Stephanie Cornelisse is a female embodiment mentor and empowers high achieving woman, who are stuck in their heads to move back into flow & ease and be more connected to their bodies.

Initially this journey started as self discovery having suffered sexual abuse as a child.

Stephanie has worked with different plant medicines and is an experienced Kambo practitioner. And more recently is delving into the science of the brain and how physics works with energy - what the connection is between it all.

Stephanie also has a deep love for indigenous wisdom in prophecies which has allowed her to understand so much more about life and what is actually happening at this current point in time.

She loves speaking into the feminine and masculine energetics because it is a vital part we are all missing when it comes to our evolution.

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For human beings that decide to take themselves on and embark on a personal and/or spiritual growth journey it can be a trying time for lots of reasons.

Very often in life we get pissed off with the people in our life when they continue to treat us as we were, perhaps even as a teenager, without them noticing the changes that have taken place within us.

However its not their fault. Most likely we have expected those people to just 'get it' 'get us' without taking the time to properly enrol them into who the new us is, and what the new us are wanting to achieve.

If we take the time to have those conversations it will pay off with dividends.

Another great way to improve your relationships is showing up with integrity and taking 100% responsibility.

We all tend to view relationships as 50/50, and if someone does or says something to upset us, we expect them to make the first move and apologise. When this doesn't happen we feel indignant, and the need to be right and justified often leads to strained relationships and uncomfortable conversations.

If we can take 100% responsibility (as long as we are protecting ourselves and don't have porous boundaries) and show up in conversations with the people in our life explaining why we have 'been an asshole' we can lower their defences and create a captive audience to the conversation.

You might think this sounds weird and counter intuitive especially if someone has upset us. However people usually upset us because they are upset about something themselves, and the merry go round continues where nobody talks, potentially for years.

If you can have that conversation taking 100% responsibility and showing up with integrity, the other very often will reciprocate and show up in the same way. Can you imagine the vulnerable space you just created which allowed for a completely different conversation, and a completely different result?

Life changing, and relationships getting back to where you want them, in a much more positive place.

Being happy has got to be worth more to you than being right.

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Guy and Ilan Ferdman are brothers originally born in Israel and emigrated to America as young boys.

They discovered personal growth from a young age in a bid to be the best versions of themselves. Guys journey started with depression whereas Ilan hated feeling like a loser. Always ambitious Ilan started his own financial mortgage business in his 20's with Guy though went bankrupt after the economic crisis of 2008.

Guy and Ilan went in different directions until 2011 when Guy found an online route to earn money through affiliate marketing and Ilan joined him. This business went onto generate 6 figures and through an event that Guy attended allowed destiny to play its part for their future. This event sowed the seeds for their own coaching business.

They hit the reset button and started all over again. Challenges aside they built their brand and business successfully.

Having spent $1 Million collectively on their own personal growth they had to acknowledge they still kept repeating old mistakes. It was through this awareness they realised there was a missing piece.

This awareness was spurred on when Guy went through severe heartbreak in 2017 and met his now wife. Their personal coach at the time introduced them to femininity as they were very masculine and the 'wife to be' introduced Guy to an energy worker who completely changed his life. This man introduced a level of healing to Guy that he had never experienced before.

Fast forward to 'pandemic time' the brothers decided to take a sabbatical for a month to rest and feel into any intuition or creativity that came up in terms of where they wanted the business wanted to grow. This is where their latest energy healing coaching vision and business was born.

So now the focus is on energy work (still with foundations of mindset work) to allow for the deep healing that humanity desperately needs. Traditional methods of therapy and mindset work simply allows the trauma and patterns to keep coming up and playing out time and time again.

They began to realise there is a world beneath the world that we know of with 5 senses. It's multi dimensional and the human body has a multitude of energy centres and body systems.

After they both went through their own energy healing and transformation they can now track and read energy in peoples systems. This allows them to feel whats happening in other peoples energetic bodies and nervous system's aswell as their own all the while promoting healing through co-regulation of each others nervous systems.

We all have this ability through awareness and practice and allows each individual to become aware of their own stuck and stagnant energy. This awareness within your body allows the body to naturally metabolise the stuck energy so the body can naturally and without effort release energy thats been stuck there for a lifetime or even past lifetimes.

In terms of mindset, the work tends to focus on why did mind respond in that way? And the stories that we all have around things that happened in our past. Our natural mind response might be to shut down or get angry. What we never think about is that this thing that happened when you were four, that you created a story around, is still dictating your life today as an adult. You are still responding from the child's perspective.

The mind is a protector and not a healer. The body heals and can self regulate but our mind stops that. Allowing those protectors to be there and thanking them for all they do, then frees the body to get on and do what it is naturally great at.

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Todays episode has been a tough decision for me record as its a very vulnerable share and involves another human being.

Ultimately as a coach I know my story and share will not only help my own healing but will also help others who have been in similar situations, so here it is.

Having done a lot of personal development and healing and faced tough decisions that have allowed me to grow, becoming a victim of domestic abuse at the ripe old age of 48 was not in my roadmap. Especially when the person that created the abuse was a friend and musical partner of 25 years.

Aside from the deep hurt, betrayal, depression. grief and sadness I felt, it highlighted to me the personal healing I still needed to do for myself. It was clear my self love and worth is still not where it needs to be. If it was I wouldn't have put up with horrible behaviour and verbal abuse for so long.

It happened multiple times. I made excuses, I made allowances for the traumas he had suffered as a child and teenager. I had such a desire to be the person that could guide him to a place of more peace, that I overrode my own emotional needs to the detriment of his. I thought he wanted to heal, however it turns out he cannot or will not take responsibility for his actions and continues to play the victim and blame everyone else.

Putting others needs before my own is a pattern I run and was developed from a very young child when my own needs were not met. And we all have our own patterns. We all had times when our parents or care givers were not just not able to meet us energetically and emotionally. Its not their fault, they did the best they could with the knowledge and tools they had. I too would have not met my own sons needs when he was small, not on purpose, simply I did not know any better. Most humans do not know any better. We have never been taught and told the fundamentals of human beings really caring for each other and society constructs quite simply do not allow for it either.

If this episode helps just one person remove themselves from a negative or verbally abusive relationship then its worth recording and sharing.

If you want to know more about Mel Clarke, she is also a Life Purpose Coach & Reiki Healer helping people come out of chaos to live guilt free and find their purpose driven direction in life.

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Daniel Glyde runs his own coaching company called Positive Masculinity where he is passionate about helping men in mid life reclaim their lives, reduce stress and anxiety and live with more purpose.

Daniel wasn't always a coach and until fairly recently worked for the BBC in a 20 year career as a sports broadcaster, a job he really loved and was envied for, but no longer served him.

Like so many people 2020 was a year of change for Daniel, a year where he had time and space to reflect on his life. He realised he had been suffering with chronic anxiety for at least 10 years and had been masking it with drink, drugs and over working. So this needed to stop and with the help of some coaches and counselling Daniel realised his privileged job with the BBC was no longer serving his highest good.

Once Daniel was able to work on himself with mindfulness he made the choice to take voluntary redundancy, and with the help of a coach was able to release himself from the 20 year identity of being a BBC journalist. This was so freeing for him and then came a choice to live more sustainably off grid with a lot of land in a more peaceful and calm existence.

Daniel is now passionate about helping men who are suffering burnout, stress, anxiety and without purpose find their best selves. Over the last 20 years or so white straight men have felt vilified in society as a multi diverse society has been created. This has lead to much higher suicide rates and Daniel is on a mission to show how positive masculinity is a benefit to society as a whole.

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Nigel Tinsdale was a financial services advisor and ran his own business for many years. That was until he started to fully understand how corrupt the financial system was and eventually he could no longer tolerate being in that profession.

On top of this Nigel has been very curious about all types of corruption over the last 20 years, and like the many millions of awakening souls on this planet is now struggling to be part of a system that is in fact still slavery.

Nigel wanted to share his vision on this podcast of the possibility of a world without money. You cannot worry about the how, and simply envision the beauty and benefits of what that world would look and feel like.

This will be a far reach for most people right now, but whats the harm in creating that vision for yourself. The more people that can see this the quicker it will happen allowing everyone a fairer and happier life.

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Choice or decision?

Whats the difference?

A choice is simply what you choose to do or be or have. I choose to be spiritual, why? because I choose to be spiritual. I choose to live in England, why? because I choose to live in England.

A decision is deciding between different things. I decided to eat the vanilla ice cream because I prefer it to chocolate. I decided to go to Italy because I prefer it to Greece.

Do you get the distinction?

In our bodies it's our mind that decides and our heart that chooses.

Those crazy things that feel like a 'Hell yes' which sometimes you carry through on ...but very often don't and let the logic of the mind influence you to decide to make the logical or safe decision.

This is also very like that gut feeling we get when faced with choices or life events. Every time you ignore your gut it's usually the wrong choice, as it became a decision in that moment.

And when you make a choice, it WILL take you closer to the alignment of who you truly are.

That alignment might seem negative to begin with whilst the old stuff that no longer serves you breaks away and that is as it should be and is perfect.

Test it next time and see how your body or heart feels when making your next choice :)

If you want to know more about Mel Clarke, she is also a Life Purpose Coach & Reiki Healer helping people come out of chaos to find their purpose driven direction in life, as well as living guilt free lives.

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Language is a funny old thing. Used in the right way it can be very uplifting and empowering, and used in the wrong way can be negative, stressful and disempowering.

Eg. I should be further in my career, or I should have a husband by now, or I should have kids by now and it goes on.

How about replacing 'I should....' with 'I get to...' I

2 - Try replacing the word 'but' with 'and'

A classic example of this is 'I love you, but.... ' Using that one word completely negates the bit of the sentence that came before it and puts the other person on the defense. 

3 - And stop saying 'I have to...' and start saying 'I get too...'

Eg. Replace 'I have to go to work so I can pay the bills!' with 'I get to go to work so I can easily pay my bills!'

This immediately makes all the things we get to do, feel more positive and like we have a choice, rather than overwhelmed and having no time.

Have fun with this and try and watch yourself as if you are watching a character in a movie....when you catch yourself you can be aware of it and change it the next time

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Just a little ramble whilst signing off Season 4 , and 2022.

Reflecting on 2022, in terms of how it's been challenging for lots of people around the globe.

Also highlighting how some really positive things have happened as a result of a greater awareness and spirituality. Communities forming and helping each other, growing your own food, and drinking clean water, whilst showing kindness to each other.

Happy holidays to one and all, and heres to a much lighter and more positive 2023. 

If you want to know more about Mel Clarke, the host of The Never Settle   podcast Mel is also a Life Purpose Coach & Reiki Healer helping people come out of chaos to find their purpose driven direction in life, as well as living guilt free lives. 

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Jake is wise beyond his 23 years and in this episode talks about his journey so far.

Jake decided to not go the usual University route, due to some disappointments,  and instead went into an online marketing full time job after college.

Always an avid interest in TV, film and music this has influenced his journey to a point. And then applying for an apprecticeship with Google, which he'd forgotten about, saw him secure 1 of 17 places against 4500 other applicants. 

As amazing as this opportunity was for him, Lockdown played a detriment in both not being able to complete living in London, and suffering like millions of others in terms of working from home and suffering with anxiety. 

However he was offered a permanent job at Google, again another rarity from the apprenticeship stance, and moved into sales rather than marketing which ultimately did not suit his skills and passions. 

He left Google after 3 years with no other job lined up, because he needed to for his own sanity. After a few months of chilling and enjoying himself he asked me about completing the Ultimate Contribution Uncovered (UCU) pathway, because he had no idea what he wanted to do with his life.

I am an accredited UCU facilitator and this pathway is fantastic for people who have lost where they are in life, or have come out of chaos which has altered their direction, and they want to live their life with a sense of purpose and have a clear vision for their life that resonates for them and their heart. 

So Jake completed the pathway and loved it. In the middle of doing this a friend of Jakes from Google asked him to help out with some work he had taken on, which has since turned into a partnership and is producing an amazing opportunity for them both. He cannot comment anymore about it at this time as its too new. 

This conversation highlights how Jake see's and continues to learn about the world, and he highlights the power of allowing things to flow with inspired action, to make the right things happen in life.

If you want to know more about Mel Clarke, the host of The Never Settle   podcast Mel is also a Life Purpose Coach & Reiki Healer  helping   people come out of chaos to find their purpose driven direction in  life.

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