The RelationSH*T SHOW

Wesley Bixler (@thewbix) did not have your typical Thanksgiving weekend. Imagine being at work on a normal Saturday, when a truck smashes through your wall almost killing you. In fact, had he stayed where he was just a minute before, he'd be dead right now. Wes does not take that for granted, and it's just fortified his life purpose. 

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CHEAT SHEET:

• The Thanksgiving Surprise - At work when a truck drives through your window
• Why People are Jerks
• The importance of strength
• Finding the love for your family even when they're against you
• How men shouldn't "toughen" up
• Downsides of playing it cool
• Therapist Advice
• You are your own competition
• Someone special changes his entire well being

Torrey Drake (@torreydrake) is a filmmaker and actor who set out in 2017 the LOFTY goal of making 12, yes TWELVE short films all in one year and is on track to hit that. With no prior experience mind you. He brings us in on how being bullied as a kid led to the theater, being unreasonable IS the best option, and what it's like to express your emotions through making movies and the catharsis you feel afterwards. Torrey is an inspiration that helps us see the importance of focusing on ourselves even when the world seems to be against us.

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CHEAT SHEET:

• How being bullied in school led to theater
• Making 12 short films in 2017
• Don't Start a War someone else is willing to finish
• Being Unreasonable is better than being reasonable
• Being present so that you're putting your all into that moment
• How the bullied can become the bully
• His wrestling coach calling him the F word for no reason
• Making films to express his emotions

In a new vision for the podcast, Sophie Cook (@socookin) takes us on a journey into her mind both on what it means to live a life of fulfillment as well as the vulnerabilities that come along the way. She talks about her hardships with handling negative emotions, and how she uses meditation to work on those emotions. She also gets into the vulnerability of having supportive friends and family, and being more open in romantic relationships so both sides can receive the communication they deserve. You will no doubt hear her true self come out (her superhero Sophie as she calls it).

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CHEAT SHEET:

• Building relationships and a support system for better quality experiences
• Work, eat, sleep, repeat isn't the way to go about your life
• Dealing with her negative emotions - not hiding
• Her mask of insecurity - meditations to recognize her uncomfortable feelings
• VIGILANTE SOPHIE - her true self
• the importance of being open in a relationship with your feelings

Brandon Tobias (@btobias6) is a Bulletproof Labs Tech, but most importantly a human. What I loved most about his journey was that while the exact details may not be similar, the process is so relatable. You get to hear how every seemingly "random" and "pain point" moment actually all was NECCESSARY, for him to get to his dream job today. People like to skip the process and get right to the dream job. The problem is, you can't get one without the other. We also go over how you know when to follow other people's advice like your parents vs your instinct, and what that feels like. 

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CHEAT SHEET:

• PolySci Degree to now
• Broken Education System
• Chasing the Typical Road
• Friends telling him to follow his interest
• What allowed him to Quit
• Everything that leads to your passion
• Listening to your Gut vs your parents
• Job at the Ritz
• When his ideal job failed him the first time
• Mind:Action Gap - Explore yourself and what you're feeling to find what it is you truly want

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Megan Thomas (@megscoop and @alldefdigital) is going to be the next Oprah. Spending her energy more on how she can help others including her COMPETITION out rather than "me me me" to get ahead, Megan will be the first to tell you how to find the strength to keep going. She's also the person you want on your side cause she'll tell it to you straight - you aren't everyones cup of tea. But thats a GOOD THING! It means if you failed they just needed something else, not that you aren't "good enough." I love how relatable and actionable she broke it down. Don't chase success by forcing it. Put in the hard work, discover yourself, and it WILL unfold. How much time that's gone by isn't the measure of you're achievement. We all learn our lessons within the time length necessary for us INDIVIDUALLY. 

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CHEAT SHEET:

• Her 10 year start
• Using her only connection
• Living with "What if?"
• Finding the strength to keep going
• Don't use time passed, as your gauge towards success
• Goal Setting - What you can control vs not
• Support system
• Why aren't we good enough? Not Everyone's cup of tea
• Solutions for Scarcity
• Growing Up Military
• Embrace YOUR CHUNK
• Help comes in many forms - learn to accept it
• Be ready - don't force success just be prepared
• Mind:Action Gap - Start with what you know

and much more!

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Marcus Singleton (@followmarcus) has redefined for me what setting goals means. "I don't want to be successful so I can have the accolades...I want to do this so the rest of my family can know there is success." His thought process to me, mixes the old school with the new. When is the last time you heard someone state that as their goal? He learned very early in his life from his father that everything has a reason and a purpose. He learned from his schoolteacher that others like to project their failings onto you. Don't let it stop you from being YOU. Find your voice. USE that voice as Marcus does, to motivate people and show people the bigger side of you. The side that makes you different from everyone else. Let his journey be a wake up call to finding out how you can help others while you find yourself. 

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CHEAT SHEET:

• | 1:10 | Music Influence
• | 2:20 | Everything for a reason
• | 5:20 | Teacher told him his dreams are unrealistic
• | 11:30 | Proving everyone wrong
• | 13:00 | Set 2 goals
• | 14:00 | Helping People
• | 18:30 | Value YOU
• | 26:00 | Sacrifice of Success
• | 32:00 | Write Goals
• | 36:40 | "I Hustle for my Family"
• | 40:00 | Spend time finding your voice
• | 47:00 | What opened up his mind
• | 50:00 | Use Social Media to motivate
• | 56:30 | Mind:Action Gap - Find the chip on someone's shoulder

and much more!

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Cory Faulkner (@thecoryation) is the kind of grind story you expect to hear. He started out with a perfectly good degree in accounting where he could have focused the rest of his life building a very lucrative paycheck. Instead, he left it all, moved to Los Angeles, and drives for Uber. All so he could set his sights on launching his PerFIcT Fitness App - a platform for trainers to provide programs for customers to purchase at any time. We get into everything from giving up on the app, to failed launches. Any obstacles you'd think you might face pursuing your grind, is most likely addressed here. Check it out.

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CHEAT SHEET:

• | 2:00 | From Accounting Major to Uber Driver
• | 5:00 | Cost Opportunity to chasing your dreams
• | 7:00 | How the app evolved from a high school idea
• | 10:20 | When he gave up
• | 14:30 | Always curious
• | 17:30 | His biggest vulnerability
• | 23:00 | Discussing lack of follow through
• | 27:00 | Obstacles he didn't know about
• | 30:00 | The benefit of losing 250k
• | 34:00 | Write it down
• | 37:20 | People who think they're better than their job
• | 41:21 | Embracing diversity
• | 48:00 | Learn to explore - you can move back
• | 51:20 | There is no need for "me" time if you enjoy the process
• | 54:30 | Mind:Action Gap - wake up early

and much more!

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Doug Fruchey (@douglasfruchey) is an NPC Competitive Bodybuilder on the pursuit to getting his IFBB Pro Card. What separates Doug from a lot of competitors is his entire mindset towards competing. He embraces the community, the process, the people over trying to just win first place. He understands the importance of not just surrounding yourself with great people, but helping others in need before himself. I have no doubt he'll achieve his goal just cause of his capability of recognizing and having the balance of pursuing his goals, and contributing towards a community. He gives great tips on how you can string perfect days together as well as what happens when you break that consistency. 

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CHEAT SHEET:

• | 1:50 | Getting into training
• | 3:20 | The life of an NPC Comptitor
• | 7:30 | Influences
• |12:30 | What he would change in the bodybuilding community
• | 15:30 | Biggest sacrifice in the sport
• |18:42 | His secret to discipline
• | 19:30 | What Hold's us back
• | 23:20 | What are you passionate about?
• | 30:45 | Why are we never good enough?
• | 33:30 | Patience in bodybuilding
• | 38:30 | What people spend too much time on working out
• | 42:00 | When to Quit
• | 45:30 | The more you work...
• | 48:30 | First time touching a weight
• | 53:30 | Quick way to Stick with a Goal
• | 56:10 | Importance of doing shows
• | 57:30 | Mind Action Gap - 1) Find someone Smarter 2) Figure out a plan

and much more!

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Darien Harris (@confucius_d) is a Qi Gong Practitioner and WeedFit Founder and enthusiast. This definitely wasn't my typical interview but that doesn't stop Darien from bringing some new angles on insight and reflection into our lives from using breathing techniques to relieve anxiety to seeking the uncomfortable. We also touch into his upbringing in Southside of Chicago and how that shaped his mindset as he got older. 

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CHEAT SHEET:

• Budtending
• Biggest problem with clients
• Benefits of being high
• Seeking the uncomfortable
• Using comedy to push himself
• Breathing Techniques for Anxiety
• Stress and breathing
• Brain and Immune relationship
• Growing up in Southside Chicago
• Choosing the right path vs the wrong
• How parents effected his mentality
• Growing up with women
• What holds us back
• Trying to fit in

and much more!

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Shane Griffin (@shanegriffinla) is a former Toronto club owner, the founder of Whole Life Balance, and now Vitamin Patch Club (@vitaminpatchclub). From driving fast, expensive cars, and partying hard to figuring out the proper optimal delivery system of nutrients into the body, Shane embodies the possibilities of "There is no such thing as failure". Basically restarting his life at 42, he completely turned his life around after entering rehab to creating a plan with meaning, purpose, and connection. This is a MUST listen for anyone out there that thinks "Oh it's already too late, it'll take too long to go back and get an education and go a new route". This man is living proof of action when everyone else complains. 

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CHEAT SHEET:

• (3:30) Life is as hard as you make it
• (5:00) Whole Life Balance
• (8:00) Vitamin Patch Club
• (10:00) Why we're afraid to help others
• (12:30) Finding his way
• (15:30) His A-Ha Moment at 5 years sober
• (21:30) Recovery is the easiest thing you'll have to do
• (27:25) Two best things you could be doing right now
• (32:00) Keep your circle small
• (40:00) Importance of family
• (43:00) Starting life over at 42
• (46:00) If you think you have a problem...
• (52:00) Challenge 1
• (1:00:00) Challenge 2
• (1:04:00) Challenge 3
• (1:08:00) What is VPC?
• (1:13:00) Letting customers choose the charity
• (1:24:00) Being part of goodness is addicting
• (1:28:00) Mind Action Gap - What does that look like?

and much more!

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