Hey Momma, what happens when your grown kids spread their wings, and their new home is in a different time zone? The distance can leave a tender ache in your heart.

In this heartfelt conversation, I’m joined by Joanne McHugh, creator of Things Your Mom Should Have Told You, to talk about how to stay emotionally close even when the miles stretch long. We’ll explore how to accept the move, manage expectations, and keep your connection strong through faith and intentional rhythms.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Things Your Mom Should Have Told You newsletter

Free Guide: Journaling Through Transitional Grief here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

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Are you feeling weighed down by the struggles of your adult kids? In this episode, Pamela shares six soul-care practices to help Christian moms move from overwhelm to peace. With insights from Dr. Alison Cook, you’ll learn how to honor your needs, process emotions through God’s truth, and find rest in His presence. Momma, you don’t have to carry it all. Come be reminded that God sees you, loves you, and is ready to restore your weary soul.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

CP Christmas Shopping Guide here

Free Guide: Journaling Through Transitional Grief here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

Do you ever find yourself spiraling into worst-case scenarios about your adult child? In this episode, Pamela sits down with Master Coach Jennifer Collins, host of The Almost Empty Nest Podcast, to talk about why our minds default to fear and how to stop catastrophizing. Together they explore practical tools to quiet anxious thoughts, discern real concerns from imagined ones, and lean into God’s truth instead of panic.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Jennifer's Free Master Class here

Free Guide: Journaling Through Transitional Grief here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

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Launching a child can leave even the strongest momma feeling undone. In this episode, we unpack transitional grief, what it is, how to recognize it, and why it’s a normal part of the empty nest journey. You’ll learn practical ways to acknowledge your emotions, healthy strategies to cope, and how trusting God can bring comfort in the middle of change.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Free Guide: Journaling Through Transitional Grief here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

Review + Rate podcast here

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Author and creator of Empty Nest Blessed, Suzy Mighell, joins me for an uplifting conversation about finding faith and joy in the empty nest. Suzy shares what inspired her new book, how God has met her in this season, and how moms can experience His presence during times of transition. Whether you’re grieving the quiet or longing for fresh purpose, Suzy reminds us that the empty nest doesn’t have to feel empty; it can be a place filled with God’s comfort, joy, and new beginnings.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Preorder Empty Nest Blessed here

Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

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What do you do when your adult child says, “I’m not sure I believe in God anymore”?

In this episode, we explore how Christian moms can respond with grace, compassion, and trust. Instead of panicking or preaching, you’ll learn why listening is the greatest gift you can give and how it opens the door for God to keep working in your child’s heart.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

Review + Rate podcast here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

If you’ve ever struggled to set boundaries with your adult child, you’re not alone. Healthy boundaries with adult children aren’t about control; they’re about love, respect, and connection. In this episode, I’m sharing six phrases and behaviors to avoid so you can communicate clearly, protect your relationship, and honor God in the process. Learn how to set boundaries with your grown kids in a way that builds trust, strengthens your faith, and creates lasting connections.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

CP Friday Favorites Newsletter here

Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

Review + Rate podcast here

Follow Pamela on Instagram here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

What if saying “no” could actually bring you closer to your grown kids? In this episode, discover why healthy, biblical boundaries can deepen connection, protect your peace, and create the space where love grows best.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Christian Parenting's Friday Favorites Newsletter here

Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

Review + Rate podcast here

Follow Pamela on Instagram here

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Pamela's website with free resources here

Hey Momma, today we’ve got something special for you: a bonus episode straight from the

Pardon the Mess podcast!

Every Monday, host Courtney DeFeo shares a short prayer to help you lift up your kids. This

year’s series follows Christian Parenting’s brand new prayer journal, A Great Cloud of

Witnesses. 

Each week highlights a biblical hero of the faith, paired with Scripture-based prayers for your

kids. Here is a sneak peek into week one:

This first week is all about Noah—a man of incredible faith and obedience. While the world

around him turned away from God, Noah walked in righteousness. Building the ark probably

looked foolish to everyone else, but Noah trusted God’s word even when it didn’t make sense.

That’s the kind of faith we want for our kids: to listen to God’s voice over any others and walk

confidently with Him even when it means standing apart.

If you love this episode and don’t have your copy of A Great Cloud of Witnesses yet, it’s not too

late to get yours! Go ChristianParenting.org to get your copy and follow along. And don’t forget

to tune in to Pardon the Mess every Monday for more prayer episodes. 

Order A Great Cloud of Witnesses today here

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When motherhood shifts in the empty nest, how do you steady your soul? Author Mariel Davenport shares her TEND method and fresh encouragement from Scripture to help you walk with God through seasons of change.

HELPFUL LINKS: 

Preorder Mariel's book, Ruth: Finding Grace in the Unexpected, here

Mariel's Free 4 Week Devotional Through Ruth here

Free Guide: 10 Things Not to Say to Your Adult Child here

Free Connection Call with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here

Take the free 2-minute Quiz here

Review + Rate podcast here

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