In this week’s episode, I’m talking about the power of showing up — for your community, for the people you love, and for yourself. Life feels heavy for so many of us right now, and community has never been more important. Sometimes the blessing isn’t in the outcome…it’s in the simple act of being present.

We’ll explore how showing up creates connection, how God can meet you right in the middle of supporting someone else, and why your own presence is one of the safest gifts you can give.

If you’ve been feeling stretched, tired, or unsure, I hope this conversation encourages you to keep showing up — gently, intentionally, and with grace.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why showing up matters more than ever
• How being present for others can bless your own journey
• The difference between performative presence and real presence
• How to show up for yourself with compassion and boundaries
• Why community care is essential in times of collective stress
• Ways to stay grounded while you’re supporting others
• The quiet strength that grows when you choose to be present

Key Takeaways

• Your presence doesn’t have to be perfect — it just has to be real
• Showing up for others often reveals what you need for yourself
• Community is built one intentional moment at a time
• God can give clarity, peace, and direction when you’re serving
• Protecting your capacity is part of showing up well

Reflection Questions

• Where is life inviting you to “show up”?
• How can you honor your own needs while being present for others?
• What blessings or lessons have come from moments when you showed up, even when you weren’t at your best?

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In this heartfelt episode of The Well Done Life, Pamela welcomes back author, speaker, and publisher Kennisha Thornton for a rich conversation about faith, motherhood, and purpose. Centered on her latest book, Grace & Grit: 10 Days of Faith and Fearless Confidence for Mompreneurs on the Move, Kennisha opens up about what it truly means to carry both—our calling and our children—with grace, courage, and conviction.

Together, they explore how faith sustains us through the stretch, how rest becomes sacred, and why our greatest legacy isn’t success, but fruit that lasts. This episode is a gentle reminder that you don’t have to choose between nurturing your family and fulfilling your God-given dreams—you were created for both.

About Kennisha Thornton:
Kennisha Thornton is an author, international speaker, adjunct Communications professor, and founder of Create and Blossom Publishing. With over 15 published books, her passion is amplifying voices that inspire change and using storytelling and creativity to help business professionals thrive. Kennisha has been featured on local news affiliates of ABC, CBS, FOX, and NBC, highlighted in several magazines, and interviewed on numerous podcasts. Through her teaching, coaching, and writing, she empowers others to share their stories with clarity, confidence, and purpose.

Kennisha's information: 

Create & Blossom Information: https://linktr.ee/Createandblossomllc

IG: https://www.instagram.com/ms.kennisha/

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With only 60 days left in 2025, it’s time to check in — with ourselves and with our community. The world feels heavy right now. Between immigration struggles, government shutdown threats, rising costs, and emotional fatigue, many of us are carrying more than we realize.

This week’s episode is a reminder to slow down and tend to your own garden — to nurture your peace, your growth, and your purpose. But it’s also a call to remember that our gardens are connected. We bloom best when we look out for one another.

Pamela shares how to find balance between caring for yourself and showing up for others — especially in times when the world feels uncertain.

In This Episode, We’ll Explore:

• Why it’s important to focus inward instead of comparing your growth to others.
• How to protect your peace in chaotic times without disconnecting from compassion.
• The importance of community care — supporting others without depleting yourself.
• How to close out 2025 with intention and prepare your “garden” for 2026.

Resources:

• Rest is Resistance : https://thenapministry.wordpress.com/

Reflection & Journal Prompts:

Take a few moments after listening to reflect on these questions. Screenshot them or write them down — these are your end-of-year check-ins.

Tending to Self

• What feels neglected or needs pruning?
• What am I ready to release before the year ends?
• How can I protect my peace while staying present for the people I love?

Tending to Community

• Who in my circle might need a check-in or encouragement?
• How can I show support in small, sustainable ways?
• What boundaries do I need so I can give without running dry?
• How can I use my gifts or voice to contribute — even in uncertain times?

Preparing for 2026

• What do I want my “garden” — my life — to feel like going into 2026?
• What seeds do I want to plant now for the year ahead?
• Where do I need faith, rest, or patience as I grow?

Connect & Continue the Conversation:

If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need a reminder to water their own garden.

The Well Done Life Podcast Information:
The Reset Experience Recap Video: https://youtu.be/4ynD3AEuz2I?si=okF38OJIH4vLoVmJ

Previous Episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/851650/episodes/18073010-homecoming.mp3?download=true

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Let’s remind each other that peace and purpose begin from within — and when we tend to our own gardens, we all bloom together. 

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Episode Summary

This week on The Well Done Life, Pamela returns to her alma mater, Florida A&M University, for the first time since 1996 — and rediscovers the power of coming home.

In this heartfelt episode, she reflects on how “life” sometimes pulls us away from the places that shaped us, and how revisiting our roots can become the grounding we need to keep moving forward.

“Homecoming” isn’t just about stepping foot on familiar ground — it’s about realignment, gratitude, and remembering who we are at the core.

Episode Highlights

•  Returning to Florida A&M after nearly 30 years
•  Recognizing how “life” can pull us away from our grounding
•  The emotional reset that comes from reconnecting with your past
•  How revisiting your foundation helps you remember your power
•  The reminder that home is not a place — it’s a state of being

Reflection Questions 

1. When was the last time you revisited a place, memory, or habit that once grounded you?
2. How has “life” distracted you from the roots that once fed your soul?
3. What does “home” mean to you right now — emotionally, spiritually, and mentally?
4. Who were you before the world told you who to be?
5. How can you create moments of “homecoming” in your everyday life?

Quoteable Moment

“Growth doesn’t mean you’ve outgrown your foundation. It means your foundation carried you far enough to stand strong wherever you go.” — Pamela Davis

Call to Action

If this episode reminded you of your own “homecoming,” share it with someone who’s been feeling untethered. Let’s remind each other to return — not just to the places that built us, but to the peace within us.

The Well Done Life Podcast Information:
The Reset Experience Recap Video: https://youtu.be/4ynD3AEuz2I?si=okF38OJIH4vLoVmJ

Previous Episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/851650/episodes/17994473-the-place-of-waiting.mp3?download=true

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In this tender and deeply personal episode, Pamela shares a quiet, sacred moment with her 78-year-old mother — a woman of deep faith who, in the middle of a routine doctor’s appointment, spoke the words: “I feel like I’m in a place of waiting.”

That single sentence opened the door to a conversation about peace, transition, and what it means to live with acceptance when you know your next chapter is near.

Pamela reflects on how her mother’s calm, unwavering faith became a lesson in letting go with grace — and how love can teach us to release without losing connection.

This episode is for anyone walking beside aging parents, navigating loss, or learning to make peace with the sacred pauses life brings.

“She wasn’t waiting in fear — she was waiting in faith.”

Tara Pringle Jefferson's Information: https://www.tarapringlejefferson.com/

The Well Done Life Podcast Information:
The Reset Experience Recap Video: https://youtu.be/4ynD3AEuz2I?si=okF38OJIH4vLoVmJ

Previous Episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/851650/episodes/17955586-bloom-how-you-must.mp3?download=true

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In this week’s episode, Pamela opens her heart about what it truly means to choose yourself — even when that choice goes against expectations. Inspired by her story featured in Tara Jefferson’s upcoming book Bloom How You Must, this episode is about reclaiming your peace, rewriting the rules of self-worth, and learning to bloom unapologetically in your own time and way.

Pamela shares how choosing herself first became the foundation for her personal reset — and how every woman deserves the same freedom. This is a conversation for every woman who’s ever poured into everyone else and realized she left nothing for herself.

Because choosing you isn’t selfish — it’s sacred. 

 Episode Breakdown

[00:00 – 04:00] — Opening Reflection: The Courage to Bloom

Pamela welcomes listeners and introduces Bloom How You Must. She shares the power behind her feature in Tara Jefferson’s new book and why blooming sometimes looks messy before it becomes beautiful.

[04:01 – 10:00] — The Turning Point: Choosing Me First

She opens up about the moment she realized she was being everything to everyone and nothing to herself — and how resetting her life began with one radical decision: choosing peace.

[10:01 – 17:00] — The Courage to Choose You

Pamela explores the bravery it takes to choose yourself when others expect you to stay the same. She reminds us that it’s not our job to carry the weight of other people’s expectations. Choosing you is not selfish — it’s necessary.

[17:01 – 22:00] — The Lesson: You Can’t Pour From an Empty Soul

She challenges the narrative that self-sacrifice equals worthiness and redefines what love looks like when it includes yourself.

[22:01 – 28:00] — The Bloom: Redefining Wholeness

Pamela shares how her own bloom now looks like peace, joy, and alignment — and offers ways for listeners to begin their own process of blooming how they must.

[28:01 – End] — Closing Reflection: Bloom Without Apology

She closes with a reminder that your bloom doesn’t need permission. You have one life — live it for you, fully and unapologetically.

 Key Takeaways

• You can’t be everything to everyone and still have space to be yourself.
• Choosing yourself is not selfish — it’s courageous.
• Your peace deserves protection.
• You are allowed to evolve, even when it makes others uncomfortable.
• Blooming isn’t always pretty, but it’s always necessary.

 Reflection Prompt

 Where in my life have I been shrinking when I should be blooming?

 Pull Quote

“Choosing you doesn’t make you selfish — it makes you whole.

Tara Pringle Jefferson's Information: https://www.tarapringlejefferson.com/

 Connect & Continue the Conversation

 Follow Pamela on Instagram: @pamelaldavis

 Follow The Well Done Life Podcast: @thewelldonelifepodcast

 Tag your reflections with #BloomHowYouMust

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Have you ever made a big decision in the middle of pain, anger, or fear — only to regret it later? In this week’s episode of The Well Done Life, we’re unpacking why it’s so important to pause before we act, especially in temporary spaces of distress.

This episode is a companion to “Creating Spaces We Didn’t Have.” Because yes, you can build safe spaces — but you can’t thrive there if your heart is still closed, carrying shame, or refusing to forgive yourself.

We’ll explore:

 How temporary emotions can lead to permanent consequences. The difference between reciprocal vs. codependent relationships. Why self-forgiveness is essential to healing and building healthy community. How releasing past disappointments opens us to God’s purpose.

When we forgive ourselves, we free up space for love, belonging, and true community. Every healed decision expands our ability to create and dwell in spaces where we can grow.

 Tune in now — and remember: just because something looks one way today, doesn’t mean it will stay that way forever.

Key Takeaways (bullet list):

• Don’t let temporary pain dictate permanent choices.

• Forgiveness, especially self-forgiveness, breaks cycles of shame.

• Reciprocal relationships are the foundation of community.

• Healing decisions open the door to God’s purpose and peace.

Tags / Keywords:

#TheWellDoneLife #HealingJourney #SelfForgiveness #Community #Faith #Purpose #PersonalGrowth

The Well Done Life Podcast Information:
The Reset Experience Recap Video: https://youtu.be/4ynD3AEuz2I?si=okF38OJIH4vLoVmJ

Previous Episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/851650/episodes/17874990-creating-the-spaces-we-didn-t-have.mp3?download=true

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In this episode, we reflect on what it means to create the spaces we didn’t have growing up. Many of us are building homes filled with nurture, safety, and love—breaking cycles of fear, silence, and “walking on eggshells.”

But creating space doesn’t stop at our front door. God calls us to extend that same care and wisdom into our communities, especially for the younger generation navigating without guidance. Together, let’s explore how to honor where we came from, forgive what we couldn’t control, and boldly author the lives and legacies God planted in us.

 Whether at home or in community, this is your reminder: you are free to create safe, nurturing spaces that will outlive you.

Reflection Questions:

1. Where in your life are you currently creating spaces that you didn’t have growing up?
2. Who in your circle—family, friends, or community—could benefit from you creating a safe space for them this week?
3. What wisdom, lesson, or story from your journey could you share with someone younger to inspire them?
4. In what ways have you forgiven yourself (or your family) for past cycles, and how has that freed you to build differently?
5. How can you step more boldly into being the “author” of your life, aligned with the purpose God planted in you?

Call to Action:

 If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs encouragement.

 Follow me on Instagram and Threads [@thewelldonelifepodcast] for more conversations on faith, growth, and healing.

 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it helps more women find The Well Done Life!

The Well Done Life Podcast Information:
The Reset Experience Recap Video: https://youtu.be/4ynD3AEuz2I?si=okF38OJIH4vLoVmJ

Previous Episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/851650/episodes/17799853-trust-yourself.mp3?download=true

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Trust Yourself is about finding the courage to say the hard part out loud. This episode continues the journey from “Dying to Self: Releasing the Ego My Childhood Built” and dives into what it means to battle fear and triggers with vulnerability.

We’ll talk about the moment you realize the people who love you, love you in spite of you — not because you’re perfect, but because you’re real. Through surrender and openness, we discover that the support we’ve always needed is closer than we think.

If you’ve ever wrestled with silence, pride, or fear of rejection, this conversation is for you. Let’s keep dying to ourselves, speaking truth, and living free and light.

The Well Done Life Podcast Information:
The Reset Experience Recap Video: https://youtu.be/4ynD3AEuz2I?si=okF38OJIH4vLoVmJ

Previous Episode:https://www.buzzsprout.com/851650/episodes/17720210-a-lot-can-change-in-a-year-delayed-not-denied.mp3?download=true

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Sometimes all you need is a moment to pause, breathe, and reset. In this short bonus episode, I’ll guide you through affirmations across the four pillars of The Reset Experience: mental health, physical health, financial health, and building community.

Take a few minutes to ground yourself, speak life over your journey, and realign with peace and purpose. Whether you’re starting your day, taking a mid-week pause, or winding down, these affirmations are here to remind you: you can reset anytime you choose.

 Breathe in. Speak truth. Reset.

The Well Done Life Podcast Information:
The Reset Experience Recap Video: https://youtu.be/4ynD3AEuz2I?si=okF38OJIH4vLoVmJ

Previous Episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/851650/episodes/17643293-dying-to-self-releasing-the-ego-my-childhood-built.mp3?download=true

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