This Is My Truth

Today's conversation with Jennifer was raw, authentic and touched on so many topics that I feel many of us have a hard time talking about. Jennifer shares her story around preserving through a relationship of domestic violence and how she is now an advocate for those who may not always have a voice. She is an Elizabeth Dole Fellow for Arkansas focused on caregivers and Veterans and I learned so much from my conversation with her. I am honored to have been able to have this conversation with such a strong, amazing & authentic human. 

You can follow Jennifer on her journey through her podcast, Mom2WifePlusLife available on 11 platforms (https://anchor.fm/mom2wife2life) or email her at [email protected].

I hope you enjoy our conversation!

xoxo, Jessi

This is My Truth is a newly launched podcast, and I'd love to know what you think! Please consider leaving a review, comment or rate the podcast on Apple Podcasts. If my message resonated with you, please share with others in your circle who may benefit as well! It would be much appreciated!

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Today my heart is heavy. As I told my team at work yesterday, I'm not OK. As my city literally burns 3 miles south of me. As police treat peaceful protesters downtown with brutality. As my neighborhood acts like nothing is amiss. I'm not OK. And so, as I prepared to record today's episode, I decided to scrap what I was going to talk about & share what is truly #mytruth today.

Today's episode feels very vulnerable, but that's part of my privilege isn't it? I realize the episode maybe says too much & too little at the same time. I am struggling with what are the right things to say & do. If there is anything offensive or off base, please, I welcome a public correction so that I can learn.

Here are the resources I mentioned in the episode: http://bit.ly/ANTIRACISMRESOURCES

Today I chatted with Heidi Rumohr who is also a warrior in the infertility battle. With honesty & grace, Heidi shares her truth around self acceptance & self-love during her journey. Heidi shares not only her journey in becoming pregnant but what motherhood, post infertility, was like for her. 

You can continue to follow Heidi & her journey through her community, Fitness & Finance, at www.fitnessandfinance.ca

xoxo, Jessi

This is My Truth is a newly launched podcast, and I'd love to know what you think! Please consider leaving a review, comment or rate the podcast on Apple Podcasts. If my message resonated with you, please share with others in your circle who may benefit as well! It would be much appreciated!

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In this episode, I share a recent moment that I experienced with the girls at the park. In that moment, I realized I am my harshest judge, especially when it comes to parenting. I talk about my rumblings with judgement over the years and I reflect on the quote from Hoda's book "I really Needed This Today" that says "Do not judge. You do not know the journey I asked her to walk through."

"The woods are lovely, dark & deep. But I have promises to keep. And miles to go before I sleep. And miles to go before I sleep." - Robert Frost

Today I had the chance to have an honest and open conversation with Sapphire Geer who shares her story of overcoming the cold & wilderness of the Yukon at 11 year old. Her story is one of survival, tenacity & resilience, not only in what she had to overcome as a child, but in working through her story years later in what will be her upcoming launch of her memoir, "Survive: To survive & save the family. There was no other choice." In Sapphire's own words: "The point behind it all, is our past does NOT define us. I want everyone to know that our childhood trauma can be used as a catalyst to being incredible human beings and living a incredible life if we choose to."

To follow along on Sapphire's memoir journey, please visit her at https://www.facebook.com/pg/survivethecold/posts/

I hope you enjoy our conversation!

xoxo, Jessi

This is My Truth is a newly launched podcast, and I'd love to know what you think! Please consider leaving a review, comment or rate the podcast on Apple Podcasts. If my message resonated with you, please share with others in your circle who may benefit as well! It would be much appreciated!

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Email: [email protected]

Web: www.jessishuraleff.com

Today I was out for a walk planning what I was going to talk about on the podcast and a bird pooped on me. It was the perfect metaphor for what I was going to talk about which was that #MyTruthToday is that my inner voice terrifies me at times. 

Since launching this podcast, people have said I'm brave or courageous, but truthfully, I am terrified 99% of the time. I'm terrified of people not liking what I put out there, of judgement to my character, of failing those who are coming on to the platform to have honest conversations. But the reality is, if I listen to & follow my inner voice (even when I don't like what it has to say), it will always lead me on my next right step. But that leap of faith is hard when you can't always see it. 

Sometimes in life you will get shit on (literally & metaphorically) but when you get quiet and ask yourself, what is this shit trying to tell me and you ACT, that's when the true magic happens. 

Enjoy! xoxo, Jessi

This is My Truth is a newly launched podcast, and I'd love to know what you think! Please consider leaving a review, comment or rate the podcast on Apple Podcasts. If my message resonated with you, please share with others in your circle who may benefit as well! It would be much appreciated!

You can connect to This is My Truth on:

*PRIVATE* Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/238438050699433/

Leave me a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jessi-shuraleff/message

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisismytruthpodcast/

Email: [email protected]

Web: www.jessishuraleff.com

Ever meet someone in your life who you immediately just want to talk to again and again? Diane is one of those people. Her story, around her parenting journey, is one that so many of us can relate to, regardless if we have children or not. In this episode, we talk about the harsh judgement we put on each other and the impact that has on those around us. 

Diane has taken her journey and is on a mission to change how parents react to what traditionally has been labeled “bad behavior”. Diane believes that when a child is acting out, what they are really doing is presenting us with an opportunity for growth, both for our children and for ourselves.

You can find her at her website, Beauty in Behavior, at dianesorensen.net.

I hope you enjoyed the conversation as much as I did!

xoxo, Jessi

When I finally admitted I wasn't happy, I didn't know what my next step was supposed to be. I froze. But I got help & I found a community. Now it's my turn to pay it forward.  Join our private FB community here where we can each share moments, small, big or anything in between, that are our truth.  

This is My Truth is a newly launched podcast, and I'd love to know what you think! Please consider leaving a review, comment or rate the podcast on Apple Podcasts. If my message resonated with you, please share with others in your circle who may benefit as well! It would be much appreciated!

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In this episode, I dig into some of the thoughts, or limiting beliefs, that have held me back from doing things over the years, and more recently with this podcast. What I've learned over the last year and a half is how you talk to yourself, what you say...matters. We all have inner voices that say "should I, shouldn't I?" "But are you really qualified?" Or maybe that's just my inner voice (though I'm hoping others are with me!). In this episode, I explore my biggest limiting beliefs and how I now recognize them & move past them. Because as my favorite Morning Mama meditation says...if you believe you can, you will. 

xoxo, Jessi

This is My Truth is a newly launched podcast, and I'd love to know what you think! Please consider leaving a review, comment or rate the podcast on Apple Podcasts. If my message resonated with you, please share with others in your circle who may benefit as well! It would be much appreciated!

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"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" Ralph Waldo Emerson

Think about that quote. Really think about it. It makes me tear up because I think this is what so many of us strive for, but sometimes, it's so hard to do. I share this quote because today's episode is a conversation I had with Daniela Giangiorgi who graciously shares her "lemons, so we can make lemonade." Daniela and I talk about her divorce, her journey with cancer, but the underlying theme throughout our conversation is that you cannot be truly yourself, if you are not honoring yourself. And you are not able to honor yourself (fully) if you are constantly putting others first. There were so many points that Daniela made that stuck me deeply...like that mirror you didn't want in your face...but it's so important to have those conversations because then you're aware of what needs to be looked at. 

I hope you enjoy our conversation as much as I did!

xoxo,

Jessi

P.S. I was a 57 on Daniela's people pleasing quiz (eeks!).

More about Daniela:

Daniela is a mother of two, cancer survivor, speaker, and coach who teaches parents to create a loving and peaceful family. She specifically supports women by helping them find more energy by claiming their life’s purpose and becoming their own greatest advocate.

Daniela has over 14 years of transformational and leadership education. But she accounts her greatest teachings to come from her personal journey of cancer, divorce, and raising children with medical needs. Her mission is to make her life teachings a gift of empowerment for others. She uses her leadership and transformational education plus her unique life experiences to create a rich parenting curriculum for her workshops and classes.

Free gift:  People Pleasing Quiz => https://www.reclaimyourselfmama.com/QuizRegistration

[email protected]

https://togetherweriseparents.com

xoxo, Jessi

This is My Truth is a newly launched podcast, and I'd love to know what you think! Please consider leaving a review, comment or rate the podcast on Apple Podcasts. If my message resonated with you, please share with others in your circle who may benefit as well! It would be much appreciated!

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Today I talk about how I've been having a series of bad days, and even though I knew why I was having them, I still struggled to get myself out of the rut. But today I took control and began to (slowly!) shift my mindset (hey, I was able to launch this episode, right?!?). But it got me thinking, about how many of us are probably having not so great moments/days/weeks right now given the global pandemic and how we can think about supporting one another. 

I came across this quote from Mother Theresa " It's not about how much we give but how much love we put into giving." What are small ways we can pay it forward during this difficult time for many? So take a listen, and let me know if you're in! 

xoxo, Jessi

This is My Truth is a newly launched podcast, and I'd love to know what you think! Please consider leaving a review, comment or rate the podcast on Apple Podcasts. If my message resonated with you, please share with others in your circle who may benefit as well! It would be much appreciated!

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Leave me a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jessi-shuraleff/message

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisismytruthpodcast/

Email: [email protected]

Web: www.jessishuraleff.com