It's not fatigue. Or loss of libido. Or being busy. Here are the real reasons why. Plus, how to ensure your sex life stays intact through pregnancy, birth and through early childhood

The Real Reason Couples Stop Having Sex After Children

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Sex is medicine.  
 As Director for the Center of Underfucked Disease Control, the CUFDC, I am constantly looking at what makes the best sex, and giving people the prescriptions they need to elevate their sex lives.  
 I’m the best doctor ever. And one of the only ones who shows people how to heal themselves.  
 Did you know you can find God up your ass? And that eating ejaculate makes you smarter and cures depression? That daily cervical orgasms keep you in a state of spiritual bliss?  
 You would know that if you’ve been living in Anami Land for a while. If not, let me give you a tour around the place.  
 Let’s talk about the illustrious act of 69.  In this episode:Absorbing ejaculate to tap your creative geniusBalancing your yin and yang energiesHelping your partner to own and love themselvesYour sexual duty to adore your partner’s genitalsThe Fountain of Youth between your legs In my Coming Together for Couples Salon for creating conscious relationships and quantum sex:  You’ll learn: Sexual reflexology of the yoni and lingam My prescription guide for different sexual positions to heal various ailments Tantric and Taoist techniques to harness your sexual energy and use it for healing, rejuvenation and creative genius How to have multiple, full-body and energy orgasms Supercock stamina techniques for men Amplifying masculine and feminine polarity to increase your chemistry attraction: going from buddies to headboard slammers And all my secrets to coming togetherSignup now!

The Healing Power of 69

Well-F**ked All Stars Jeff and Jen have been married for 30 years.  They found my work last year and have been on an Anami pilgrimage ever since!  They also happen to be endurance athletes. When they heard my philosophy of multi-hour and multi-day sex dates, it was game on! You’ll hear them share their story of turning around their relationship of three decades, how they become ultra-sex marathoners and what a 5-day sex date looks like. In this episode: What’s a typical day on a 5-day sex date? Sex as an extreme sport Secrets of slow sex Orgasm without ejaculation and semen retention 100 orgasms in one session Owning being the hottest woman in the roomOvercoming the Madonna/whore dichotomy Reaching age 50 and starting over sexually Jeff and Jen kicked off their Anami Land journey with the Coming Together for Couples Salon last year, which is now open for registration.  This is my 10-week online signature program for creating conscious relationships and gourmet sex. You’ll learn: How to have full-body and energy orgasmsBuilding Supercock male stamina so he can last for hoursHow to achieve the deeper, life-changing vaginal orgasms for women: G-Spot and cervicalSexual reflexology of the genitalsTantra 101Full guided tutorials on yoni and lingam massageMy prescriptions for healing using sexual positionsBusting out of the buddy rut to create sizzling chemistry And much more!Signup now!

How to Have a 5-Day Sex Date

Well-F**ked All Stars Alexis and Mitchell made 2023 their year of Anami.  They’ve implemented pretty much every element of my philosophy and teachings into their lives and bed. Then they took it to the next level, Anami-style, by committing to six months of daily sex:  “It started as a 180-day pact, and now it’s just a way of living.” Before you protest, yes they have children: three of them!  And yet they still have sex every day—usually twice a day—with multi-hour sex sessions and the occasional “quickie” at 45 minutes.  We talk:180 days of sex: WITH THREE CHILDRENFucking your reality into existence: Financial abundance and career advancement via your bed36 orgasms a day x 180 daysWhen semen retention becomes essential for sexual growth  Orgasm telepathy Sunday sessions: hour-long lingam and yoni massagesAnal orgasms and anal enlightenment Forgoing alcohol and TV in pursuit of gourmet sex Women testing menOn morning sex: “You can’t fuck the world if you don’t fuck in the morning.”Reignite the sizzling-hot passion in your relationship!  In the Coming Together for Couples Salon, we explore:How to break out of being “buddies” and bring back the guttural passion with your partnerKeeping sexual chemistry hotNatural laws of attractionHow to use different sex acts to tap into different emotional and healing qualitiesHow to shift unconscious patterns that keep repeating once and for all, so that they never repeatSpecific tips and tricks for irresistibility, orgasm and attractionHow to channel orgasmic and creative energy into everyday life
Registration is NOW OPEN! Check out the salon here.

180 Days of Sex

Last week we talked about the 5 Sexiest Things a Man Can Do.  
 This week, we’re all about the women.  
 What makes a woman irresistible?  
 What are the qualities of the feminine that speak to the primal, archetypal masculine, turning him on and bringing him to his knees?  
 What brings out his guttural manliness that inspires him to throw her over his shoulder and ravish her?  
 In this episode:The superpower of surrender Necessary life skills for women: vaginal hand jobs and deep throatingJust be hotSeparating the girls form the women and the clitoris from the vaginaThe most seductive feminine quality Death by a thousand cunts Cock love and cultivating cockfidence 
Join my free 7-day Sex Cleanse for Couples!  Every woman can f**k her man into a new, better, ideal, full-bodied Supercock.  Every man can f**k his woman into a sexually powerful, gushing, orgasming, well-f**ked woman. Every couple can have cosmic-connecting orgasms, with an off-the-charts libido at any age and stage of life.  Are you ready? In this 7-day relationship renewal sex cleanse, you and your partner will explore:How to keep the simmer going 24/7The beauty of her G-SpotPowerful stamina techniques for himSquirting 101My favorite weekly connecting date
I'll see you in there. 

The 5 Sexiest Things a Woman Can Do

The seduction guide for men.  
I guarantee that the following techniques have opened many a heart and legs, bringing them to their knees, and giving them deep, life-changing orgasms. These truly are the keys to the queendom.  
I can give Neil Strauss a run for his money with the Anami Game Protocol.  
Here’s how to game the chicks.  In this episode:My top five seduction techniques: must-dos for all men How to f**k a woman into oblivion Who is naturally more insatiable: men or women? The most important sexual skill men can have The most important emotional skill men can have The archetypal masculine: making pussies wet for the last 100,000 years Join the free Coming Together 7-Day Sex Cleanse. Each day, you’ll receive an email with an assignments to deepen into each other, sexually and emotionally. 
 Side effects of this Sex Cleanse may include:  
 ~ Ejaculate-soaked bed sheets ~ Broken bed frames ~ Being fully energized by each other's life force energy ~ Clearing of relationship blocks ~ Stronger stamina ~ Feelings of safety and security ~ Sky-rocketing libidos Signup today.

The Real Reason Couples Stop Having Sex After Children

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