“Chivalry is not dead, it's underappreciated. I walk on the street side of the sidewalk every single time, it's a protective mechanism. I open doors, there are some doors I walk through first. If it's dark out, I will walk through and I won't hold a door open for you. I will walk out first, make sure it's safe, and bring you with me.” – Taylor Merritt
Why is it important to show appreciation in relationships? In today’s episode, Zack Knight is joined by Taylor Merritt. Zack and Taylor discuss the importance of taking action in relationships. They share their story of how they incorporated different relationship tactics, such as scheduling date nights and surprising each other with thoughtful gifts. They encourage others to do the same, emphasizing the importance of listening to your partner and taking charge when planning activities or dates.
Zack and Taylor explore the concept of chivalry, highlighting how it is often undervalued and that both men and women should show appreciation for each other’s efforts.
Tune in to this episode of The Tactical Leader, as Zack and Taylor dive into the idea of balance in a relationship, with both men and women taking on traditional roles and beyond!
[00:00 - 00:53] Opening Segment
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- Zack introduces Taylor Merritt!
- Scheduling a date night to show appreciation for your partner
[00:54 - 15:46] Appreciate Chivalry: Don’t Expect It, Give Something In Return
- Recognizing effort and not just the thought that counts
- Show appreciation for your partner’s actions
- Women should not expect chivalry; they are not entitled to it
- Protective mechanisms and other examples of chivalry
[15:47 - 29:51] Moms Have The Capability And The Balance Of Chivalry
- Women should not expect to be treated with chivalry unless they can tell men something they deserve inherently
- Chivalry does not have to be exclusive to significant others, it can be extended to all women
- Surprise your partner with something that she would like
- A challenge for the week, “Plan a surprise for your partner”
[29:52 – 33:35] Closing Segment
- Taylor shares the idea of balance in a relationship!
- Closing words and reminders
Key Quote:
“When we talk about like chivalry, how you open the door and if you start to expect it, and don't appreciate it. But make sure you really, really appreciate every moment, because those moments might not be there sometimes or they might stop doing them, but like, show the level of how appreciative you are because that's so special. That's so special.” – Taylor Merritt
Connect with Taylor Merrit:
Website: Daddy Tay Fitness
LinkeIn: Taylor Merrit
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