Margaret Marcuson is an ordained minister, author, coach and longtime family practitioner. In this episode she shares the difference between leadership and administration, as well as what to do if you are an overfunctioner.

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Sustainable Ministry: How to Lead (and When to Nap)* by Margaret J. Marcuson

Leaders Who Last: Sustaining Yourself and Your Ministry* by Margaret J. Marcuson

Money and Your Ministry: Balance the Books While Keeping Your Balance* by Margaret J. Marcuson

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Margaret Marcuson is an ordained minister, author, coach and longtime family practitioner. In this episode she discusses her three-part definition of self-differentiation and shares a great technique for lowering anxiety in meetings.

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Sustainable Ministry: How to Lead (and When to Nap)* by Margaret J. Marcuson

Leaders Who Last: Sustaining Yourself and Your Ministry* by Margaret J. Marcuson

Money and Your Ministry: Balance the Books While Keeping Your Balance* by Margaret J. Marcuson

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Margaret Marcuson is an ordained minister, author, coach and longtime family practitioner. In this episode she shares how she first got into family systems theory and what she learned when studying with Edwin Friedman.

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Home Page - Margaret Marcuson

Sustainable Ministry: How to Lead (and When to Nap)* by Margaret J. Marcuson

Leaders Who Last: Sustaining Yourself and Your Ministry* by Margaret J. Marcuson

Money and Your Ministry: Balance the Books While Keeping Your Balance* by Margaret J. Marcuson

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Self-definition is essential to leadership through self-differentiation. This episode unpacks the challenges and benefits.

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Resisting Definition — Center for Action and Contemplation by Cassidy Hall.

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The Family Systems Concept of Symmetry will help you understand the unseen emotional process that increases anxiety and makes change difficult. This episode explains how you can recognize it and what you can do about it to lead as a non-anxious presence.

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Generation to Generation: Family Process in Church and Synagogue by Edwin Friedman*

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The Family Systems Concept of Symmetry will help you understand the unseen emotional process that increases anxiety and makes change difficult. This episode explains it in understandable terms.

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Generation to Generation: Family Process in Church and Synagogue
by Edwin Friedman*

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If you want to lead through self-differentiation, you need to understand the difference between values and ideology. This episode covers that and what to do with it.

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The Best Decision-Makers Are Value-Driven But Not Ideologically Committed - Admired Leadership

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Leading as a non-anxious presence is hard. This episode shows how you can increase your capacity in this and all aspects of your life.

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Don’t Get Too Comfortable. Your Quality of Life Depends On It by Moshe Bar

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Self-distancing is a way to better self-differentiate in anxious situations. This episode explains what that is and how to do it.

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Distanced self-talk changes how people conceptualize the self by Izzy Gainsburg and Ethan Cross

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Relationship systems, like people, only have so much energy. This episode will help you understand how this works and what you can do about it.

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Why Groups Choose What Doesn't Work - by Kathleen Smith

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