The Unplugged Alpha

In this live show me and Rollo get together to chop it up on the topic of how to properly raise daughters so they have success in all areas of life as an adult.

This cast will discuss female nature, why men must understand it, and how women view men that comprehend female nature. Inspired by a female viewer, this is her email pasted below...

Dear Richard,

I am a 32-year-old woman, I read your book, and I appreciate everything you are doing to help men all over the world. I'd also like to better understand how you view women.

It feels to me like you view them (us) as perpetually immature beings compared to men. You call women solipsistic and define solipsism as "can't see past her own nose." You say that the company of women without sex is not interesting to you because you have so little in common. You think you'd get better company from a dog. You think women don't care about a man's struggles and don't have the capacity for true loyalty.

If all that is right, what's another word to describe this? This lack of character, integrity, empathy, capacity for personal autonomy or growth? I don't think you see women as psychopaths. So, I think "perpetually immature" might be a good term, with the female version of a (sort of) "maturation" as submission to a man.

And what about men? You and Rollo have this video about these four dorky guys in a poly relationship, and you say that you can turn them into men in no time. But you don't think women can take ownership of their lives, other than submitting to men? Or only take ownership in as far as learning to service men better, but what about building character?

Ultimately, I'm asking you whether you think women are capable of pursuing and achieving integrity over the course of their lives, the way men can? And if you don't think they can, what sense of meaning could they get from their lives? What sense of meaning would I get from mine, if everything I think you believe about women were true about me? And what would that even look like or feel like? I don't tend toward a victim mindset, unless perhaps I was in really tragic conditions. So, either I have a moral need to pursue integrity, which I do, or I am very immature, which I no longer am, or I am a psychopath, which I never was. Yes, I am just talking about me right now, but can't the world be full of women who feel and think and behave the same way?

Do you understand the question I am asking you? I think you see men as having endless potential, moral and otherwise, but women as these sorts of caricatures of real people. They may claim to be moral, but with a shallow self-righteousness that's based on momentary emotions. That are just mindlessly living out their evolutionary programming, like talking, walking, bigger-breasted chimpanzees. Is that how you view them (us)?

Love,

Irene

This podcast will examine the reasons why 75% of (married/divorced) men today DO NOT recommend marriage to single men.

Through a process of betatization through a thousand concessions, most men lose "frame" in a longer term relationship, and she stops or pulls back on things like intimacy, and stops respecting you.

Paul Benjamin, Rian Stone & Rollo Tomassi joins me tonight to talk about getting the frame back in an LTR.

Celebrating 100 episodes of the 'Before The Train Wreck" series, I'll have a few close friends join me, and call ins will be open so you can ask a question, or share your biggest lesson learned from the series.

There's an epidemic of posers, frauds, clout chasers and fake men shilling lies that will eventually lead to a train wreck for men serious about seeking betterment.

Tonight I'll show you how to identify these dangerous personalities, and why you should avoid them.

In this cast we'll examine the concept of loyalty, monogamy, and if woman can be loyal to one man.

Many men seek 'loyalty' as a characteristic in a long term partner, but few understand what drives a woman to be loyal to a man.

To understand this, we'll first talk about the 3 main innate characteristics of women (hypergamy, Briffaults law & solipsism) that drive their choices.

Then we will talk about monogamy, as it relates to relationships.

We'll wrap on on signs she is straying, or about to stray in the relationship.

In this cast, I break down the advice from 3 women in a kitchen giving other women terrible advice on how to be a trophy wife, and what women really need to do if they want to land a top shelf man.

This podcast will deal with envy, as Robert Greene wrote about in the book "The Laws of Human Nature."

Envy first THEN friendship follows. Friends are more likely to become envious of you

Their key goal is to find your weakness & how to hurt you.

They rationalize a false narrative about your success IE you got to where you were by luck or a silver spoon.

Have a neutral third party to keep an eye over your shoulder AKA a 'sober second thinker' Kevin O'Leary

People never admit their envy because that means they need to consider themselves inferior

4 MAJOR signs of envy are

- micro expressions - IE dagger eyes (they only last a few seconds)

- poisonous praise - Disparaging comments cushioned as praise IE when you successfully finish a project, they will comment about how much money you will make rather than praise your hard work.

- backbiting - Envious people enjoy talking about the negative aspects of a persons character weather real or imagined.

- seesawing - of positive & negative actions - IE they heap praise then harsh criticisms then warm up again repeating the cycle

5 main type of enviers

1. the leveler - they tear down anyone that has achieved something great, and try to bring them down to their mediocre level - they never see excellence in others unless they are dead.

2. The self entitled slacker - they feel like the world owes them attention/praise even though they lack the discipline to do the hard work

3. The status friend - they always measure people via social status - they envy those of a higher status & envy those who enjoy certain privileges'

4. The attacher - They don't have a calling in life so they attach themselves to people with a sense of purpose - they envy & ultimately attack the person they have attached to

5. The insecure master - they are an insecure person who holds a high position in society - but secretly doubts their worth therefore they envy more talented subordinates

#Envy​ #Jealousy​ #RobertGreene​

I'm joined tonight by a seasoned man from LA sharing his insights on dating in the modern era. We will cover the following 10 points, and talk about how to avoid making a train wreck out of life.

1. The digital transformation of the dating space - How men are getting left behind

2. The impact of the pandemic on the dating scene - How most men got screwed

3. Why text game is more critical than ever before - Why most men don't know how to communicate

4. My experiences with dating apps and sites in 2020 - Case studies guys can learn from

5. Common mistakes guys make with texting - what to avoid

6. The key strategy of text game - How to navigate the digitized world

7. Know the rules so you’ll know how to bend and break them

8. Bridging the gap between your digital self and real self

9. The hard reality of the digital future of the dating space - A warning for men

10. Why now is the golden time to get ahead of the pack