When someone asks why you made a change, said no, or chose a different direction, it can be hard to explain yourself clearly in English.

In this episode, we talk about how to talk about priorities in English in real-life conversations — at work, with friends, and with family — without sounding vague, defensive, or unsure.

You'll learn practical phrases to help you:

• explain what matters to you

• talk about values and priorities naturally

• set boundaries without over-explaining

• say no and explain decisions with confidence

• talk about changes in direction when your priorities shift

This episode is especially helpful if you know what matters to you, but struggle to find the right words in the moment — especially when people ask questions or expect an explanation.

By the end, you'll have clear, natural language you can use right away in everyday and professional conversations.

Episode Timestamps:

00:00 Which Priority Is Right?

02:27 Name Your Priorities

05:56 Explain Your Values

09:59 Set Boundaries

15:25 Explain When Priorities Shift

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Talking about disappointment in English can feel overwhelming, especially when things don't go as planned. In this episode, you'll learn natural English phrases for when things go wrong — so you can express your feelings clearly and confidently.

We'll explore language for mild, moderate, and intense disappointment, plus phrases for difficult moments, emotional clarity, asking for support, and talking about setbacks in a calm and honest way. You'll also learn how to name what's happening inside when someone asks, "How are you holding up?" and how to stay authentic without oversharing.

This lesson is perfect for everyday English conversations, challenging moments at work, or personal situations where you want to feel understood. If you've struggled to find the right words in English when things didn't work out, this episode will give you language you can use right away.

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Episode Timestamps:

00:00 A Bummer But...

01:56 Levels of Disappointment

07:49 Dealing with Conversations & Emotions

12:05 Phrases to Recover (When You're Not Ready to Talk)

13:51 Asking for Support

17:01 Bouncing Back

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In this episode, you'll learn C1 level English vocabulary you can use to talk about happiness, well-being, and your real life in English. These advanced English phrases come from a podcast conversation between Dr. Rangan Chatterjee and Dr. Laurie Santos on the science of happiness.

This lesson is perfect if you want to use English confidently in deeper conversations with friends, colleagues, or anyone you care about.

Even better? If you

struggle to express real thoughts and feelings on complex topics, this episode helps you use clear, natural English when talking about:

• your emotions

• your goals and challenges

• your relationships

• your everyday well-being

I recommend choosing the 4–5 phrases that resonate most and start using them right away.

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Episode Timestamps:

00:00 What We Get Wrong

03:13 How to Practice Today

03:49 Where You'll Use This Vocabulary

04:54 Social Connections

10:30 Practice

13:47 Cost of Technology

18:16 What Happy People Do

22:56 Your Natural Happiness

25:42 Practice

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Does the question "why?" sometimes feel too strong or uncomfortable in English? In this episode, we talk about why "why" can sound rude in English and what you can say instead to keep conversations comfortable and natural.

You'll learn six gentle alternatives that help you ask about personal choices, life changes, and meaningful stories without putting pressure on the other person.

These simple questions make it easier to stay curious, build trust, and speak confidently in real conversations.

In this episode, you'll learn: • Why "why" can sound judgmental or demanding • How tone changes the meaning of your questions • Six natural, polite questions to use instead • Everyday examples you can try right away

If you'd like more real-life English practice in a supportive community, you can learn about the Confident Women Community here: https://speakconfidentenglish.com/community

Episode Timestamps:

00:00 The Problem with 'Why'

02:40 Alternatives to 'Why'

03:06 What Brought You...

04:26 What Led You To...

05:41 How Did That Come About...

06:54 What Made You Think Of...

07:57 What Inspired...

09:20 I'd Love to Hear How...

10:50 Recap & Practice

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Being polite in English is important — but sometimes, clarity is kindness. In this episode, you'll learn how to be direct in English without sounding rude, harsh, or impolite.

We'll explore the right times to use direct communication in English and the grammar tools that help you sound clear and confident at work — not cold or aggressive.

You'll discover how to: ✅ Use imperatives, simple statements, and modal verbs effectively ✅ Give feedback and set boundaries with professionalism ✅ Communicate deadlines and instructions with confidence ✅ Improve your English communication skills and sound confident, not rude

If you want to practice speaking English this way in real conversation, join my Confident Women Community — a supportive space to use your English for real 👉 https://speakconfidentenglish.com/community

Episode Timestamps:

00:00 Was no one listening? 03:23 When to be direct 07:01 Choosing the right grammar 08:07 Imperatives 09:05 Statements 09:44 Modals 11:42 Tone 15:57 Practice

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When English conversations get tense, your words can decide whether things end in frustration or progress.

In this episode, you'll learn how to sound more professional in English with 5 powerful "were" phrases that help you:

• Disagree politely without sounding rude

• Offer feedback and advice clearly

• Keep your tone calm, confident, and professional

These simple professional English phrases will help you handle difficult conversations at work and speak with clarity and respect in any situation.

💬 Try this: Practice one phrase this week and notice how it changes the tone of your next meeting.

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Episode Timestamps:

00:00 Why the pillow?

01:50 Why you need 'were'

03:43 If I were to...

04:58 If I were in your situation...

06:19 Practice

06:54 I wish it were...

08:23 Suppose we were...

09:51 I'd rather it were...

11:42 Practice

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The secret to never sounding nervous in English? Controlling your voice.

Have you ever listened to a coworker or friend speak English who sounds perfectly confident, even though she felt nervous inside? How did she do it?

The key is to control your voice so you sound confident in English.

Controlling your voice and projecting confidence when you speak helps to engage your listeners and inspire trust.

And the strategies you'll learn here will help you give a formal presentation to a room of 537 people or speak in a meeting with 3 coworkers.

Use these 4 simple steps to reduce the nervousness of your voice so you sound clear and in control.

Episode Timestamps:

00:00 - What does a nervous voice sound like?

03:02 - Step 1: Remove the anxiety

06:49 - Step 2: Be Conscious of Your Flow

10:05 - Step 3: Be clear and project

13:30 - Step 4: Relax and enjoy

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Learn how to explain a decision in English clearly and confidently in this practical leadership English lesson. You'll discover a simple 4-step method to organize your ideas, express your reasoning, and speak with clarity. Perfect for professional English communication and meetings.

In this episode, you'll learn how to:

✅ Share your thought process naturally ✅ Use key decision-making vocabulary in English ✅ Speak clearly in meetings and interviews ✅ Build confidence through real-world examples

This Confident English lesson is part of our ongoing series to help you build English fluency and communication skills for everyday and professional success.

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Episode Timestamps:

00:00 Explaining "Why" — the Challenge

01:58 The "STEP" Method

02:53 Step 1: Set the Scene

05:08 Step 2: Tell Your Thought Process

07:32 Step 3: Explain the Options

09:51 Step 4: Present the Decision

12:10 Where/How to Practice

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Talk about your personal growth in English using 12 powerful phrasal verbs.

In this English phrasal verbs lesson, you'll discover natural ways to describe life changes, mindset shifts, and new beginnings — perfect to improve speaking confidence and express yourself more naturally.

In this episode, you'll learn how to:

• Talk about new beginnings and letting go • Describe identity and mindset shifts • Express slow, steady personal growth in English

This self-growth English lesson will help you find the right words to describe your journey — in life and in English.

🌐 Learn more or practice with me inside the Confident Women Community → https://www.speakconfidentenglish.com/community

Episode Timestamps:

00:00 Common English Conversation Questions

01:19 Phrasal Verbs for New Beginnings

06:27 Phrasal Verbs on Mindset Shifts

09:58 Phrasal Verbs on Sustainable Change

11:49 Practice

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Have you ever made a big change — moving to a new country, starting a new job, or beginning again? In this episode of Better English Conversations, you'll learn English vocabulary for life changes — including how to talk about moving, new jobs, and starting over with confidence.

You'll discover how to: ✔ Describe emotional transitions with natural, everyday English vocabulary ✔ Use expressions like make a fresh start, take the plunge, and turn over a new leaf ✔ Talk about big decisions and changes in your life — clearly and naturally

Whether you're moving abroad, changing careers, or simply ready for something new, this episode will help you improve your English speaking confidence and connect your story to real-life English conversations.

🎧 Subscribe for weekly lessons on Better English Conversations and learn how to speak with clarity and courage in every part of your life.

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Episode Timestamps:

0:00 English Conversations on Major Life Changes

1:11 Starting New Vocabulary

6:05 Moving Vocabulary

11:22 Changing Careers Vocabulary

15:50 Example Sentences

16:37 Support Network Vocabulary

19:22 Example Sentences 19:56 Practice

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