The MENtal Muscle-Up Podcast: The Cure For Mental Masturbation

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🤔 EP053 - If you’ve ever wondered why nothing you say or do seems to make things better when you’re witnessing your wife or partner have an emotional breakdown, and if offering solutions to her problems only seems to make matters worse, what is the skill we men need to practice and master to put out the emotional fires and keep the house that is our relationship from burning down right in front of our eyes?

“A small change in what you see can lead to a big change in what you do.” - James Clear

🎙️ In today’s PodWod, we be crushing our RELATIONSHIP Health & Fitness.

FACT - Every January, millions of people all over the world set a New Year’s resolution to lose weight. They want to start working out more and eating better so that they can look, feel, and perform their best. They tell themselves, “This is going to be the year!”.

Well, I’ve got news for you. No, it’s not. And you know why? Because you’re using the same fucking bullshit strategy you have every year that has failed you every year.

Unless you want to join the 70% percent of divorces that are initiated by women, it’s probably time to start looking for new ways of putting out the fires in your relationship instead of throwing gasoline on them because you simply don’t know what the fuck to do when you’re wife or partner is losing her shit.

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🤔 EP052 - If you’re one of the millions of people who say to themselves, “I need to do better” when it comes to your fitness, nutrition, or both because what you see on the scale and in the mirror makes you cringe a little, what is the single best exercise for shedding fat and building muscle so you can look, feel, and perform your best over the long term that I’ve never seen anyone doing at the gym?

“When I talk about skepticism it’s not just questioning everything that comes AT you it’s questioning everything that comes FROM you - meaning we all have long-held beliefs, and they may be incorrect.” - Philip Pape, The Wits & Weights Podcast

🎙️ In today’s PodWod, we be crushing our PHYSICAL Health & Fitness.

FACT - One thing that breaks my heart as much as anything is seeing members in the gym that I haven’t seen for months or years who have totally fallen off the wagon. They’ve put on a ton of weight, and when I talk to them the shame they feel is palpable.

What sucks even more is that when I hear them say, “I just need to do better.”, a part of me dies inside because I know that like most people, they’re going to continue to fail because they haven’t yet realized that they are not the problem. They keep failing because they keep using the same approach, and we all know the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

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🤔 EP051 - If you’re an entrepreneur with the goal of disrupting an entire industry because you’re tired of seeing people suffer from the bullshit advice they get from the so-called gurus, what is the unseen war we must wage and win over and over again to avoid taking our dreams to the grave with us?

“Success is not a goal to reach or a finish line to cross. It is a system to improve, an endless process to refine.” - James Clear

🎙️ In today’s PodWod, we be crushing our PURPOSE Health & Fitness.

FACT - One of the things that really sucks about losing weight is the longer you wait to do it the harder it is to get started. On top of that, there’s the obvious downfall of the amount of weight you put on increasing in proportion to the time you waste deciding to take action.

When it comes to getting our message out there and doing what we love not only for profit but just as importantly for Purpose, the same rule applies. The longer you put shit off out of fear of failure the more your failure compounds, and one day you’ll wake up and realize that the work you have to do is substantially more than the work you should have done.

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🤔 EP050 - If you’re the type of guy who when faced with the reality that you need to make some changes, you say to yourself, “I just need to do better”, and yet you’ve been saying that for years and not much has actually gotten better, what is the very first and hardest step you need to take before you can ever have a hope in hell of changing that which you desperately want and need to change in your life?

“You do control the thoughts that follow an emotion, and you have a great deal of say in how you react to an emotion - as long as you are aware of it.” - Travis Bradberry

🎙️ In today’s PodWod, we be crushing our EMOTIONAL Health & Fitness.

FACT - There is one thing that drives me crazier than anything when I am teaching a group fitness class - when people refuse to listen to my instructions. Specifically, I have people who need to be dialing shit down but they refuse to listen, insist on playing at an intensity level way beyond what they are capable of only to quit early on the workout, or even worse, complain that it was too hard and never come back.

Both inside and outside of the gym, unless and until we are honest with ourselves about where we’re at, when we need to dial it up and when we need to dial it back, and most importantly when we need help doing both, we're going to remain stranded on the lonely island of desperation wondering how the fuck we are ever going to get home to the truth of who we are.

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🤔 EP049 - If you’re a man who is consistently confused, irritated, and frustrated with the disconnect between you and your woman, what is the painful truth we men need to accept about the woman we love if we want to exist in a kingdom where we can rule as King and Queen working together as one?

“Men and women are different but the problem with humans is that every difference is made into a discriminatory process.” - Sadhguru 

🎙️ In today’s PodWod, we be crushing our RELATIONSHIP Health & Fitness.

FACT - As a Trainer, I can whole-heartedly attest to the fact that the majority of people who fail to lose weight will insist that what they are doing in terms of fitness and nutrition isn’t working when we all know what the real problem is. 

The real problem isn't the diet or the training program. It’s the individual’s unwillingness to see the facts and accept the truth that THEY are the problem, not the diet or workout program.

The same goes for relationships. I have made the mistake of thinking that my partner - her moods, her behavior, her emotional rollercoasters - are the reasons why I cheated or why it didn’t work out.

At the end of the day, there are truths we need to accept as individuals and as men, not the least of which is that if we want anything to change, that change begins with us and what we tell ourselves about the challenges we face in our relationship.

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🤔  If you’re a man who’s willing to admit that your physical health plays a critical role in your overall quality of life, today’s episode is for you as we be asking and answering the following MMU Question of the Day…

What level are you playing at when it comes to how your body looks, feels, and performs?

“Physical fitness is not only one of the most important keys to a healthy body, it is the basis of dynamic and creative intellectual activity.”  - John F. Kennedy

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FACT - If awareness is the first step towards improving every area of our lives, what are the key components of awareness? Truth and transparency.

One of my favorite quotes of all time is from Richard Feynman who said this:

“The first principle is that you must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool.”

Regular review reflection will lead us to a crossroads, one where we have a choice to continue on the path we are currently on or choose another. Without regular review and reflection, we are traveling in the dark, not knowing the direction we are headed or where we’ll end up.

I don’t know about you, but when I wake up in the morning and reflect on the life I have lived and the life I am living, I want to not only be crystal fucking clear on where I am headed, but crystal fucking clear that the path I am on is going to take me exactly where I want to go.

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🤔  If you’ve even remotely contemplated the idea that you have a life purpose and that one of the secrets to living a successful life is finding and fulfilling that purpose, today’s episode is for you as we be asking and answering the following:

MMU Question of the Day - What level are you playing at when it comes to living a life that is on purpose with purpose?

“Without knowing his life-purpose a man lives a weakened, impotent existence, perhaps eventually becoming even sexually impotent, or prone to mechanical and disinterested sex.” - David Deida

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FACT - Nothing is worse than an impotent man. I’m not talking physically. I’m talking about the man who can’t get it up when it comes to having something he is working towards that is bigger than himself. A man who never experiences the emotional orgasm that comes (pun intended) through creation alone. A man who simply goes through the motions day in and day out denying himself and his loved ones of the gifts only he can give the world.

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🤔  Unless you want to be blindsided by a wife who wants to divorce you or a depression that will cripple you, you’ll want to listen to today’s episode in its entirety as we be asking and answering the following:

MMU Question of the Day - What level are you playing at when it comes to the one thing that stands at the core of every relationship you have, every business venture you’ll embark on, and every diet and training program you’ll sign up for? I am, of course, speaking of your level of EMOTIONAL Health & Fitness.

“When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion.” - Dale Carnegie

🎙️ In today’s PodWod, we be crushing our EMOTIONAL Health & Fitness.

FACT - I cannot tell you how much it breaks my heart that the world ignores how important emotional health and fitness are. I can’t tell you the amount of harm I have caused to others and myself that, after careful examination with the help of professionals much smarter than me, could have been avoided if only I had the awareness, the tools, and the support to improve my level of emotional health and fitness.

Men especially are guilty of skipping over emotion and going straight for logic. While this has proven over and over again to be a recipe for disaster in romantic relationships, the damage that stems from a lack of emotional health and fitness is most destructive in the relationship a man has with himself, for it is that relationship that determines the quality of everything in our lives

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🤔  What level are you playing at when it comes to cultivating and sustaining strong and healthy relationships with your partner, your Brothers, your family, and your Self? 

“The quality of your life ultimately depends on the quality of your relationships.”  - Esther Perel

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FACT - We all know that building a strong, healthy body requires two key ingredients: what you feed your body and how you move your body. 

Relationships are no different. The words you say and the actions you take will determine how strong or weak your relationship is.

I don’t know about you, but whether it’s the strength of my body or the strength of my relationships, putting in the work to make sure I’m doing what it takes to have both be as strong as possible is some of the most important work we will ever do.

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🤔 Since men continue to fall behind, slip through cracks, and be demonized in some of the most damaging ways imaginable, what do we need to do on an individual, cultural, and global level to help raise men back up before it’s too late?

“It is in the power of every individual to do that which the community as a whole is powerless to effect.” - William Thomas Stead

🎙️ In today’s PodWod, we be crushing a hardcore compound lift of Relationship, Emotional, and Purpose Health & Fitness.

Believe me when I say I know how hard it can be to find a good brother you can trust - someone you can be all of yourself with, someone who you can trust will be all of themselves with you, and someone who is willing to go to battle with you in the most intimate and life-changing ways.

But as one of my dearest Brothers DP once said, “Good people are hard to find, but they shouldn’t be because they’re everywhere.”

I would alter that slightly to say good men are hard to find but they shouldn’t be because they’re everywhere.

What I would suggest is rather than trying to find good men to be around - men you can trust, rely on, and be inspired by - the best way to find those men is to become that man yourself and see who is willing and ready to follow.

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Shout-out to my tow dear Brothers, George and J Stamatelos

• George - IG | IBI EP084 (Spotify | Apple)
• J Stamateols | Website | IBI EP089 (Spotify | Apple)

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