The Undone

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The Undone episodes

May 13, 2021 The Red Flags You’re Probably Missing
Are you on the 'edge of burnout'? Lucy feels like she is and has bought an old alarm clock to try and beat it. Plus, we have a listener dilemma about the pros and cons of moving out with friends, and we discuss red flags; the ones we can laugh at and the ones that are more insidious.
The End Bits
You can read Mamamia's article on financial abuse here: Do any of these apply to you? The warning signs of financial abuse.
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This episode was produced by Emmeline Peterson
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29 min
May 06, 2021 The Pettiest Revenge We've Ever Heard
This week, we received a confession that potentially stepped over the line from petty to...criminal, which got us thinking about the benefits of being petty versus taking the high road. Em and Luce don't exactly see eye to eye.
Plus, Emily has figured out a foolproof way to start a good conversation on dating apps, and it all boils down to three simple questions.
The End Bits
You can read Em's article, 'I ask the men I meet on dating apps 3 questions. So far, I've had a 100% success rate.', here.
Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Emmeline Peterson
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21 min
April 29, 2021 Dating With A Rare Disease
Last year, our own Lucy Neville was diagnosed with a rare auto-immune disease that left her in excruciating pain and unable to walk at age 24. She opens up about what it was like dating during this time while managing her pain, and a pandemic.
And Emily has a Dating Diary story that ends with her being ghosted by the same guy, from the same app....
The End Bits
You can read Lucy's article, "At 24, I was diagnosed with a rare autoimmune disease. It made dating completely 'unsexy'.", here.
Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Emmeline Peterson
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26 min
April 22, 2021 A Breakup In The Middle Of The Ocean
What's the difference between being alone and lonely? And in a world that seems to be pushing women to think they can only be happy in a relationship, how can we make sure we're not wishing away our single life? Stacey June is the author of Single Pringle, and joins Lucy and Em to discuss exactly that, plus answer a listener dilemma.
Also, we're joined by friend of the pod Taylor who has the worst breakup story we've ever heard, and it involved a 'floating RSL'.
The End Bits
With special thanks to our guest, Stacey June.
Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Emmeline Peterson
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27 min
April 15, 2021 They/Them/Their: Why Pronouns Matter
Deni Todorovic, otherwise known as Style By Deni, is not only a fabulous stylist, but also a passionate advocate for LGBTQI+ issues and living authentically. We are lucky enough to have Deni join us to talk about the importance of respecting people's pronouns, and how being non-binary is allowing them to be their true self every single day.
Plus, the 2021 World Happiness Report is out and there's a few nuggets of wisdom we'll be taking on board, and a few we'll be ignoring.
The End Bits
With special thanks to our guest, Deni Todorovic.
The 4 lessons we could all learn from the 2021 World Happiness Report
Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Emmeline Peterson
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26 min
April 08, 2021 Why You Need To Quit Your Job
Whether you are watching Married At First Sight or not, you've probably heard of Bryce, the favourite 'villain' of this season. But is his behaviour towards his wife Melissa acceptable entertainment? Or are we just watching someone get gaslighted on national TV?
And a reddit thread has gone viral when a man and in his 50s confessed he was jealous of his young colleague's attitude to quitting jobs when the role didn't suit them. But are we doing ourselves a disservice?
Plus, how late can you really be to a date? We discuss a listener dilemma.
The End Bits
With special thanks to our guest, Moo Baulch, Next Chapter Advisor at Commonwealth Bank:
https://www.commbank.com.au/support/next-chapter.html
Last night, with a throwaway sentence, we saw Bryce at his most dangerous.
Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey
Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Emmeline Peterson & Elissa Ratliff
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27 min
April 01, 2021 Christian Hull Will Make You Look At Dating In A Different Way
YouTube star and self-confessed Grindr addict, Christian Hull, has had his fair share of bad dates. But there's always a silver lining...like getting a double pasta serving. His refreshing approach to dating will make you laugh and rethink your own dating life.
Plus, ever felt like you're competing with a friend or partner? You're not alone. Competitive friendships are unavoidable so how do you navigate them?
The End Bits
With special thanks to our guest, Christian Hull:
https://www.instagram.com/christianhull/?hl=en
Want more dating and life advice? Check out Christian Hull's book, Leave Me Alone:
https://www.allenandunwin.com/browse/books/general-books/humour-gift/Leave-Me-Alone-Christian-Hull-9781760876531
Anna Faris, Chris Pratt, and the problem with competitiveness in Hollywood relationships.
Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey
Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Mel Sauer & Elissa Ratliff
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28 min
March 24, 2021 When Fetishes Turn Deadly
Last week a 21-year-old man went on a shooting spree targeting three massage spas in the United States. Eight people were murdered, including six Asian women. The gunman later blamed a "sex addiction" for the shooting and it's sparked a long overdue conversation about the danger of racial fetishes.
Plus, what happens when you make a $20 million mistake at work? Mamamia's Head of People & Culture, Nicolle Stuart, gives advice on recovering from a work f*ck-up.
And, ever been ghosted? Ghosting is an inevitable part of dating in 2021. So what should you do if you think you're being ghosted. And...is ghosting ever OK?
The End Bits
What’s the difference between having a 'type' and fetishisation?
21 Texts To Send When You Think You're About To Get Ghosted - Bustle
Ghosting Always Sucks, but It Is So! Much! Worse! In a Global Pandemic - Cosmopolitan
'Last week, a guy told me honestly why he was dumping me. I wish he'd just ghosted.' - Mamamia
Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey
Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Mel Sauer & Elissa Ratliff
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
31 min
March 17, 2021 Is My Sex Life Normal?
It's the chat that will make you feel a whole lot better about your sex life.
Rowdie Walden, the voice behind the Spotify original podcast, Search Engine Sex, joins us to answer all your burning sex questions. From "the best" sex positions, to squirting, Rowdie leaves no stone unturned.
Plus, ever wondered how some people manage to fit so much into their day? Lucy tells Em about her simple hack to help make the most of the day.
The End Bits
Check out Search Engine Sex on Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/show/1rVgYR9Lt4Kw1202uCLlSE
Thanks to our guest, Rowdie Walden:
https://www.instagram.com/rowdiewalden/?hl=en
Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey
Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Mel Sauer & Elissa Ratliff
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21 min
March 10, 2021 The Question You Cannot Ask On A Date
Have you ever friend-targeted someone and been rejected?
Making friends in your 20s isn't easy. Whether you're struggling to meet new people or don't have the time to maintain the friendships that matter, Lucy and Em discuss strategies.
Plus, skinny jeans are cancelled. But it's not because they're uncool. Find out the real reason Gen-Z-ers are rocking baggier jeans.
And, it's one of the worst questions to ask on a date but Em's been asked it so many times, she's now got the perfect response. She tells Lucy about it in dating diary.
The End Bits
Mamamia article:
"We're taking the ugly back." I'm from Gen Z, and this is why we cancelled skinny jeans.
The Quicky, It's International Women's Day, But Do We Still Need Feminism?
https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/the-quicky/iwd-feminism/
Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.
Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey
Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville
If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected]
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to [email protected]
This episode was produced by Mel Sauer & Elissa Ratliff
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23 min

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When you’re in your 20s, everything feels complicated. Which is where The Undone comes in, a show about navigating the “adult” world without a GPS, friendship, love, sex, personal politics, and...…