I am having some really strong and unusual reactions to the efforts my NPD ex is utilizing to prolong my ability to be with my children. Visitation and custody agreement (that is only temporary) has now had to be reworked 20 times due to more additions by her or things she is unwilling to compromise on. And last minute additions that kept this week's visitation from materializing. This episode is a little more raw. I have been struggling emotionally from her tactics as they bring up many negative memories of how our fights would go. The longer it lasts, the more you lose. Boundaries are the single most important thing to never break...and this time I won't allow her to break it at any cost.