The Undone

Happy Holidays! This holiday season we thought we'd treat you with a few bumper episodes of some of our most popular segments.

It's the segment we get the most submissions, feedback and laughs from, Dating Diary! We get so many stories to our Anonymous Confession Form that we wanted to fill a whole show with your tragic, hilarious stories.

Em and Luce read stories about dates that end in anaphylactic shock, a gifted vibrator and explosive diarrhea (all different stories, thank god).

Plus, we received a listener dilemma from someone who isn't sure they want to keep sleeping with their FWB after finding out their an anti-vaxxer, begging the question, can you sleep with someone even if you have different morals?

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Feedback? We’re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at [email protected]

Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9

If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. 

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CREDITS:

Host: Lucy Neville and Emily Vernem

Producer: Emmeline Peterson

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Just by by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you’re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We’re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and our aim is to get to 1,000. Find out more at mamamia.com.au

Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happy Holidays! This holiday season we thought we'd treat you with a few bumper episodes of some of our most popular segments.

This episode, it's all about Em's unpopular opinions. We all know she loves dropping a controversial opinion, so she rounds up the ones that got the most heat online, plus a few of our listeners spicy thoughts.

Also, we dive a little deeper on an unpopular opinion of a listener that it's problematic to prefer tall men for Dating Diary.

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GET IN TOUCH:

Feedback? We’re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at [email protected]

Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9

If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. 

Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville 

Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter The Lonely Girls Guide.

CREDITS:

Host: Lucy Neville and Emily Vernem

Producer: Emmeline Peterson

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Just by by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you’re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We’re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and our aim is to get to 1,000. Find out more at mamamia.com.au

Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happy Holidays! It's almost Xmas so we thought we'd treat you with a few bumper episodes of some of our most popular segments.

First up, Lucy's thoughtful (and admittedly unqualified) advice. We get tons of dilemmas from listeners, so we break down her most asked questions about body image, breaking up a share house, dropping out of uni, plus Em's most requested advice about dating with strict parents.

Also, we answer a dilemma for Dating Diary from a listener who wants to have casual sex, but is always catching the feels.

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GET IN TOUCH:

Feedback? We’re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at [email protected]

Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9

If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. 

Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville 

Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter The Lonely Girls Guide.

CREDITS:

Host: Lucy Neville and Emily Vernem

Producer: Emmeline Peterson

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Just by by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you’re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We’re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and our aim is to get to 1,000. Find out more at mamamia.com.au

Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you heard of No Date December? Probably not, because it's something Em made up. She refuses to date anyone in December because of something called 'Wedding Reception Syndrome'.

Plus, we look back at the year that was with The Undone Unwrapped, including how many listeners wrote in to tell us they had vomited on someone's penis (way too many). 

And we read a Dating Diary from a listener who went on a date with her favourite musician and attempted to play it cool.

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RECOMMENDATIONS: 

Listen back to some of our favourite episodes of The Undone:
A Guide To Going Down (On Someone)
Should You Be In A Long-Term Relationship In Your 20s?
When Fetishes Turn Deadly
Help! I Can’t Orgasm Without A Vibrator
Everything We Wish Someone Told Us About Sex

Watch Insecure on Binge.

GET IN TOUCH:

Feedback? We’re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at [email protected]

Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9

If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. 

Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville 

Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter The Lonely Girls Guide.

CREDITS:

Host: Lucy Neville and Emily Vernem

Producer: Emmeline Peterson

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Just by by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you’re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We’re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and our aim is to get to 1,000. Find out more at mamamia.com.au

Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode with special guest host Emma Gillespie, Lucy and Emma break down the clues on someone's social media that they've been dumped, from the meaningful quote, to the hot selfie, to dying your hair blonde. 

Plus, after such a rough year, we're focusing on Xmas gifts that cost little to no money, because who needs the added stress.

And Emma tells a dating diary about the time she got the ick mid-hookup that had Lucy rolling on the floor laughing, literally.

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RECOMMENDATIONS: 

Listen to Extraordinary Stories on MPlus.

GET IN TOUCH:

Feedback? We’re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at [email protected]

Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9

If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. 

Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville 

Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter The Lonely Girls Guide.

CREDITS:

Host: Lucy Neville and Emma Gillespie

Producer: Emmeline Peterson

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Just by by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you’re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We’re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and our aim is to get to 1,000. Find out more at mamamia.com.au

Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2021 is almost in the rear view mirror and we are not looking back. This year we've  seen some dating trends we never want to encounter again, so Em breaks them down, from the ridiculous to the insidious.

Plus, we all have some toxic traits when in relationships (except Em, apparently). Whether it's giving the silent treatment, starting a fight on purpose or asking a question you don't want the answer to, Lucy acknowledges her own and the ones our audience relate to the most.

And Em reads a Dating Diary from a listener who got puked on on a date...twice.

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GET IN TOUCH:

Feedback? We’re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at [email protected]

Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9

If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. 

Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville 

Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter The Lonely Girls Guide.

CREDITS:

Host: Lucy Neville and Emily Vernem

Producer: Emmeline Peterson

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Just by by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you’re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We’re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and our aim is to get to 1,000. Find out more at mamamia.com.au

Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How do you feel about dating post-lockdown? Most of us are excited to date, but also want to just spend time with our friends, and have also forgotten how to date properly and don't know what we want out of it. In other words, we're confused. Em has discovered a new dating trend she thinks sums up these feelings.

Plus, we need to discuss the dating PR campaign. It's when you tell your friends you're breaking up up with your partner, only to get back together, so you have to sell their good traits back to your friends. We're sorry to tell you, it never works.

And Lucy tells a story for Dating Diary about meeting a guy in real life she matched with on tinder she was sure was a bot, and awkwardness ensued.

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RECOMMENDATIONS: 

Watch The Sex Lives Of College Girls on Binge.

GET IN TOUCH:

Feedback? We’re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at [email protected]

Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9

If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. 

Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville 

Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter The Lonely Girls Guide.

CREDITS:

Host: Lucy Neville and Emily Vernem

Producer: Emmeline Peterson

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Just by by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you’re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We’re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and our aim is to get to 1,000. Find out more at mamamia.com.au

Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you heard of Authority Anxiety? Maybe you haven't heard of it, but a lot of us have felt it. It's a very specific anxiety that many people feel when they talk to people like doctors, police, teachers and their boss, and we need to talk about it.

Plus, last week Kendall Jenner wore a dress to her bestie's wedding that really stole the stole. It infuriated Lucy so we have a chat about some other times it's not cool to take the attention away from a friend.

And we read a dating diary from a listener who did the dirty at work, and paid the price.

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RECOMMENDATIONS: 

Watch The Cry on Netflix.

GET IN TOUCH:

Feedback? We’re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at [email protected]

Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9

If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. 

Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville 

Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter The Lonely Girls Guide.

CREDITS:

Hosts: Lucy Neville and Emily Vernem

Producer: Emmeline Peterson

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Just by by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you’re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We’re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and our aim is to get to 1,000. Find out more at mamamia.com.au

Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dating with an STI can be hard, but it's definitely not uncommon. This week, we explore the stigma related to STIs and get some advice from a listener who has been dating with her herpes diagnosis for 4 years, and speak to Dr Ginni Mansberg about how to make sure you're practicing safe sex.

Plus, Em breaks down the four stages of grieving a situationship, aka a relationship that never passed the casual stage.

And, for dating diary we read an anonymous confession from a listener who had a first date with more red flags than a soccer game (ok...we don't watch sport).

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RECOMMENDATIONS: 

Watch Morning Wars on Apple TV+.

GET IN TOUCH:

Feedback? We’re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at [email protected]

Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9

If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. 

Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville 

Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter The Lonely Girls Guide.

CREDITS:

Host: Lucy Neville and Emily Vernem

With thanks to our guest Dr Ginni Mansberg. You can follow her here.

Producer: Emmeline Peterson

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Just by by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you’re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We’re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and our aim is to get to 1,000. Find out more at mamamia.com.au

Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What’s the difference between Main Character Energy and Main Character Syndrome? And is it really a bad thing to have MCE?

Plus, Em is back to dating and has trusted her gut when it comes to deciding whether to continue seeing someone (well, kind of), and Lucy reads a dating diary story from a listener who had a bloody good one night stand at a festival.

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Listen to Emily and Lucy on Will & Woody.

Listen to Extraordinary Stories on MPlus.

Need extra support right now? Call Lifeline on 13 11 14 or Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636.

Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9

If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. 

Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville 

Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter The Lonely Girls Guide.

If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]

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This episode was produced by Emmeline Peterson 

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.