Was That Good For You?

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Was That Good For You? episodes

November 28, 2019 Open Relationships & Modern Love
Non-monogamy, threesomes and more on modern love are explored in this week's episode. I'm joined by my friend Julia Fae, who identifies as polyamorous, to discuss the best and worst about dating in the modern world. We chat about how the internet has made it much easier to find people that share your kink and how antiquated "rules” for relationships are slowly fading away.
Word of the Day: Polyamory
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44 min
November 20, 2019 The Lies We Tell Ourselves In Relationships
Music producer Matt Beckley joins me to dispel some myths and lies surrounding the world of sex and relationships: Does playing hard-to-get really work? Is rebound sex the perfect way to get over someone? We break down these questions and use our own past experiences to finally put some relationship urban legends to rest.
Word of the Day: Figging
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45 min
November 07, 2019 Is Cheating Ever Forgivable?
Today I'm joined by my friend Summer Thomas to discuss why people cheat and how it can lead to trust issues. Summer recounts the times she was cheated on and how she's still recovering from the damage. After that, we discuss what the line is between innocent flirting and full-on cheating.
Word of the Day: Axilism
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48 min
October 31, 2019 Integrating Toys Into Your Sex Life
This week I had the amazing Dana Savage on! Dana is the founder of Tango, a revolutionary sex toy company that caters to all genders, orientations and genitalia. We talk about the current state of sex toys and the many misconceptions that keep people away from them all together. Plus, we discuss why there is a stigma against men using sex toys and how all of that might be changing thanks to the "eating ass" movement.
Word of the Day: Anal Beads
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45 min
October 17, 2019 Does Body Count Matter?
This week, my favorite couple Travis Canby and Judy Lovingfoss come on to discuss the stigma behind someone's "body count" aka the number of people a person has slept with. Travis talks about the pressure that young men feel to boost up their "number" in front of other men, while Judy and I explore the real damage that "slut shaming" has done to women and why they often lower their number publicly.
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50 min
October 10, 2019 Let's Talk About Masturbation
Entertainer, actress, and fire-breather Georgie Leahy joins me to talk about everyone's favorite subject: masturbating! We We also discuss why some people find it awkward to masturbate in front of a partner, why having more sex actually drives women to masturbate more, plus the time Georgie lost her virginity to a deaf dancer.
Word of the day: Anilingus
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46 min
October 03, 2019 Good Timing vs. Bad Timing in Relationships
Bridget Moriarty and Raya discuss timing when it comes to relationships. Sometimes it can be perfect, other times it can be terrible, but is that ever a good reason not to get into a relationship? Bridget talks about the perfect timing with her current boyfriend and Raya shares a time she when the timing with someone was all off, but that actually helped the relationship transition to a healthier phase.. Is timing just an excuse or can it really ruin a relationship?
Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at ‪(424) 245-5102 or email her at [email protected] and you might hear your call/email on the next episode!
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41 min
September 26, 2019 How Trustworthy Are Our Gut Feelings?
This week, Kelsey Hellenbrand comes to the studio to discuss what it means when you get a "gut feeling" in your relationship. Is it always right? And how much trust can and should you place in a person versus yourself? We also talk about times our gut was right, and other times where it led us down the wrong path.
Word of the day: Emotional Play
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45 min
September 19, 2019 Is There Such a Thing as a Good Breakup?
Alessandra Demartino and Raya reminisce about some of the big breakups they've had in their past and try to determine if it's possible to have "good breakups." Alessandra talks about the first time she was broken up with and why that means she can probably never watch "Zootopia" again. Plus, Raya and Alessandra list a few ways to handle yourself after a breakup to get back on your feet faster.
Word of the day: Impact Play
Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at ‪(424) 245-5102 or email her at [email protected] and you might hear your call/email on the next episode!
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52 min
September 12, 2019 The Importance of Foreplay with Nikki Limo
Nikki Limo, host of the Shit They Don't Tell You Podcast, joins me this week to discuss the spectrum of foreplay and how Nikki was a late bloomer when it came to the act. We swap techniques that we learned from old Cosmo magazine clippings and 1998-era Google, and how we both lost their virginities in the back of a car. Afterwards, we rundown a few helpful tips to be better at foreplay.
Words of the day: Taint
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48 min

About Was That Good For You?

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Was That Good For You? is a guide to all things sex and relationships. Every week, sex educator Raya Carmona talks openly and honestly with guests on topics ranging from navigating interracial dating to normalizing kinks in the bedroom to the trajectory of becoming a sugar baby. Through candid conversations with friends as well as interviews with leaders in the sexual health field, this show works to destigmatize the sexual journey we are all on. Recurring guests include Raya’s partner Kelen Capener and her best friend Gabby, who help answer listener-submitted sex and relationship questions. For more, follow the show on Instagram at @wasthatgoodforyou.