In this episode we discuss whether honesty is really necessary in every situation and why this generation have become super heartless!

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We're back! And as toxic as ever. After an impromptu break, we're not discussing a toxic thought but we're excited to be recording again and catch you up on our toxicity. Join us to chat about life, life-ing and just how relatable it is to finesse your way through life at all levels of the food chain.

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We're sure most of you have heard of "All About Love" by Belle Hooks, but have you heard of the "All About Love" by the W.A.I.T girlies?! This week Fola and Rukiya discuss all things about love from the right person, wrong timing to toxicity now being a love language... Join us as we get into love and all of the aboveeee!

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This week's submitter is struggling to find the meaning to and purpose behind anything and everything. Holidays, nights out etc. can all feel like the elixir of life until they just... don't. We can all relate to feeling stuck in a mundane cycle of nothingness to the point where it's hard to remember what it is you even care about at all. Is sometimes feeling like nothing even matters (word to Lauryn Hill) bad vibes, or is it just a reality of life?

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From the day they are born, women are taught that they must be beautiful. This week's toxic submitter questions her attractiveness as a Black woman and feels disconnected from her femininity because of it. Join Rukiya and Fola discuss the experiences of being women of colour and how they navigate the pressures of societal beauty standards.

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Fola and Rukiya decided to save all the toxicity for the live show this week! Join them discuss why all men aren't bad and Rukiya reveals a very brave secret about her feelings towards Beyoncé at the moment.

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Secretly wanting to change a love interest's dress-sense is pretty common this day in age, but for men who date women, it's slightly more challenging! The fine lines between being controlling, offensive or outright sexist have got this week's submitter on the ropes about how to approach telling his new bae that her tattered fur jacket needs to go in the bin!

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Jealousy has a bad reputation. It’s not uncommon to hear well-meaning people say things like, “Don’t be jealous” or “Jealousy destroys relationships.” But what makes this emotion so bad? This week's toxic submitter admits to feeling jealous of her boyfriend and is seeking wisdom from Fola and Rukiya in order to pursue a healthy relationship with her "ride or die".

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A few too many toxic exes have got this week's submitter realising that they've taken more steps backwards than they'd have hoped in their dating life. Fola & Rukiya discuss the importance of finding confidence in your vulnerability to avoid being dragged down by partners who would rather you join them in hell than take the time to work on themselves!

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Weddings are expensive. With the cost of a wedding increasing by 102% since 2020, it's safe to say they aren't getting any cheaper anytime soon! This week's toxic submitter feels resentful towards her friend for asking her to fork out 1.5k in total for her wedding. Should your friends’ love burden your pockets or should we open up our hearts and purses all in the name of lurrveeeee? Join Fola and Rukiya to discuss bridesmaid duties and whether they spit or swallow their phlegm (we are women with range okkkkkk lool)

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