

Teacher Resources (really, for anyone)
The Lemon Tree by AKS

Other Important Resources:
Practicing Radical Acceptance
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline call (866) 331-9474, or text: loveis to 225
loveisrespect.org
A Call For Change Helpline (877) 898-3411. Visit their website at acallforchangehelpline.org.
Al-Anon
SAMHSA’s National Helpline
Laura's House
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 
or TEXT the word “start to 88788
National Emergency Telephone Number in Australia - dial 000

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Ask The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast a Question. Text the TLT Pod today.

In this episode, I will be talking about signs of self-sabotage and ways to stop it. 

Kind reminder: positive psychology is the study of human strengths and flourishing, whereas toxic positivity is the belief that people should maintain a positive mindset no matter how bad, sad, or challenging a situation is. Toxic positivity is a red flag. 

Social Media Links
The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast
Instagram
Twitter

Teacher Resources (really, for anyone)
The Lemon Tree by AKS
The Psychology of TV and Film | The Simpsons and Cognitive Dissonance
Self-Sabotage Quiz | Psychology Today

Other Important Resources:
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline call (866) 331-9474, or text: loveis to 225
loveisrespect.org
A Call For Change Helpline (877) 898-3411. Visit their website at acallforchangehelpline.org.
Al-Anon
SAMHSA’s National Helpline
Laura's House
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 
or TEXT the word “start to 88788
National Emergency Telephone Number in Australia - dial 000

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

Ask The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast a Question. Text the TLT Pod today.

In this episode, I will be talking about toxic empathy. We hear a lot about toxic positivity, but what is toxic empathy? What signs should we pay attention to? 

Kind reminder: positive psychology is the study of human strengths and flourishing, whereas toxic positivity is the belief that people should maintain a positive mindset no matter how bad, sad, or challenging a situation is. Toxic positivity is a red flag. 

Social Media Links
The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast
Instagram
Twitter

Teacher Resources (really, for anyone)
The Lemon Tree by AKS

Other Important Resources:
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline call (866) 331-9474, or text: loveis to 225
loveisrespect.org
A Call For Change Helpline (877) 898-3411. Visit their website at acallforchangehelpline.org.
Al-Anon
SAMHSA’s National Helpline
Laura's House
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 
or TEXT the word “start to 88788
National Emergency Telephone Number in Australia - dial 000