In this episode, Cate and Diggory debate whether going all out on your kinks is good practice for your first time sleeping with someone before answering questions from listeners like from one woman who imagines their boyfriend is a girl when he goes down on her and a widow who is feeling guilty about yearning for intimacy after the passing of their wife.

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Cheating – it's often seen as an unforgivable act, the most egregious sin to commit in a relationship and the end for many couples.

But can one forgive the unforgivable?

Accredited relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory discuss exactly what cheating is, why people do it and whether it truly has to be the end.

Cate also outlines steps you can take in your relationship to prevent a situation where one feels that the other has been unfaithful.

You'll also find answers to:

What is micro-cheating?

What is emotional cheating?

What you should do if you've been cheated on?

How can you repair your relationship after infidelity?

Can cheating be forgiven?

And please tell us whether you think having a house with an avatar of yourself and your ex in the Sims that you still play regularly is cheating! You can let us know what you think and send us your sex and relationship conundrums to

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Wider Viewing:

Rethinking infidelity ... a talk for anyone who has ever loved | Esther Perel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2AUat93a8Q&ab_channel=TED

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*TRIGGER WARNING* - Discussion of rape and sexual assault. If you've been affected by any issues brought up in this episode, please find links to support services below.

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Support Links:

· Rape Crisis has a helpline, open from 12-14.30h and 19-21.30h: 0808 802 9999

· Rape Crisis Northern Ireland has a freephone helpline on Monday and Thursday from 18-20h: 0800 0246 911

· Rape Crisis Scotland has a free helpline from 18h-midnight 08088 010302

· Safeline 0808 800 5005

· Survivors Trust Free helpline: 08088 010818

· Support for Survivors

· We Are Survivors

· Women’s Support Project

· Black Women’s Rape Action has a helpline, open Monday – Friday, 13-16.30h: 020 7482 2496

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In this episode, Diggory makes the case to his sex therapist mother Cate as to why you SHOULD sext and take nudes. Throughout they answer questions like:

-      What is sexting?

-      Which Emojs are best for sexting?

-      What are the risks with sexting?

-      What is revenge porn?

-      How can we stay safe and sext?

-      Is sexting cheating?

-      Could sexting potentially lead to a relationship?

-      Can you earn money sexting?

Remember gang, Diggory is very much playing the devil on your shoulder in this episode - listen to Cate (the angel) and be careful. Have fun but make sure you're not putting yourself at any unnecessary risk!

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Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory chat about what it's like to be compared to Otis and Jean Milburn from Netflix's Sex Education. We hear a bit more about what sex therapy entails before answering some questions from listeners about suspecting your partner may have compulsive intrusive thoughts and threesomes.

Lastly, we pose the question, can Only Fans be empowering? Do let us know what you think!

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Gone off a potential partner because of their weird laugh? Embarrassing phone case? The way they use their knife and fork? Sounds like you've gotten 'the ick'.

In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell answers questions like why we get the ick? Can the ick go away? And is the ick actually real?

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Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory talk about anal sex, discussing the different types before answering questions like:

Things also get a little heated as Cate and Diggory clash over their answers to listener questions about how to find a healthier balance between casual sex and commitment when dating and whether one man, whose girlfriend of 9 years has invited him to watch her and her friend have sex for the first time, is justified in feeling like he should be able to have sex with the friend, too.

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And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast.

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In this episode, Cate and Diggory invite Dr Joe Kort to talk about the phenomenon of straight men who have sex with men. They discuss:

You can find Dr Joe Kort here: https://joekort.com/

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And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast.

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Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory ask whether lesbian bed death (the idea that lesbians' sex lives become non existent in long-term relationships) is really a myth, throwing up other questions like:

Cate and Diggory also answer two listener questions about whether its okay to fantasise about having sex with other people whilst you're in a relationship and getting into creampie with your wife.

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And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast.

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In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to Lalalaletmeexplain about Modern Dating, discussing:

You can find Lalalaletmeexplain here: https://www.instagram.com/lalalaletmeexplain/

And you can purchase Lalalaletmeexplain's book, Block, Delete, Move On: It's Not You, It's Them here: https://linktr.ee/blockdeletemoveon

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And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast.

You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/

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