In this episode of Family Twist, Corey and Kendall sit down with Jill Krizinovich, better known by her pen name, Margo Reilly. Jill is the author of the forthcoming memoir When You Shake the Family Tree and its predecessor When the Apple Falls Far from the Tree. Jill shares her remarkable journey of resilience and self-discovery, navigating family secrets, a shocking DNA discovery, and the ripple effects of generational trauma.

Unearthing Grit, Family Secrets and Finding Strength

Listen as Jill reveals the origins of her pen name, the grit it took to overcome a tumultuous childhood, and her determination to uncover and tell her truth. Corey and Kendall connect with Jill on a deeply personal level, discussing the shared challenges of DNA surprises and how finding community has transformed their experiences. This heartfelt conversation will inspire anyone grappling with identity, family, and the quest for belonging.

Timestamps:

00:00 – 03:45: Welcome and introductions; Jill’s snow-filled New England backdrop

03:46 – 10:32: Jill’s alter ego, Margo Reilly: The meaning behind the name

10:33 – 20:15: Jill’s childhood challenges and the development of her resilience

20:16 – 33:55: The DNA discovery that changed Jill’s life

33:56 – 42:30: Navigating family rejection and acceptance

42:31 – 51:20: Writing for healing: Jill’s journey to sharing her truth

51:21 – 58:00: The power of community in healing family wounds

58:01 – 1:02:30: Closing thoughts and Jill’s hopes for her readers

Resources and Links:

• Preorder Jill’s memoir: When You Shake the Family Tree (Available December 12th, 2024)
• Read Jill’s first book: When the Apple Falls Far from the Tree
• Follow Jill (Margo Reilly) on Instagram and Facebook
• Learn more about DNA surprises and community resources at Untangling Our Roots

Key Takeaways:

• Resilience can stem from even the most challenging experiences and guide us through unimaginable revelations.
• Family secrets may feel protective in the moment but often lead to generational harm.
• Building a supportive community is a critical part of healing from DNA surprises and family estrangement.
• Sharing our stories can bring clarity and catharsis—and help others feel less alone.

Listener Challenge:

If Jill’s story resonated with you, take a moment to reflect on how family secrets have impacted your life. Consider journaling, reaching out to someone you trust, or exploring your own genealogy as a step toward understanding and healing.