The Potential State Podcast

All of us need pockets of Mastery, or what we call "rock star" moments, in order to give us energy, vitality and strength for the rest of the week. 
In the lockdown of Corona feeling such mastery is more challenging. 
In this video Galit and I explain the importance of finding mastery for yourself, celebrating mastery for your partner, normalizing non-mastery and leveraging the Corona reality in order to develop new masteries. Examples are given from our marriage and practical tips will help you cherish and realize mastery in your relationship. 

Link to the original Rock Star episode: 
http://podcast.potentialstate.com/244426/1728487-live-the-rock-star-life-today

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Most of us don't know how to approach conflict - we either avoid it or explode in it. In this talk, I share what I've learned about conflict managment and how you can learn to better manifest the conflicts in your life for personal and relational growth. Examples are given from my couple therapy clinic and my personal life. Practical tips are given to help you learn to use conflict for growth.

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In times of fear, uncertainty and pandemic, most couples are at risk for more conflict, trauam and pain. Couples that are isolated at home with young children are even more at risk for anger, burnout, despair and agression.
It is especially important in times like these for couples to cleave to 2 essential abilities:
1. Play.
2. Ownursh!t - full personal responsibility of one's shadow parts and negative behaviors.

In this special episode, Galit and Assael share from their theory and personal experiences to give you practical tools to embrace play and ownursh!t in these times.

link to the episode on play is the lube of life.

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Sometimes we get FOMO or stuck when faced with a dilemma.
Yet there is a huge growth opportunity under every dilemma.
In this talk, I describe what question lies underneath every dilemma and how you can use it to manifest growth in your life.
Examples are given from the clinic and my personal life.

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In this special talk for International Women's Day, Galit Romanelli explains why it is crucial for women to reclaim their voices and for men to "lean out" to give women the space they need. 
#reclaim
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We tend to expect others to be our best lovers.
This is a result of our upbringing and a lack of open communication about sensuality and sexuality.
In this talk I propose that you aspire to be your own best lover of all time. You first need to learn about your own enjoyment and how to please yourself. Then share that knowledge with your partner.
In this talk explain this concept through examples from my clinic and my life.
Practical tips are given on how to become your own best lover of all time!

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Some of us tend to protect ourselves with cynicism and sarcasm. 
While these two behaviors seem "funny" and "harmless", they actually hurt relationship and can confuse your children. 
In this talk I explain why people hide behind these behaviors, what is gained and the prices paid. Examples are given from the clinic and my life. 
Practical tips will help you dare to be more vulnerable and lower the levels of sarcasm in your relationship. 

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Finally a "real" couple talking about "real issues" without editing.

Join Galit and Assael As they discuss openly the concept of taking responsibility ("I got it") in intimate, committed relationships.
Discussing concepts from the world of psychotherapy, NLP, improvisation, communication, systems thinking, and gender, they examine and discuss this idea of "I got it" in relationships.
As always, the discussion is live, and full of jabs, passive aggressive, banter, play and love.
They share examples from their marriage and include practical tips.
Come in and listen!

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As mortals, we fear death so we lie to ourselves and see the world as the same: Every day is like the previous day, and our work, family and kids are just the same as yesterday.
But the truth is: We're always one step behind life!
Every day is actually a brand new experience, filled with new interactions and possibilities.
We can either ignore this truth or we can open ourselves up to the exciting reality (and anxiety) that the new days bring!
Improvisation skills are the best tool to help us "catch up" with life.

In this talk, I explore this topic through examples from my personal and professional life.
Practical tips will help you be on the same page with life.

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We tend to argue with our partner "what really happened".
Many hours are spent fighting over who said what, who was first, what actually happened.
But the truth is: "Who Cares?"
Unless you're a judge or a police officer, the facts don't matter in intimate relationships.

In this talk, I explain why the subjective experience of partners is much more important than the objective truth.
Examples are given from the clinic and my personal life.
Practical tips are shared on how to move from objective one up/one down, to subjective eye-level discussions.

www.potentialstate.com
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-other-side-relationships
http://podcast.potentialstate.com/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXwdZhwQFgUcRQgZoI_L2Uw
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