Grace & Grind

Unstuck and Unbothered (Part 1)


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Ep. 40 What keeps us stuck in the same emotional patterns—no matter how much personal growth work you do? In this episode of Grace & Grind, I’m talking about self-awareness, emotional loops, and the science behind why patterns feel so hard to break. I introduce you to neuroplasticity—the scientific term that explains how repeated thoughts and emotional reactions create well-worn mental pathways, including the negative loops that keep us stuck

Once you realize your brain is doing exactly what it’s been trained to do, you can stop blaming yourself—and start retraining your responses with intention.

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    Key Points:

    • What neuroplasticity really means in everyday life

    • How negative emotional loops are formed and reinforced

    • The connection between ACEs and emotional reactions

    • Why repetition—especially negative repetition—shapes your brain

    • Practical ways to shift your mindset and reclaim agency

      Words I want you to carry with you:

      • “Your brain becomes what you repeat.”

      • “This is a space for you to reclaim you.”

      • “You get to decide how your experiences show up in your life.”

        This is Part 1 of a 3-part series, pulled from a live conversation and shared with intention. Listen with compassion. Reflect honestly. And remember—you have more power than you were ever taught to believe.

        🎧 Stay with me. We’re just getting started.

        Chapters:

        00:00 Why You Stay Stuck in Emotional Loops
        09:33 Naming Emotional Burdens That Block Healing
        11:37 Same House, Different Childhoods: How Perspective Shapes Us
        12:09 Defying the Odds After Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)
        16:49 Rewiring Emotional Patterns Through Neuroplasticity
        23:51 Stillness as a Tool for Healing and Self-Awareness
        26:25 How Repeated Negative Thoughts Shape Your Life
        30:06 Unstuck and Unbothered: Reclaiming Control After Trauma


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