The Style and Grace Podcast

In this episode I talk about how a friend’s story opened my eyes to the real impact of gratitude. Something about hearing how someone shows up for it every day made me look at my own life and realize how much I have to appreciate. It is a short and honest reflection on being thankful and remembering the small things that carry us through.

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In this episode I talk about a message that stopped me in my tracks this week. I was scrolling through Instagram and came across a reel shared by my friend Cece. The screenshot I landed on said you do not wait for opportunity. You create it. That line pushed me to look at how often we sit back and expect things to fall into place on their own. The truth is simple. Most opportunities show up because we take action and not because we wait for perfect timing.

I walk through why creating your own opportunity is a smarter and more realistic strategy. I talk about the psychology behind waiting. I talk about how fear and false timing hold us back. I also break down how to check your intentions so you are not building an assignment that does not belong to you. I encourage you to move with alignment, clarity, and faith in the gifts you already have.

This episode includes journal prompts that help you identify what you have been waiting on and what you can start building right now. My goal is to remind you that your gift has value and your movement increases your probability of success.

Thank you for tuning in to the Styling Grace podcast. This space is growing and I am grateful for every listener. Do not forget that early bird tickets for the Grace Gathering are available now. This will be an experience you will not want to miss.

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In this episode, I’m talking about the power of vision, faith, and speaking life over what hasn’t shown up yet. The title says it all — you have to see it before you see it. I share a lesson I learned years ago from my friend and former business coach, Marc Coley, founder of The Marc Coley Business Academy. Marc used to have us introduce ourselves as our future selves — and at the time, it felt so uncomfortable. But now I understand he was helping us train our minds, our words, and our faith to align with the vision God placed inside of us.

I also talk about how this mindset shows up in real life — from watching my eight-year-old son speak things into existence, to realizing that faith truly works in the unseen. I even touch on the movie Acrimony as an example of what it looks like to hold on to a vision when nobody else believes it.

This episode is your reminder to protect what God showed you, even if it doesn’t make sense to anyone else. Keep speaking it, keep working toward it, and keep believing until it manifests. See it before you see it.

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This week’s episode is special! My girl Monee is back — but this time, I’m the one interviewing her. Monee is one of my close friends, an amazing mother, business owner, motivational speaker, and now a published author. Her new book, KeptOil, is such a powerful and transparent memoir that dives into faith, healing, and purpose. In this conversation, we talk about what inspired her to write the book, how she balances motherhood and entrepreneurship, and what this current season of her life means to her.

This episode is full of real talk, laughter, andinsight — the kind of conversation that reminds you that you can walk through anything and still come out with grace

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If you’ve ever felt behind, stuck, or like you’re not living the life you’re meant to — this episode is for you.

In this conversation, I’m opening up about the pressure I’ve put on myself to have life “figured out” by a certain age and what I’ve learned about releasing those timelines. After listening to Mel Robbins’ powerful conversation with Rich Roll, I was reminded of a conversation I had with my dad that shiftedeverything for me.

He told me, “I started my life over in my late thirties” Hearing those words gave me peace — because it reminded me that it’s never too late to rebuild, reset, and begin again.

In this episode, I’m sharing what I learned from both of those conversations and what it truly takes to reinvent yourself — at any age and at any stage.

We’ll talk about:
Letting go of society’s timelines
Listening to your inner voice when something feels off
Turning mistakes into lessons
Why patience and self-compassion are essential for growth
How to trust that your “starting over” season is part of your story

I’m still healing from putting timestamps on my life, but I’m learning that what’s for me is still for me. The grace in starting over is that you get to rebuild stronger, wiser, and more aligned with who you really are.

Journal Prompts for Reinvention:

1. What part of my life feels out of alignment — and what might God be asking me to release?
2. What would my next chapter look like if I stopped being afraid to start over?
3. What lesson did my last setback teach me?

 Listen to the Mel Robbins x Rich Roll episodehere:

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If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend who might need to hear that it’s not too late to start over.

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Have you ever been in a season where life felt unfair, and you found yourself asking, “Lord, why me?” I’ve been there — feeling like I was doing everything right, yet everything seemed to be falling apart. In this episode, I get real about those moments when you want to throw in the towel, compromise your morals, or question God’s plan.

I share my personal story of walking through one of my toughest challenges and how a single message — “God is not concerned with your comfort, He’s concerned with your character” — completely shifted my perspective.

We dive into why God allows trials, how to stay grounded and protect your character in the midst of challenges, and the lessons we can learn from Job’s story of endurance and restoration. I also provide scriptures to meditate on, journal prompts to process your journey, and practical ways to lean on community, therapy, and faith when life gets heavy.

By the end of this episode, my hope is that you’ll walk away feeling encouraged, strengthened, and reminded that your season of discomfort is shaping your character — and that God is preparing something greater for you.

Plus, I’ll give you the latest details about The Grace Gathering happening on January 17th, 2026 — a safe, intimate, and uplifting experience filled with networking, live podcast content, and so much more.

Scriptures Referenced in This Episode

• James 1:2–4 (NIV)
  “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”

• Romans 5:3–5 (NIV)
  “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.”

• 1 Peter 5:10 (NIV)
  “And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.”

• Job 42:10 (NIV)
  “After Job had prayed for his friends, the Lord restored his fortunes and gave him twice as much as he had before.”

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In this episode, I’m sharing my heart about what it really means to start over. So many of us stay in jobs, relationships, or even mindsets because we’re scared to begin again. But the truth is, there’s so much beauty and freedom on the other side of that decision. I talk about why starting over can feel uncomfortable, the power of trusting God through the process, and how we can walk into new seasons without fear. We’re stepping into October and the last quarter of the year, so this is your reminder that it’s not too late to reset, refocus, and believe God for more. I also share a few scriptures, practical encouragement, and we close out with a prayer and affirmation to help you move forward with peace and confidence.

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In this episode of The Style and Grace Podcast, I’m sitting down with two of the most important women in my life—my mom and my sister, Elesia—for a real conversation about motherhood, womanhood, and everything in between. We’re talking about the lessons my mom learned while raising us, the joys and challenges of being a woman in different seasons of life, and the advice we would give to our younger selves.

It’s honest, funny, and full of wisdom that only comes from living, learning, and leaning on faith. Whether you’re a mom, a sister, or just figuring out this whole womanhood journey, I think you’ll find pieces of yourself in our conversation.

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In this episode I’m talking about The Great Lock-In a trend that started on TikTok but hit me in a real way. From September to December the goal is simple lock in on what matters most and cut out the distractions. For me this is more than a trend it’s a reminder that we can’t wait for a new year to start fresh if we’re not taking care of what’s right in front of us. I share my own struggles with staying consistent how life can throw curveballs and why locking in requires focus boundaries and discipline. If you need encouragement and practical tips to stay committed to your goals this episode is for you.

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In this episode, I’m sharing a story that’s really close to my heart. Over 10 years ago, when I was working at a call center, I would spend my breaks talking about my dreams, my love for fashion, and the vision I had for my future. At the time, I didn’t even realize who was listening.

One of my colleagues, who is now one of my good friends, Erica, surprised me in 2014 with a gift that changed everything—her old MacBook. She told me she believed in me and wanted me to use it to help fund my vision. That moment reminded me that sometimes, all it takes is one yes to spark a journey.

As I was cleaning my closet the other day and came across that same MacBook, I felt led to share this story with you. My hope is that it encourages you to keep speaking about your vision, even when it feels like nobody is listening, because you never know who is quietly believing in you.

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