It’s a commonly accepted and very socially validated reason not to have sex: You have kids Especially young kids. 

Haven’t had sex in a few years? Of course! You have children! This is one of the most acceptable excuses there is. 

No one will judge you or admonish you. They’ll just cluck their tongues and nod. Often, because they’ve been there too. Or, because it’s a convenient narrative to buy into, instead of looking at the real reasons this has happened. 

In this episode: 

• The three biggest reasons why couples stop having sex after children 
• Why having children ought to make you have more sex rather than less 
• How to ensure your sex life stays intact through pregnancy, birth and through early childhood