The Marriage Ignite Podcast

It’s an honor and a joy to welcome our good friend, mentor, and spiritual father — Mr. Clyde Lewis.

He loves Jesus, he’s a husband, a father, a pastor, and a prophetic coach who helps leaders and business owners discover how to walk in their God-given identity and carry kingdom authority into every area of their lives — including the marketplace.

This is one of the most important topics we could ever talk about…

Knowing your true God given Identity.

 Your identity becomes your marching order — your compass for life.

The two most important things in life are knowing who God is — and knowing who you are.

And make no mistake: Satan hates it when you discover that. Because when you do, you become unshakable.

You can find Clyde on IG and FB:

https://www.instagram.com/lewisministry/

https://www.facebook.com/clyde.lewis.92

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Support and coaching links:

• Join the Community - Marriage Ignite Mobile App: https://marriageignite.com/ignite
• Father/Son Right of Passage with Mountain Gateway: https://mountaingateway.org/wilderness-intensives/

Flourish for Wives -  Get coached by Janelle
A faith-based coaching community for women to heal, rediscover their identity in Christ, and learn to fight for their marriage in a healthy, biblical way — whether you're still together, separated, or simply know something needs to change before it gets worse.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/flourish?sl=Apple


Forge for Husbands - Get coached by Mike
Forge is a monthly, Christ-centered coaching brotherhood for men ready to stop surviving their marriage — and start leading their home the way God designed.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/forge/?sl=Apple

Janelle’s #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

⁠⁠⁠https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Mike’s #1 course for the Husband that wants to save his marriage:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/anchored-husband?sl=applepod

Our In-Home, Private Marriage Intensive Here in Arizona (The ARK) for Couples:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/ark-couples?sl=applepod

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

We get deep, raw and real in this episode as we share where we had to learn how to forgive in our own lives.

Without this critical principle nothing in your life will work. It is a STOP to all growth. While it might be one of the most difficult principles to start, it quickly becomes the easiest one to master. We need to forgive. We need to become master forgivers. 

The reason we can forgive is that Jesus Forgave us. Forgiveness is an act of faith and it’s a command not a feeling. The moment you decide to forgive – is the beginning of forgiveness. 

Marriage is one of the best training grounds for learning the power of forgiveness.

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Support and coaching links:

• Join the Community - Marriage Ignite Mobile App: https://marriageignite.com/ignite
• Father/Son Right of Passage with Mountain Gateway: https://mountaingateway.org/wilderness-intensives/

Flourish for Wives -  Get coached by Janelle
A faith-based coaching community for women to heal, rediscover their identity in Christ, and learn to fight for their marriage in a healthy, biblical way — whether you're still together, separated, or simply know something needs to change before it gets worse.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/flourish?sl=Apple


Forge for Husbands - Get coached by Mike
Forge is a monthly, Christ-centered coaching brotherhood for men ready to stop surviving their marriage — and start leading their home the way God designed.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/forge/?sl=Apple

Janelle’s #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

⁠⁠⁠https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Mike’s #1 course for the Husband that wants to save his marriage:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/anchored-husband?sl=applepod

Our In-Home, Private Marriage Intensive Here in Arizona (The ARK) for Couples:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/ark-couples?sl=applepod

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

Erica came to us 3 years ago when her marriage was in ruins. Even her closest friends told her it was time for her to let the marriage go, but something inside her (God) told her ‘not yet.’ 

There was years of dysfunction, alcoholism, betrayal and pain that needed to be healed and she felt like we were her last stop before she made the final decision to move on.

But God. I interview her on details of what was going on and what she did to walk out her and Chris’s healing journey. Today they are sharing their testimony of restoration and how they now help other marriages heal and become a testimony for God’s glory.

You will be encouraged and realize if they can heal from what they’ve walked through, God can be the author of your healing story too!

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Support and coaching links:

• Join the Community - Marriage Ignite Mobile App: https://marriageignite.com/ignite
• Father/Son Right of Passage with Mountain Gateway: https://mountaingateway.org/wilderness-intensives/

Flourish for Wives -  Get coached by Janelle
A faith-based coaching community for women to heal, rediscover their identity in Christ, and learn to fight for their marriage in a healthy, biblical way — whether you're still together, separated, or simply know something needs to change before it gets worse.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/flourish?sl=Apple


Forge for Husbands - Get coached by Mike
Forge is a monthly, Christ-centered coaching brotherhood for men ready to stop surviving their marriage — and start leading their home the way God designed.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/forge/?sl=Apple

Janelle’s #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

⁠⁠⁠https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Mike’s #1 course for the Husband that wants to save his marriage:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/anchored-husband?sl=applepod

Our In-Home, Private Marriage Intensive Here in Arizona (The ARK) for Couples:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/ark-couples?sl=applepod

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

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In marriage and life - we need to become master forgivers and we talk about why right now it matters more than ever.

Without this critical principle nothing in your life will work. 

It is a STOP to all growth. 

While it might be one of the most difficult principles to start, it quickly becomes the easiest one to master. 

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Support and coaching links:

• Join the Community - Marriage Ignite Mobile App: https://marriageignite.com/ignite
• Father/Son Right of Passage with Mountain Gateway: https://mountaingateway.org/wilderness-intensives/

Flourish for Wives -  Get coached by Janelle
A faith-based coaching community for women to heal, rediscover their identity in Christ, and learn to fight for their marriage in a healthy, biblical way — whether you're still together, separated, or simply know something needs to change before it gets worse.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/flourish?sl=Apple


Forge for Husbands - Get coached by Mike
Forge is a monthly, Christ-centered coaching brotherhood for men ready to stop surviving their marriage — and start leading their home the way God designed.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/forge/?sl=Apple

Janelle’s #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

⁠⁠⁠https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Mike’s #1 course for the Husband that wants to save his marriage:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/anchored-husband?sl=applepod

Our In-Home, Private Marriage Intensive Here in Arizona (The ARK) for Couples:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/ark-couples?sl=applepod

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

3 Habits Healthy Couples Never Tolerate…(Part 2)

Healthy marriages don’t just happen. They’re built day by day, choice by choice. 

And sometimes, it’s not just about what you do—it’s about what you refuse to do.

We share 3 more powerful habits that healthy marriages never tolerate to protect their intimacy, connection and communication.

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Support and coaching links:

• Join the Community - Marriage Ignite Mobile App: https://marriageignite.com/ignite
• Father/Son Right of Passage with Mountain Gateway: https://mountaingateway.org/wilderness-intensives/

Flourish for Wives -  Get coached by Janelle
A faith-based coaching community for women to heal, rediscover their identity in Christ, and learn to fight for their marriage in a healthy, biblical way — whether you're still together, separated, or simply know something needs to change before it gets worse.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/flourish?sl=Apple


Forge for Husbands - Get coached by Mike
Forge is a monthly, Christ-centered coaching brotherhood for men ready to stop surviving their marriage — and start leading their home the way God designed.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/forge/?sl=Apple

Janelle’s #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

⁠⁠⁠https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Mike’s #1 course for the Husband that wants to save his marriage:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/anchored-husband?sl=applepod

Our In-Home, Private Marriage Intensive Here in Arizona (The ARK) for Couples:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/ark-couples?sl=applepod

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

Healthy marriages don’t just happen. They’re built day by day, choice by choice. 

And sometimes, it’s not just about what you do—it’s about what you refuse to do.

We share 2 powerful habits that healthy marriages refuse to to in order to protect their intimacy, connection and communication.

These 2 habits alone if you start making some small, positive changes can make a massive difference in the health of your marriage.

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Support and coaching links:

• Join the Community - Marriage Ignite Mobile App: https://marriageignite.com/ignite
• Father/Son Right of Passage with Mountain Gateway: https://mountaingateway.org/wilderness-intensives/

Flourish for Wives -  Get coached by Janelle
A faith-based coaching community for women to heal, rediscover their identity in Christ, and learn to fight for their marriage in a healthy, biblical way — whether you're still together, separated, or simply know something needs to change before it gets worse.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/flourish?sl=Apple


Forge for Husbands - Get coached by Mike
Forge is a monthly, Christ-centered coaching brotherhood for men ready to stop surviving their marriage — and start leading their home the way God designed.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/forge/?sl=Apple

Janelle’s #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

⁠⁠⁠https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Mike’s #1 course for the Husband that wants to save his marriage:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/anchored-husband?sl=applepod

Our In-Home, Private Marriage Intensive Here in Arizona (The ARK) for Couples:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/ark-couples?sl=applepod

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

Your home is the primary target of the enemy. If he can disrupt peace under your roof, he can weaken your faith, strain your marriage, and even impact your children’s future.

What many couples don’t realize is how subtly the enemy slips into our homes—through conflict, distractions, busyness, and open doors we never thought twice about. The good news is, you don’t have to live on the defensive. You can rise up and fight back with the authority God has already given you.

Most of us were never taught how to war for our homes, and truthfully, this isn’t something you often hear preached on in church. But it’s time to reclaim the ground the enemy has stolen and restore your home as a dwelling place of God’s presence and peace.

Put your armor of God on and let’s get after it!

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Support and coaching links:

• Join the Community - Marriage Ignite Mobile App: https://marriageignite.com/ignite
• Father/Son Right of Passage with Mountain Gateway: https://mountaingateway.org/wilderness-intensives/

Flourish for Wives -  Get coached by Janelle
A faith-based coaching community for women to heal, rediscover their identity in Christ, and learn to fight for their marriage in a healthy, biblical way — whether you're still together, separated, or simply know something needs to change before it gets worse.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/flourish?sl=Apple


Forge for Husbands - Get coached by Mike
Forge is a monthly, Christ-centered coaching brotherhood for men ready to stop surviving their marriage — and start leading their home the way God designed.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/forge/?sl=Apple

Janelle’s #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

⁠⁠⁠https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Mike’s #1 course for the Husband that wants to save his marriage:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/anchored-husband?sl=applepod

Our In-Home, Private Marriage Intensive Here in Arizona (The ARK) for Couples:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/ark-couples?sl=applepod

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

Today we talk about what do you do when you’re in the waiting for a breakthrough in your marriage.

It may feel like you’ve been in the wilderness for a long time and it can feel discouraging but we want to equip you with 3 things you can do right now to shift the atmosphere in your situation and in your home…without stepping ahead of what God is trying to do in you and your spouse.

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Support and coaching links:

• Join the Community - Marriage Ignite Mobile App: https://marriageignite.com/ignite
• Father/Son Right of Passage with Mountain Gateway: https://mountaingateway.org/wilderness-intensives/

Flourish for Wives -  Get coached by Janelle
A faith-based coaching community for women to heal, rediscover their identity in Christ, and learn to fight for their marriage in a healthy, biblical way — whether you're still together, separated, or simply know something needs to change before it gets worse.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/flourish?sl=Apple


Forge for Husbands - Get coached by Mike
Forge is a monthly, Christ-centered coaching brotherhood for men ready to stop surviving their marriage — and start leading their home the way God designed.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/forge/?sl=Apple

Janelle’s #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

⁠⁠⁠https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Mike’s #1 course for the Husband that wants to save his marriage:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/anchored-husband?sl=applepod

Our In-Home, Private Marriage Intensive Here in Arizona (The ARK) for Couples:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/ark-couples?sl=applepod

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

Knowing how to love without an enabling any destructive habit in your spouse is unfortunately a common issue we see happen frequently and one we know a lot about.

While very marriage unique and different, creating healthy boundaries is critical and this will look different depending on your unique situation.

There were 3 key things Janelle did in our journey that helped turn my heart away from alcohol and towards her and our marriage.

Whether it’s alcohol, porn, control, anger or anything else…we cover the first steps towards healing yourself and your marriage.

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Support and coaching links:

• Join the Community - Marriage Ignite Mobile App: https://marriageignite.com/ignite
• Father/Son Right of Passage with Mountain Gateway: https://mountaingateway.org/wilderness-intensives/

Flourish for Wives -  Get coached by Janelle
A faith-based coaching community for women to heal, rediscover their identity in Christ, and learn to fight for their marriage in a healthy, biblical way — whether you're still together, separated, or simply know something needs to change before it gets worse.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/flourish?sl=Apple


Forge for Husbands - Get coached by Mike
Forge is a monthly, Christ-centered coaching brotherhood for men ready to stop surviving their marriage — and start leading their home the way God designed.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/forge/?sl=Apple

Janelle’s #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

⁠⁠⁠https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Mike’s #1 course for the Husband that wants to save his marriage:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/anchored-husband?sl=applepod

Our In-Home, Private Marriage Intensive Here in Arizona (The ARK) for Couples:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/ark-couples?sl=applepod

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

I’ve had a lot of people ask me over the years, ‘Mike, what finally softened your heart toward Janelle? What turned things around for you guys?’

And honestly, it wasn’t one giant, dramatic thing.

It was a few small, consistent shifts she made that broke down my walls and made me want to lean back in instead of pull away.

Today, we're going to share 3 super practical things you as the wife, or husband, can start doing RIGHT now that will dramatically change your connection.

👉 Hit subscribe and join us weekly as we talk all things marriage, faith, family, and healing.

Support and coaching links:

• Join the Community - Marriage Ignite Mobile App: https://marriageignite.com/ignite
• Father/Son Right of Passage with Mountain Gateway: https://mountaingateway.org/wilderness-intensives/

Flourish for Wives -  Get coached by Janelle
A faith-based coaching community for women to heal, rediscover their identity in Christ, and learn to fight for their marriage in a healthy, biblical way — whether you're still together, separated, or simply know something needs to change before it gets worse.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/flourish?sl=Apple


Forge for Husbands - Get coached by Mike
Forge is a monthly, Christ-centered coaching brotherhood for men ready to stop surviving their marriage — and start leading their home the way God designed.

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/forge/?sl=Apple

Janelle’s #1 course for the wife that wants to save her marriage: 

⁠⁠⁠https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/unwavering?sl=applepod

Mike’s #1 course for the Husband that wants to save his marriage:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/anchored-husband?sl=applepod

Our In-Home, Private Marriage Intensive Here in Arizona (The ARK) for Couples:

https://checkout.marriageignite.com/products/ark-couples?sl=applepod

Also available on Spotify and YouTube:

🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIgnite

🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6OplURQWEPUATZI0eAZACf?si=NHQKAafATKCog1wUymo-9Q

Connect with us:

📱 Instagram: ⁠@instagram.com/marriage.ignite⁠

📘 Facebook: ⁠@facebook.com/MarriageIgnite⁠

💻 Website: ⁠MarriageIgnite.com⁠