The Twenties Detox

The Twenties Detox

By Bianca VenchiaruttiEducationSelf-Improvement
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The Twenties Detox episodes

  • Q&A: setting boundaries with your parents, dealing with friendship burnout, and tips for anxiety

    Hey twentysomething!

    Welcome to episode 20 of the Twenties Detox (S1.E20) ~ where we talk about all the struggles of early adulthood and develop better mindsets for growth and healing.

    For the season finale, this week's episode is a Q&A style – where I answer your questions about the previous episodes, or any other struggles you may be facing.

    Thank you SO MUCH for listening to this season. It's been an absolute pleasure to connect with all of you.

    Please email me at [email protected] if you want any specific episodes for season 2!

    I'll see you in 2024 <3

    Much love,

    B


    TIMESTAMPS

    0:00 - 3:22: intro

    3:22 - 10:00: tips for anxiety

    10:00-12:30: when should you journal?

    12:30-20:40: dealing with friendship burnout

    20:40-25:40: setting boundaries with parents

    25:40-28:00: why I started my podcast

    28:00: outro


    LET'S CONNECT + RESOURCES :)

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    Iris Dailey's meditation challenge

    Moonly App (more meditations)


    31 min
  • why your emotional triggers are an invitation to heal

    Hey twentysomething!


    Welcome to episode 19 of the Twenties Detox (S1.E19) ~ where we talk about all the struggles of early adulthood and develop better mindsets for growth and healing.


    Next weeks episode will be a Q&A so submit your questions here!:

    https://www.thetwentiesdetox.com/submissions


    This weeks episode is all about triggers.

    What are they? Should you ignore them or are they important? Well, I'm sure you can tell by the title that they are worth listening to.

    Bianca (@biancavenchiarutti) dives into what triggers really mean, how they're connected to trauma, and a quick exercise to help you uncover the root fears they're tied to.

    Once you've got that clarity, we'll show you the steps to finally let go of the pain you have from your past, and move towards a better and happier life.


    I hope you enjoy! xoxo

    – B


    TIMESTAMPS

    0:00 - 2:30: intro

    2:30 - 10:30: my anger issues + I almost fought someone...

    10:30-14:05: triggers + trauma coupling

    14:05-16:10: you're not going backwards

    16:10-22:22: finding the root fear + how to move on for good

    22:00-23:38 outro


    LET'S CONNECT :)

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    24 min
  • my summer reflections ~ the fear doing things alone, career choices and should I move out of my parents home?

    Hey twentysomething!

    Welcome to episode 18 of the Twenties Detox (S1.E18) ~ where we talk about all the struggles of early adulthood and develop better mindsets for growth and healing.
    But wait!
    SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION FOR FINAL EPISODE
    This week, I've made a decision to present an episode that's more authentic and open, diving into the thoughts that have been occupying my mind recently, along with a few current stressors I'm navigating. The months of summer have always been a time of introspection for me, and despite sharing advice to my fellow twentysomethings – I'm also still figuring things out myself!
    We all have our own struggles in life, and I believe it's important to be transparent about them to really overcome them. (Of course, you don't have to create a podcast episode about it, though, haha!)
    I hope you enjoy the episode, and at the very least, feel less alone. xoxo.
    All the best,
    Bianca
    TIMESTAMPS
    Intro 0:00
    Choosing a career, the distraction of social media + accepting our path 3:28
    Repeating old patterns + the fear of doing things alone + moving out 10:10
    Finding the balance of life  16:40
    Outro 18:50 - 20:00
    LET'S CONNECT :)
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    20 min
  • the root of people pleasing, how to say "no", and are we in our villain era? [VIDEO]

    Hey twentysomething!

    Welcome to episode 17 of the Twenties Detox (S1.E17) ~ where we talk about all the struggles of early adulthood and develop better mindsets for growth and healing.

    today's episode is all about people pleasing – why we do it, and how to find a better balance between selfishness + selflessness.

    Bianca (@biancavenchiarutti) starts off the session by talking about her own experience with people pleasing. Next, she discusses the root for why so many of us put other's needs before our own – relating to self-identity, self-worth, conditional love and more... Lastly, she shares 3 simple tips to start saying no easier.

    Sit back and relax, and I hope you enjoy.

    xoxo

    TIMESTAMPS

    • intro 0:00
    • my story of being a people pleaser 1:50
    • the "villain era" 7:20
    • the root of people pleasing 9:50
    • 3 tips for saying no + outro 19:32 - 22:07
    • LET'S CONNECT :)

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      • 23 min
      • how to "go with the flow" and let go of rigid routines

        Hey twentysomething!

        Welcome to episode 16 of the Twenties Detox (S1.E16) ~ where we talk about all the struggles of early adulthood and develop better mindsets for growth and healing.

        To begin, Bianca starts off by telling us all about her trip to Florida with her friends as well as her Italy trip. She was so excited to explore the great lakes and visit her Nonna's hometown, but guess what? Total bummer alert—her luggage didn't make it to Italy :/ Ever had that happen to you? You buy all these cute outfits, all ready to show them off, and then bam! Disaster strikes. But hold up – Bianca had a realization.

        She was like, "Hey, in 20 years, who the heck cares what I wore in Italy? I'll remember the amazing conversations I had with the people on the tour, the overwhelming emotions I felt seeing Nonna's childhood home, and the sheer beauty of those lakes and mountains. That cute dress? Not gonna be a memory worth keeping." And just like that, she moved on.

        In the past, going with the flow (which always involves change) felt impossible to do. As a person so used to rigid routines conditioned from school and work, "letting go" was one of the hardest things to do for Bianca. In this episode she will share the revelations she had along the way to develop this better mindset, as well as the 4 main benefits of how to improves our life in our 20s by going with the flow of life.

        Sit back and relax, and I hope you enjoy.

        xoxo

        TIMESTAMPS

        • intro + recap (where I've been) ~ 0:00
        • florida trip + going with the flow ~ 2:55
        • italy trip + loosing my luggage ~ 8:03
        • getting out of rigid routines ~ 14:40
        • benefit 1: burnout prevention ~ 19:32
        • benefit 2: self-discovery ~ 21:38
        • benefit 3: adaptability ~23:41
        • benefit 4: authenticity ~ 26:14
        • outro ~ 28:05
        • LET'S CONNECT :)

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          • 31 min
          • retrospective reflections | the secrets to finding happiness with my 85-year old gran

            Hey Twentysomething! 

            Welcome to episode 15 of the Twenties Detox (S1.E15) ~ where we talk about all the struggles of early adulthood and develop better mindsets for growth and healing.

            Today, we have another retrospective reflections episode! You may remember the episode I recorded a few months ago with my great aunt Reena, where we discussed overcoming life's challenges through perseverance and faith. Today, I am honored to have someone who possesses the same level of strength and determination, as well as the Norwegian grit that runs in our family. Mary Brown is Reena’s younger sister, and despite growing up in the same household, their personalities couldn't be more different! Mary has always been someone who has shown me what it truly means to live life to the fullest. She even has the sign “carpe diem” hanging outside which is  a latin saying to seize the day. Her unwavering positivity and infectious laughter have brought immense light to my family, and in a world that can often feel overwhelming, her example provides invaluable lessons on how to lead a long, healthy, and happy life. So, without further ado, I am thrilled to welcome my wonderful grandmother, well we call her Granny Mary, to the podcast.


            Sit back and relax. Hope you enjoy!

            xoxo

            TIMESTAMPS

            • Introducing Granny Mary ~ 0:00
            • The realization she had at 30 ~ 2:45
            • Her role model + early childhood memories~ 5:25 
            • The European lifestyle + finding good friends ~ 9:25
            • How she maintains her happiness~ 11:50
            • The importance of family  ~ 16:10
            • WW2, racism, and "bra-burning" feminists ~ 19:10
            • THE DETOX ~ unlearning fear, labels and division ~23:07
            • How to be married for 64+ years ~ 29:20
            • 4 final pieces of advice to live a happier life ~ 30:40-end
            • LET'S CONNECT :)

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              • 36 min
              • 4 mindsets for healing your relationship with food and fitness

                Hey twentysomething!

                Welcome to episode 14 of the Twenties Detox (S1.E14) ~ where we talk about all the struggles of early adulthood and develop better mindsets for growth and healing.


                In this episode, Bianca (@biancavenchiarutti) began by discussing how so many of us, "want what we don't have", and the mentioned the toxicity of comparison...next, she dives into the 4 best mindset shifts she's done in her twenties to build a better relationship with her body, food and fitness.


                Sit back, relax, and I hope you enjoy! xoxo.


                Timestamps

                • intro 0:00
                • we all want what we don't have... 5:20
                • tip 1 ~ mindful eating 10:20
                • tip 2 ~ stop restricting 16:45
                • tip 3 ~ body neutrality 20:30
                • tip 4 ~ fuel for your body 24:45
                • journal prompts + outro 27:30

                • LET'S CONNECT + RESOURCES :)

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                  • Related Blog post ~ 4 Simple Mindsets to Improve Your Relationship with Food

                  • 33 min
                  • dear post grads, let's try new things and build self-confidence

                    Hey twentysomething!

                    Welcome to episode 13 of the Twenties Detox (S1.E13) ~ where we talk about all the struggles of early adulthood and develop better mindsets for growth and healing.


                    In this session, Bianca began by discussing some new habits she has been experimenting with over the past week to establish a more effective sleep schedule and routine. She then provided some insight into her experience working with her parents and the outcome of a recent tradeshow. In a congratulatory message to new graduates, Bianca emphasized the importance of trying new things and offered a few tips for overcoming the fear of embarrassment to achieve genuine self-confidence.


                    Sit back, relax, and I hope you enjoy! xoxo.


                    Timestamps

                    • intro + my new habits for better sleep 0:00
                    • try new things + tradeshow experience 11:00
                    • overcoming embarrassment + finding confidence 17:30
                    • journal prompts + outro 25:35

                    • LET'S CONNECT + RESOURCES :)

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                      • 30 min
                      • taurus season ~ tips for an abundant money mindset + embracing minimalism

                        Hey twentysomething!

                        Welcome to episode 12 of the Twenties Detox (S1.E12) ~ where we talk about all the struggles of early adulthood and develop better mindsets for growth and healing.

                        With a focus on abundant money mindset, minimalism, and appreciation for the beauty around us, Bianca provides actionable (with some journal prompts at the end) to unlock the power of Taurus season.

                        Sit back, relax, and I hope you enjoy! xoxo.


                        Timestamps

                        • intro 0:00
                        • my morning reflection 2:45
                        • tarot reading: the four of pentacles 5:30
                        • money + things are temporary 6:55
                        • embrace minimalism 8:30
                        • capsule closets + buying sustainably 11:15
                        • stability is false solidity 16:40
                        • journal prompts + actionable tips 18:40
                        • outro 23:00-end

                        • LET'S CONNECT + RESOURCES :)

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                          • 6 pieces of advice for managing finances
                          • Good on You app ~ sustainable and ethical brand ratings
                          • 26 min
                          • twentysomething chats | a recap of our 6-week journey through europe with Ellen Marciniak
                            Hey twentysomething!
                            Welcome to episode 11 of the Twenties Detox (S1.E11) ~ where we talk about all the struggles of early adulthood and develop better mindsets for growth and healing.
                            Join Bianca and her best friend Ellen Marciniak in this week's episode as they reminisce about their unforgettable 6-week Europe trip in the fall of 2022. Inspired by the Lizzie McGuire movie, Bianca had always dreamt of embarking on a European adventure after graduating from university, and Ellen joined her on this journey. Despite encountering some hiccups along the way, the trip was truly a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
                            Discover how this trip impacted the lives of these two friends as they delve into their biggest lessons learned, including how it influenced their perspective on life and friendships.
                            Sit back, relax, and enjoy this episode filled with travel tales and life lessons.
                            Hope you enjoy! xoxo.
                            Timestamps
                            intro 0:00
                            Ireland with friends 3:45
                            Portugal <3 7:00
                            trip planning + saving money 13:00
                            Spain + european food 17:40
                            our favourite places 20:10
                            Italy + get a fine 23:30
                            we got in a fight + made some friends 29:40
                            Paris, losing our luggage + accepting change 34:10
                            outro! 39:10
                            LET'S CONNECT :)
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                            41 min

                          About The Twenties Detox

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                          Your 20s weren't supposed to feel this disorienting, but half the beliefs driving your decisions aren't even yours.