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Show Notes:
Notes from interview:
How to bounce back from emotional shock
Ego perception
a. Ego reality
b. Victim mode
i. Baseball center of stadium – we are the stadium
c. choices made from this context
3. Why someone else can get to us – push our buttons
4. 3 brains
5. Amygdala hijack
a. Shuts off communication with thinking brain
b. lasts 8-10 seconds
Offset – count to 10, take a breath
Slow down breath
Heart has to slow down
Begin to relax
Buy some time
Activate thinking brain
Tools
We have to own our part
Get honest
Don’t take things personally
Filtered with past experiences
Be the eye of the storm – choose how to engage
Respond rather than react
Focus on the breath
Others trigger us because:
We don’t feel seen
We don’t feel respected
Flatten the button so that no one can press it
Reacting does not mean we are bad people, we are hard wired to react
Blaming others or situations means we are giving our power away
Our choice is how we respond to situations
This pops us out of victim mode
Viktor Frankl – left with the ability of how to respond
Preventative maintenance
Presence – watching ourselves
Take a breath
meditation