The Secure Husband

Thriving In A Marriage With An Avoidant Attachment Wife


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Do you feel like your wife always pulls away? Like she keeps her walls up, avoids deep conversations, or shuts down when you try to connect? You may be married to a woman with an avoidant attachment style. And chasing her or trying to fix her will only push her further away.

In this episode of The Secure Husband, Bruce Abbott shows you how to stop reacting to her distance and start thriving in your marriage—without changing who she is. You will learn how to lead yourself, create emotional safety, and build real connection, even when your wife struggles to open up.

Here’s what you’ll learn:
✔️ What avoidant attachment looks like in marriage
✔️ Why avoidant wives pull away when things get emotional
✔️ How your need for closeness may trigger her to shut down
✔️ How to stop chasing and start leading with calm and strength
✔️ How to build security inside yourself, no matter how she acts
✔️ How to respond to her distance without anger, fear, or people-pleasing
✔️ How to create a safe space that allows real connection over time

You don’t have to settle for constant disconnection. You don’t have to feel unwanted or unseen. You can stop living in anxiety and start thriving—even in a marriage with an avoidant attachment wife.

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