When trust has been shattered by betrayal, addiction, lies, or deep disappointment, most couples try to rush back to normal before real healing has happened. 

In this episode, we share why rebuilding trust does not start with quick apologies or forced forgiveness, but with deep healing, honest understanding, and facing the real roots behind the pain. 

We open up about our own story, the role of community, and why true restoration is possible even when the journey feels messy and slow. 

If your marriage has been wounded, this conversation will give you hope, direction, and a biblical path forward.

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Support and coaching links:

The Wise Wives Intensive -  Get coached by Janelle

⁠⁠⁠https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/WLsDub?sl=applepod

The Husbands of Valor Intensive - Get coached by Mike

⁠https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/8kDtcu?sl=applepod

Marriage Retreat (August 27th - 29th 2026 - Portland, OR):

https://subspla.sh/xhtcvrg

Janelle’s #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

⁠⁠⁠https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Mike’s #1 course for the Husband that wants to save his marriage:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/anchored-husband?sl=applepod

Our In-Home, Private Marriage Intensive Here in Arizona (The ARK) for Couples:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/ark-couples?sl=applepod

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

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💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

Rob and Holly Clark share how their 20-year marriage quietly drifted into roommate life—no intimacy, constant tension, and a “we’ve tried everything” exhaustion after books, counseling, and dead-end advice. 

Their turning point came when they stopped treating symptoms and let Jesus heal the root: unforgiveness, old wounds, and the spiritual battle attacking their home. 

As they rebuilt with repentance, inner healing, and daily obedience to the Holy Spirit, connection came back fast—and their sons now feel the joy and safety in their house so strongly they notice the slightest shift. 

If your marriage feels too far gone, their story proves it is never too late for Jesus to restore what looks impossible.

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Support and coaching links:

The Wise Wives Intensive -  Get coached by Janelle

⁠⁠⁠https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/WLsDub?sl=applepod

The Husbands of Valor Intensive - Get coached by Mike

⁠https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/8kDtcu?sl=applepod

Marriage Retreat (August 27th - 29th 2026 - Portland, OR):

https://subspla.sh/xhtcvrg

Janelle’s #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

⁠⁠⁠https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Mike’s #1 course for the Husband that wants to save his marriage:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/anchored-husband?sl=applepod

Our In-Home, Private Marriage Intensive Here in Arizona (The ARK) for Couples:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/ark-couples?sl=applepod

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

In this episode, we get real about why most conflict isn’t about the issue—it’s about emotional overwhelm, unspoken expectations, and trying to do marriage alone. 

We talk through how learning to regulate emotions, communicate expectations early, and stay connected to healthy community could have saved us years of unnecessary pain. 

This isn’t theory or perfect advice—it’s hindsight from lessons learned the hard way. 

If you’re fighting for your marriage or simply want to build it wiser and stronger, this conversation is for you.

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

Support and coaching links:

My #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Our In-Home, Private Marriage Intensive Here in Arizona (The ARK) for Couples:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/ark-couples?sl=applepod

Want to get coached by Janelle? 

⁠https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/WLsDub?sl=applepod

Want to get coached by Mike? 

https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/8kDtcu?sl=applepod

This episode isn’t marriage advice—it’s hard-earned hindsight we wish we had before we said “I do.” 

Regardless if you’re married or not (yet), we share the first 2 things we’d change if we could start over, starting with inner healing, because unhealed wounds will always run the marriage no matter how good your communication is. 

If you’re growing and your spouse isn’t ready yet, this episode will break the lie that healing has to be mutual to be effective. 

If your marriage feels stuck, tense, or heavier than it should be, this conversation will help you understand why—and what to do next.

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

Support and coaching links:

Want to get coached by Janelle? 

⁠https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/WLsDub?sl=applepod

Want to get coached by Mike? 

https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/8kDtcu?sl=applepod

My #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Interview with My Sister Who Prayed Me Home.

A Story of Relentless Prayer, Family Love, and God’s Pursuit

In this episode, I sit down with my older sister, Jessica—the one who refused to quit praying for me. For ten long years she watched Mike and me run hard in rebellion… partying, drugs, alcohol… the whole thing. But she never pulled away. She loved us, pra.yed for us, and fought for our salvation when nothing looked hopeful.

What You’ll Hear

How one sister’s steady prayers helped shift the course of our lives

The real moments, the laughter, and a few stories only sisters can tell

Simple, practical ways to keep praying for someone you love when you’re not seeing change yet

This conversation is honest, warm, and full of faith. 

If you’ve ever carried someone on your heart and wondered if your prayers are doing anything—this episode will stir your hope again.

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

Support and coaching links:

Want to get coached by Janelle? 

⁠https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/WLsDub?sl=applepod

Want to get coached by Mike? 

https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/8kDtcu?sl=applepod

My #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

We interview our good friend and former client, Lauren McQueen as she share’s some raw and real hard struggles she walked through in her in her first year of marriage.

God led her on a journey that transformed her relationship by stepping out in faith and doing the work on herself first.

In this interview Lauren shares exactly what she did to be the wife that God was calling her to be.

Connect with Lauren:

Her New Book: A New Day: 31 Daily Devotions 

https://a.co/d/5bWOAGm

Find her on Instagram: 

https://www.instagram.com/laur.mcqueen14

Join the Hight Impact Life Community for Ladies:

https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Hjnqtvp5P/

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

Support and coaching links:

Want to get coached by Janelle? 

⁠https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/WLsDub?sl=applepod

Want to get coached by Mike? 

https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/8kDtcu?sl=applepod

My #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Almost every husband and wife that we end up working with has felt like they’ve lost themselves and feel like they don’t know who they are anymore. 

Or they never themselves at all outside of what they do… 

And one of the most subtle and dangerous places to find yourself in, in your marriage is when you feel like you’ve lost your purpose and they’re going through he motions of being a spouse and are good at managing the day to day stuff that needs to happen for the house to run but totally dry when it comes to feeding the marriage…or yourself.

We dive deeper on living in your True Identity and why we operate in a false identity.

We share two recent stories that just happened that you are incredible teaching moments.

Link to our Discovering Your True God Given Identity Course: https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/identity?sl=Applepod

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

Support and coaching links:

Want to get coached by Janelle? 

⁠https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/WLsDub?sl=applepod

Want to get coached by Mike? 

https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/8kDtcu?sl=applepod

My #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

It’s an honor and a joy to welcome our good friend, mentor, and spiritual father — Mr. Clyde Lewis.

He loves Jesus, he’s a husband, a father, a pastor, and a prophetic coach who helps leaders and business owners discover how to walk in their God-given identity and carry kingdom authority into every area of their lives — including the marketplace.

This is one of the most important topics we could ever talk about…

Knowing your true God given Identity.

 Your identity becomes your marching order — your compass for life.

The two most important things in life are knowing who God is — and knowing who you are.

And make no mistake: Satan hates it when you discover that. Because when you do, you become unshakable.

You can find Clyde on IG and FB:

https://www.instagram.com/lewisministry/

https://www.facebook.com/clyde.lewis.92

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

Support and coaching links:

Want to get coached by Janelle? 

⁠https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/WLsDub?sl=applepod

Want to get coached by Mike? 

https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/8kDtcu?sl=applepod

My #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

We get deep, raw and real in this episode as we share where we had to learn how to forgive in our own lives.

Without this critical principle nothing in your life will work. It is a STOP to all growth. While it might be one of the most difficult principles to start, it quickly becomes the easiest one to master. We need to forgive. We need to become master forgivers. 

The reason we can forgive is that Jesus Forgave us. Forgiveness is an act of faith and it’s a command not a feeling. The moment you decide to forgive – is the beginning of forgiveness. 

Marriage is one of the best training grounds for learning the power of forgiveness.

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

Support and coaching links:

Want to get coached by Janelle? 

⁠https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/WLsDub?sl=applepod

Want to get coached by Mike? 

https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/8kDtcu?sl=applepod

My #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Erica came to us 3 years ago when her marriage was in ruins. Even her closest friends told her it was time for her to let the marriage go, but something inside her (God) told her ‘not yet.’ 

There was years of dysfunction, alcoholism, betrayal and pain that needed to be healed and she felt like we were her last stop before she made the final decision to move on.

But God. I interview her on details of what was going on and what she did to walk out her and Chris’s healing journey. Today they are sharing their testimony of restoration and how they now help other marriages heal and become a testimony for God’s glory.

You will be encouraged and realize if they can heal from what they’ve walked through, God can be the author of your healing story too!

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

Support and coaching links:

Want to get coached by Janelle? 

⁠https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/WLsDub?sl=applepod

Want to get coached by Mike? 

https://watch.marriageignite.net/s/8kDtcu?sl=applepod

My #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

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