The other night we were having a deep conversation that was sooo good. We were assessing our marriage and talking about how this time period in life can get boring and stagnate and feel like we do the same thing every day over and over again (like Groundhog Day).

We were also discussing why we think this time frame in life is the hardest on marriages. After discussing these things, we wanted to see if our assessment was right and so we looked at stats on the internet and did a social media poll and realized our assessment was right!

In this episode, we (Nick and Amy) share the answers from our poll we did and discuss why this time of life can often feel so boring and repetitive, and of course things that couples can do to make their marriage more exciting during this time period in life.

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After doing the AMAZING episode 111 with Tamara Fackrell, we felt like that was one of the best episodes we have had and the information in it could help just about EVERY couple. As we could have spent hours on the podcast with her, we just didn't have the time.

So we wanted to dive into the things that she talked about a little bit deeper and share our thoughts, insight and experiences in our marriage.

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This has to be one of the best podcast episodes we have done, with information applicable to every relationship. In this episode Nick and Amy interview Tamara Fackrell (she is a divorce attorney, author and has a PHD in marriage and family relationships). Yes, you heard that correctly, a divorce attorney that is fighting to help couples not only survive, but thrive in marriage!

In this episode Tamara shares 10 things that can help with conflict resolution. The steps she provides are so simple and easy to understand, and are things that couples can do to transform their marriage quickly and keep them thriving in their relationship.

Trust us, this will be an episode that could be a game changer in your marriage... even if you already have a good marriage :)

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!

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In this episode we share YOUR answers and feedback on questions and a poll we did. We also share the things we have learned from doing our social media videos and why we feel it is so vital to do the things to protect your marriage.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!

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Throughout our lives, we have many boundaries. These boundaries are in place to establish what is acceptable and not acceptable. In our jobs we have boundaries. We establish boundaries with our kids, our inlaws and other family members. We know what we can and can't do. And there are consequences for crossing those boundaries. The boundaries are there to protect everyone.

So why would we not have boundaries in place in our marriage? Our marriages are the most important thing (or they should be) to protect at all costs.

We posted a couple videos on social media about boundaries and it is amazing to see some of the comments. People state we are in prison and our marriage doesn't stand a chance. Other people comment on how they allow their spouse to go out with ex boyfriends and be with whomever they want because they trust them. They state that boundaries are just rules to force on someone but it is important to note that boundaries and rules are completely different.

So why should we set boundaries together in marriage?
What are the differences between rules and boundaries in your marriage?

In this episode Nick and Amy discuss the difference between rules, and boundaries and why it is important to set up boundaries TOGETHER as a couple. If boundaries are never established, how would someone know if they are ever crossing the line?

This episode will give you some great insight as to why boundaries are so important and we share some of the boundaries we have established in our marriage and how it is provided more freedom in our relationship.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!

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We love polling our audience and hearing what you have to say so we did an instagram poll and asked the following questions:

• Have you asked your spouse what they want for Christmas?
• What was the best gift you have ever given your spouse for Christmas?
• Would your spouse rather have a gift or quality time?
• What is one thing you would love to get surprised with from your spouse?

The answers were surprising but helped us share the best gifts you can give your spouse this holiday season and how to use your spouses love language in helping get the best gift?

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!

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Maintenance Sex.. What is it and why is it important. Well look at it this way. We have to do maintenance on our cars. We check the tire pressure, fluids and get regular oil changes, filters and many other things to keep the car running properly. These are not fun things to do, and they are even expensive some times, but they are necessary to keep it functioning and running correctly. The same is with maintenance sex in marriage. Sometimes the time is not the most convenient for sex, or maybe we are not in the mood for sex, but we should consider how important it is to maintaining a happy and healthy marriage.

As there is typically a high desire spouse, and a low desire spouse in the relationship, maintenance sex means that both spouses (men and women) are maintaining healthy sexual intimacy to a level that keeps both spouses satisfied. For every couple, this could look different. For one couple it may be once a week, or a couple times a month. For another couple it might look different.

Both spouses need to have realistic expectations and discuss what this looks like in "their" relationship.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!

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We heard a great quote that we thought was very profound and caused us to think about why this is. QUOTE: "The adversary tries to get you in the marriage bed before you're married, and tries to keep you out of it after you are married."

This hit us hard... and it is sooo true.  He tempts us to have it before we are married, and then tries to keep us from having sexual intimacy after we are married!

What things does he do in your marriage to keep you out of the marriage bed?

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!

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Just about every relationship and marriage has a high drive spouse and a low drive spouse. If you are one of those couples you are completely normal, and neither spouse is right or wrong, it is just different. As sexual intimacy is such an important aspect of marriage and long term happiness, it is important for both couples to communicate with each other and find a balance that works for both of them. If couples don't find a balance, it can lead to a lot of problems in the relationship.  In this episode Nick and Amy interview Tammy Hill, who is a certified sex therapist, to discuss how couples can manage the different sex drives and still find great satisfaction and balance in their marriage.
 
 If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun.

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For many people the concept of scheduling sex goes completely against what we are led to believe from watching the movies. In the movies, both people are ready to go at a moments notice and ALWAYS seem to be in the mood whether morning, afternoon or evening. It's as if they have nothing better to do. Well... the movies are a fantasy and that is not what reality is for all of us people off the big screen. In real life, couples seldom are both in the mood at the same time and sex often doesn't happen spontaneously as life is so busy with work, kids and many other things.

Scheduling sex can be an amazing thing for several reasons and after listening to this podcast, you may just find yourself scheduling sex in your relationship for better and more frequent sexual intimacy.

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