This week, my friend and musician/actor Malcolm Cumming joins to discuss the age-old story of men calling women "crazy" and why they feel it's so easy to categorize them as such. Malcolm tells the story of his meth-snorting ex-girlfriend that he feels deserves the title. Debate ensues.

Word of the day: Lordosis

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Andrew Cramb from the "Where Are All My Friends" podcast joins me to talk the tightrope of navigating post-breakup relationships. We discuss seeing an ex later and hating that they look better than you, the complications with having an ex that's in your friends' circle, and of course answer the ultimate question, is it ever a good idea to sleep with an ex?

Word of the day: Intersex.

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I had my good friend and Playboy bunny Marissa Luck on to discuss the importance of asking for what you want in every aspect of a relationship. Whether it's emotional or what you want in bed, defining what you expect is important in understanding a person and setting boundaries for yourself. We also discuss times that not telling our partner exactly what we wanted led to misunderstandings or worse, fewer orgasms.

Word of the day: Gräfenberg spot

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Sam Miller (writer, sexually active 27-year-old male) joins me to discuss the healthiest ways to set up a friends with benefits situation. I lay out rules I've made for keeping FWBs civil, which, frankly, sometimes still lead to feelings for the other person. Sam recounts one particular time that he was scorned by a friend with benefits, as well as his perspective on the longevity of FWB.

Word of the day: Klismaphilia

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Today my friend and Playmate Shauna Sexton comes to the studio to discuss the art of sexting. We offer the woman's perspective in receiving dick pics as well as the amount of work that goes into making a good sexy video. Do you have the right lighting and angle? Is Netflix blaring too loudly in the background? All important factors to consider. Later we offer a few tips on the proper sexting etiquette and how men can stand to try a little harder before hitting "send."

Word of the day: Soft Limit

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Today I'm joined by my good friend Kelley Fox to discuss the meaning of emotional unavailability in relationships. We also talk about how differences in love languages can be perceived as disinterest. Listen to find out if you might be falling for the traps of being strung along by someone who’s emotionally unavailable (or just not that into you).

Word of the day: Brat

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On this week's episode, I'm joined by Adrienne Williams to discuss the many pros and cons of using dating apps. We talk matching with A-list celebs on the Raya app, how apps might actually be making dating worse, and how Adrienne’s boyfriend might want to upgrade from a “kept man” to a “houseboy.”

Word of the day: Houseboy

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On this week's episode, one of my best friends, actress Imani Hakim is on the show! She and her friend, director Daniel Weaver, talk through the nuance of interracial relationships. We get deep about the challenges that come with dating outside your race or even your ethnicity, and what we've all learned along the way.

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On this weeks episode, my good friend Rachel Eck chats with me on all things porn. We get into our personal preferences, discuss the most popular porn searches and the possible negative effects of consuming too much porn.

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