The Undone

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The Undone episodes

March 03, 2021 "I'm Not A Feminist, But..."
Ever been accused of being a feminist? Lucy and Em discuss what feminism really means and how to have a conversation with someone who is "anti-feminism."
And, we've all been on a train wreck of a date. Our dating diary guest this week has been on so many, she even started a Facebook page for it.
The End Bits
Mamamia article:
A former Sydney schoolgirl started a petition for sexual consent. 1200 students told their harrowing stories.
Sign the petition for consent to be included in sex education:
https://www.teachusconsent.com/
Where to find support if you have been impacted by rape, sexual assault or domestic violence:
National Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence Counselling Service 24-hour helpline 1800 RESPECT on 1800 737 732
Lifeline (24 hour crisis line): 131 114
Beyond Blue: 1300 224 636
How to have a conversation with someone who says they're not a feminist.
Bad Dates of Melbourne: https://www.facebook.com/baddatesofmelbourne
Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
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If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
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This episode was produced by Mel Sauer & Elissa Ratliff
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
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22 min
February 24, 2021 Meet The Women Who Are Making Thousands From OnlyFans
It's the latest get-rich-quick scheme but how much can you really make from OnlyFans? Luce and Em discuss the success stories and if it's achievable for the everyday person.
Plus, Lucy slept with her neighbour and now she has to see him every day. She tells Em how to recover from the awkwardness of a work hook-up .
And, what happens when a date goes from zero to one-hundred? In dating diary this week, Australian silver-medalist, Monique Murphy, gets rid of a clingy date using an excuse nobody could fault.
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How OnlyFans Creators Really Make Money — & What They’re Actually Earning
With special thanks to our dating diary guest, Monique Murphy
https://www.paralympic.org.au/athlete/monique-murphy/
Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
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Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Mel Sauer & Elissa Ratliff
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24 min
February 17, 2021 Mary Viturino On That Time She Got Catfished
Have you ever been cat-fished? Former Bachelor, contestant, Mary Viturino, has. In dating diary this week, she tells us how she had the last laugh.
Plus, nobody likes it, yet everybody does it. But in 2021, Lucy and Em think it's time to abolish reciprocal gift-giving and invites and their words of wisdom won't make you feel guilty about it.
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With special thanks to our dating diary guest, Mary Viturino https://www.instagram.com/maryviturino18/?hl=e
Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey
Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Mel Sauer & Elissa Ratliff
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18 min
February 10, 2021 Flex Mami's Dating Hack That Cuts Through The Bullsh*t
Flex Mami's joins us to talk dating but it quickly turns into a therapy session. Em and Lucy get to know each other (and themselves) a whole lot better and find out about the latest dating trend, "woke-fishing."
Plus, looking to buy your first vibrator? Or want to try something different? Em and Lucy recommend their top picks and what to look for.
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Lucy, Em & Flex Mami's vibrator recommendations:
Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator; $169.95
Bend by Rosewell; $149
MMM Rabbit Vibrator by Par Femme; $139.00
Tracey Cox Supersex Rabbit Ear Clitoral Vibrator; $49.95
Get to know your friends better with the Flex Mami x Hey Tiger chocolate blocks: https://heytiger.com.au/collections/valentines-day
With special thanks to our guest, Flex Mami: https://www.instagram.com/flex.mami/
Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey
Slide into our DMs @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Elissa Ratliff & Mel Sauer.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
38 min
February 04, 2021 You're Probably Suffering From Dating Burnout
Self-care. It's the latest wellness buzz-word and undeniably important for your mental health. But has it gone too far?
Plus, as requested by our lovely listeners Em and Luce interview pharmacist, Stephanie Johnston for a pharmacist's perspective on the morning after pill.
And in Dating Diary news, Em just got dumped. But there is a silver lining. For the first time, Em tells Luce how she's really feeling...
The End Bits
Listen to Dr. Ginni Mansberg's interview on the morning after pill:
https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/the-undone/morning-after-pill-myths/
Read more about how Em's feeling post break-up:
https://www.mamamia.com.au/dating-burnout/
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey
Slide into our DMs @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Elissa Ratliff & Mel Sauer.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21 min
January 28, 2021 How To Be A Good Ally
For a lot of Australians January 26 is not a day to celebrate but is a painful reminder of colonialism and the affect it's had on First Nation's people.
Em and Lucy speak to Murrawah Johnson, a Wirdi woman hailing from the broader Birragubba peoples of Central and North Queensland, about how she feels about January 26, and how we can all be better allies every day of the year.
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If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey
Slide into our DMs @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Elissa Ratliff & Emmeline Peterson.
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20 min
January 20, 2021 Yes, You Can Be Denied The Morning After Pill In Australia
"I've read somewhere that if you're over a certain weight you can't take it...why?"
"I remember in high school being told if you take it too many times you can become infertile."
"The myth that it works if you take it well within the time period. It doesn't."
These are just a few of the many myths about the morning after pill overheard by Mamamia staff. To set the record straight, Lucy and Em chat to women's health specialist, Dr. Ginni Mansberg and seperate fact from fiction.
Plus, Em's impressive attempt to go on five dates in five days left her exhausted...but she thinks everyone should try it. Find out why in this week dating diary.
The End Bits
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey
Slide into our DMs @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Elissa Ratliff & Mel Sauer.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25 min
January 13, 2021 Wait...Am I An Asshole?
There are three types of assholes in the world, and after reading Robert Sutton's book, The Asshole Survival Guide: How To Deal With People Who Treat You Like Dirt, Em is concerned that she may be one. So how do you know whether or not you’re an asshole? And is being an asshole really that bad? Lucy and Em break it down
Plus, a dating diary that goes from bad, to worse, to outright embarrassing. Find out how The Undone producer, Mel, wriggles out of this sticky situation.
The End Bits
The Asshole Survival Guide: How to Deal with People Who Treat You Like Dirt - Robert I. Sutton
'Don’t EVER use cat emojis.' A 2020 guide to dating through emojis. - Emily Vernem
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey
Slide into our DMs @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Elissa Ratliff & Mel Sauer.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19 min
January 06, 2021 Yes, You Can Be Friends With Your Ex
Breaking up is hard to do but it doesn't have to mean the end. Lucy gives us crash course on how to be friends with an ex.
Plus, what happens when a date tells you a bad kisser? From lip filler tips to kissing advice. Find out everything that happened in between in this rollercoaster dating diary.
The End Bits
Ten Books You Need To Read In Your 20s
Becoming - Michelle Obama
Such a Fun Age - Kiley Reid
Girl, Woman, Other - Bernardine Evaristo
Angus, Thongs and Full-Frontal Snogging - Louise Rennison
How To Be Perfect - Holly Wainwright
Harry Potter series - J.K. Rowling
Milk and Honey - Rupi Kaur
The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment - Eckhart Tolle
Eat Pray Love - Elizabeth Gilbert
The Handmaid’s Tale - Margaret Atwood
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey
Slide into our DMs @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Elissa Ratliff & Mel Sauer.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22 min
December 30, 2020 "I Broke Up With My Partner On New Years Eve"
It's Lucy's first New Years being single in a while, so Em shares her five tips for surviving New Years Eve as a single girl, and yes, they involve going to bed before 12am.
Plus, what happens when you're counting down to New Years and you decide to break up with your partner? One of our listeners shares a very raw dating diary.
And, why it's OK to hate New Years Eve.
The End Bits
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey
Slide into our DMs @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Elissa Ratliff & Leah Porges.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14 min

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When you’re in your 20s, everything feels complicated. Which is where The Undone comes in, a show about navigating the “adult” world without a GPS, friendship, love, sex, personal politics, and...…