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Tuesday Talks: I Want to F* Your Wife | Episode 58

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another listener question on their “Tuesday Talks” segment.

This week, Bunny writes in with a spicy etiquette question: Is it ever okay to say “I want to fuck your wife” or “I want to fuck your husband” when expressing interest in the lifestyle? While it might seem direct (and hot), Bunny shares that she's received mixed reactions—some enthusiastic, others not so much.

Dan and Lacy explore how context and setting play a major role in how bold statements like these are received. From playful party banter to more intimate, respectful conversations, the right moment and vibe can make all the difference. They share real-life examples and offer advice on reading the room, matching energy, and making sure everyone feels comfortable and respected.

Whether you're bold, curious, or just trying to avoid missteps, this episode is packed with real talk and helpful advice on how to shoot your shot without blowing it. Don’t miss this candid discussion on desire and etiquette in the swinging world!

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