“Deep Breathing Doesn’t Work for Me”
Understanding that Pervasively Traumatized Nervous Systems are Different than Non-Traumatized Nervous SystemsDon’t Tell Clients What they Will or Should Feel in Resourcing, Think of it as an Opportunity to Get Helpful InformationCar with a Cinder Block on the Gas Petal MetaphorPairing Body Scan and ResourcesThe Importance of Asking Permission and How Long Resource will LastModeling a Single Breath and Using that Information Select a Breath that May be More TolerableWith Some Clients, the Goal is to Find a Resource that Isn’t Actively TriggeringUsing Body Scans without Much of an AgendaUnderstanding What a Resource “Working” Looks Like… If it Calms You, It May Only Calm You for a MomentNoticing the Body is Also a Crucial Phase Two ResourceBody Scanning is a Good Strategy to Promote Embodiment, So Clients Can be Imbodied Enough to NoticeHomework: Practice Resources During the Times of the Day When Anxiety Isn’t Going Straight Up, Noticing the Layer Below is a Good Way to Lower Baseline Anxiety in the Short Term and Prepare for Reprocessing