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Better Help: betterhelp.com

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Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

Today, Toks has longtime friend and one of the most thoughtful, giving and talented people she knows on the show! Toks and Matt Jones talk about personal growth, life in Africa and brown food. To follow Toks and/ or the podcast on social media head to @ToksOlagundoye on Twitter and/ or @tolykay on Instagram and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye or check out her website at www.ToksOlagundoye.com To find out more about the amazing things the Los Angeles Mission and OPCC do and to find out how you can help go to @TheLAMission on Instagram and Twitter or https://m.facebook.com/LosAngelesMission/ on Facebook, @ThePeopleConcern on Instagram @ThePplConcern on Twitter and https://m.facebook.com/ThePeopleConcern/on Facebook. To find out the incredible things Doctors Without Borders AKA Médecins Sans Frontières (MSF) does and/ or to donate/ volunteer please visit them at https://www.doctorswithoutborders.org/ and follow them at @DoctorsWithoutBorders on Instagram and/ or @MSF_USA on Twitter and/ or https://m.facebook.com/msf.english/ on Facebook.

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive content):

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Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

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Thanks for listening! If you like or love what you hear please take the time to rate us five stars on iTunes and leave a little review if you have time! If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

Toks is back from visiting her parents in Nigeria and is so jet lagged that this episode may be largely incomprehensible; it's possible she even falls asleep at one point.

She and El Hubbo chat about choking, flight etiquette and cleaning the bathroom (and Toks would like everyone to know that in said bathroom she only partakes in the one sink for make-up application and dental care and uses the guest bathroom for showers and such; as Catherine Zeta-Jones ones said "For marriage to be a success, every woman and every man should have their own bathroom!").

Find Toks on:

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https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

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Thanks for listening! If you like or love what you hear please take the time to rate us five stars on iTunes and leave a little review if you have time! If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

This week's Steeping With The Enemy is cancelled due to a trip Toks had to take for a project......

Instead, you get a very special Tea For Two AND Tea For Two; Steeping With The Enemy hybrid!

Toks and El Hubbo did this once before when he interviewed her. This episode is the very first that was ever recorded. A mock interview from March 11, 2017 in which Toks interviewed El Hubbo to see if her format worked.

They were never going to share it, but they decided that it would be a nice #BTS treat instead of giving you no episode at all!

This week Toks and El Hubbo chat about glitter and sushi (this was a few months before Toks went vegan) and Amanda (who was our first ever official guest - #AMAZINGEPISODE) keeps calling.

Even though we aren't happy about paper waste in any capacity we are very happy to support The Nature Conservancy and we hope you will, too! You can find them on social media at @nature_org on Twitter and Instagram, The Nature Conservancy on Facebook and check out what they do and donate at www.nature.org.

You can find Much Better at @_muchbetter on Twitter and Instagram, Much Better on FB, and find their music at muchbetterband.bandcamp.com, spotify, amazon music, youtube music, iTunes and probably more!!

Find Toks on:

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Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

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Thanks for listening! If you like or love what you hear please take the time to rate us five stars on iTunes and leave a little review if you have time! If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

Today, Toks talks with the multitalented, the incredible, the truly fabulous Tye Blue! From the musical parodies he is famous for in LA to his unforgettable drag events in Houston, Texas to his casting for Drag Race the stories never end. Today Toks and Tye talk stalkers, Jesus with a biscuit and Fancy..... It'll all make sense when you hear it. You can find Tye on Instagram at @TyeBlue1 on Twitter at @TyeBlue and in Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/Tye-Blue-Fan-Page-357627117586543/?hc_ref=OTHER&fref=nf If you are in the Houston area and would like to check out HATCH, volunteer or donate you can go to www.hatchyouth.org. You can follow then on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/HATCHyouth/ and on Twitter at @hatchyouth. If you'd like to contact them directly please email them at [email protected] and remember, wherever in this world you are: you are NOT alone. Your tribe is out there and they want to hear from you! To check out what the wonderful Ellen Ballon Dante does at Deity Animal Rescue Andy/ or to donate or foster please go to their social media at @deityanimalrescue on instagram and https://www.facebook.com/deityanimalrescue/ on Facebook. If you like the show please give us five stars on iTunes! If not..... don't be a dick (we mean that with so much love, though)!

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

Toks and El Hubbo are shaking up Steeping With The Enemy a little. They figured you may want to know what's going on with past guests, so they're bringing them on the halfisodes to chat. We kick this new format off with one of our favorite people on the planet: Tim Jo. He played Toks's son on the ABC sitcom "The Neighbors" and currently he and El Hubbo have a punk band called Much Better. Toks, El Hubbo and Tim chat about social media, favorite films and the incredibly creepy Japanese Horror Film type occurrence that Tim recently experienced #Ringu #WhyGodWhy To follow Toks and/ or the podcast on social media head to @ToksOlagundoye on Twitter and/ or @tolykay on Instagram and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye or check out her website at www.ToksOlagundoye.com Find Tim Jo on social media at @HelloTimJo on Instagram and @TimothyWJo on Twitter

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

This week Toks sits down with one of her closest lady friends and chosen sister (aka sisterfriend), Sally Stewart. A woman who has taught Toks many a wonderful thing in this life and who is one of the most supportive, hilarious, confident, hardworking, amazing, charming, genuine, talented, intelligent, giving, selfless, honest, gorgeous and interesting human beings anyone has ever had the privilege of meeting. They talk about everything, all the things and anything besides those two things. Find Sally Stewart on social media at @sallyactor To find out ALL of the incredible things Doctors Without Borders AKA Médecins Sans Frontières (MSF) does and/ or to donate/ volunteer please visit them at https://www.doctorswithoutborders.org/ and follow them at @DoctorsWithoutBorders on Instagram and/ or @MSF_USA on Twitter and/ or https://m.facebook.com/msf.english/ on Facebook. To check out what Midnight Mission does and/ or to donate/ volunteer please go to http://midnightmission.org/ and follow them on twitter at @midnightmission and/ or @thenidnightmission on Instagram and/ or https://m.facebook.com/TheMidnightMission/ Please follow Pets of the Homeless at @Petsofhomeless on Twitter and @Pets_of_the_homeless on instagram and on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/OfficialPetsoftheHomeless/. To find it how you can donate money or your time or just to see what they do you can visit them at www.petsofthehomeless.org If you've enjoyed this episode please go to iTunes to rate and review us.

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

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Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

Toks and El Hubbo are back after a long hiatus. Thanks for bearing with them. In today's episode they bring you wisdom, their opinions about what people have been saying lately in Hollywood, and give you a front row seat to how much time couples in LA waste arguing about driving.

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

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Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

In this very short episode, Toks and El Hubbo chat about what's going on these days.

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

Pilot season is in full swing, so you have yet another episode of utterly nonsensical conversation between two married people. The good news is that Toks is so exhausted that she may actually be speaking slowly enough for people to understand her. She and El Hubbo chat about the dangers of following up a honeymoon with a latex costume, the brownie hunchback and traffic. Again. If you enjoyed this episode please rate and review us! If not please let us know why!

Find Toks on:

https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye

https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/

Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive

content):

https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye

Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: [email protected]

Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources:

Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

•

Talk Space: talkspace.com

•

Better Help: betterhelp.com

•

Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:

Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline:

Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)

LGBTQ suicide hotline:

The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)

National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237

(Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.

National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline:

Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673

(RAINN offers 24/7 help)

Veterans Crisis Line

Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255

Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.