WHO ARE YOU? & WHO ARE YOU TALKING TO?
Determine who you are and who you're talking to. In every situation, you will know what to expect, not expect, and know how to respond accurately, appropriately, and efficiently (Strategic Energy). Learn where you're at in your Self-Discovery, the people around you, and where your future is headed.
The following percentages are a symbolic representation of the majority of the people in the world. This model is to be used as a guide to navigating people and scenarios.
98'S- "THE SLEEPING WIDE AWAKE."
98% of the people around you will display these similar characteristics when we understand how they operate; we can better know what to expect and learn how to adapt and flow.
Characteristics of a 98's
- Fear-Based: They use emotional and physical violence as a means of control. They manipulate with worry, shame, and guilt which all are fear-based concepts.
- Judgmental: They are using their judgment to shame you
- Thrives on Hierarchy in Titles: They think (mother, father, brother, sister, preacher, teacher, etc.) gives them the right to emotionally, physically abuse you. They also use their "title" to guilt you into staying.
- Lives in Victimhood: They position themself as the victim in every situation to be the center of attention; when they have your attention, they have control. (it's also used as a distraction)
- Resistant to Change: They refuse to get out of their comfort zone.
- Lives in the Past: Can't let go of the past. coulda, shoulda, woulda
- Enables Bad Behavior: They enable you to fail. They co-sign on the behavior you know you shouldn't be engaging in.
- Jealousy: Jealousy prevents them from supporting you. They are admiring you through negative comments and silence.
- Negative Perspective: They manage to find a bad thing in good things.
- No Accountability: There is no self-reflection.
- Doesn't Respect Boundaries: They think "titles" allow them to commit any infraction without accountability.
- Lacks Vision: Because they live in their past, they can't see their future.
- Materialism: They need things outside of them to validate their success.
- Makes Excuses: Feels the need to make excuses for anything and everything.
"Never argue with a fool; onlookers may not be able to tell the difference" Mark Twain. "Don't debate a 98." MakeLifeanOccasion!
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