
Sign up to save your podcasts
Or


“Hello --It is May 4th and welcome to Wonderland Fellow Griever. — “You’ve just stepped Down the Rabbit Hole — where mental health meets madness after loss. Let’s get real, together. This is your daily dose of truth, grief, and yes, just the right bit of madness.”
WEEK 1: I discuss Identity & Transformation
Day 4: Today’s truth is: "I can't explain myself, I'm afraid, Sir, because I'm not myself, you see." Idea: Losing your sense of self.
Some days, it’s hard to even recognize ourselves. The person in the mirror looks the same — but feels completely unfamiliar. That’s not a failure. That’s grief. Grief is so disorienting....you are not crazy, it's grief.
You might forget birthdays. Miss appointments. Say no to social events. Not because you don’t care — but because you’re not functioning in the same way. Your brain and your heart are overloaded.
And while others may not understand, you don’t owe them explanations.
Today, try offering yourself the compassion you would offer a dear friend. Maybe even say aloud: “Of course I’m not myself. I’m grieving.”
And that’s more than okay.
So, that's all for now...that's the nugget to carry today
Take a breath. Take what you need. leave the rest. And come back tomorrow because, remember, you're not broken—you're grieving. And you're not alone in this madness. ---I'll be right here Talk Soon."
[P.S... Like this podcast? Support the show by clicking...thank you]
SEE YOU TOMORROW!!!
__________________________________________________________________________
My WEBSITE "The Leftover Pieces; Rebuilding You" is support central.
If you, or someone you know, is struggling ww suicidal thoughts, reach out:
CALL 988 in the US or Canada OR, you can also TEXT the word "HOME" to 741741 in the USA & Canada
Support the show
__________________________________________________________________________
Get THE Leftover Pieces APP & don't miss anything! CLICK HERE
💜 The Leftover Pieces is support central for grieving hearts.
🔗 Stay connected: Join my free email community for weekly check-ins, resources, and encouragement.
🌟 For moms: Explore the $9 Lighthouse Community — safe connection, tools, and hope.
🛠 Resources for all grievers: Start here.
🤝 One-on-one grief coaching for moms after child loss to suicide: Learn more here.
📞 Need help now? If you or someone you love is struggling with suicidal thoughts, dial 988 in the U.S. & Canada, or text HOME to 741741.
By Melissa Bottorff-Arey4.9
7474 ratings
“Hello --It is May 4th and welcome to Wonderland Fellow Griever. — “You’ve just stepped Down the Rabbit Hole — where mental health meets madness after loss. Let’s get real, together. This is your daily dose of truth, grief, and yes, just the right bit of madness.”
WEEK 1: I discuss Identity & Transformation
Day 4: Today’s truth is: "I can't explain myself, I'm afraid, Sir, because I'm not myself, you see." Idea: Losing your sense of self.
Some days, it’s hard to even recognize ourselves. The person in the mirror looks the same — but feels completely unfamiliar. That’s not a failure. That’s grief. Grief is so disorienting....you are not crazy, it's grief.
You might forget birthdays. Miss appointments. Say no to social events. Not because you don’t care — but because you’re not functioning in the same way. Your brain and your heart are overloaded.
And while others may not understand, you don’t owe them explanations.
Today, try offering yourself the compassion you would offer a dear friend. Maybe even say aloud: “Of course I’m not myself. I’m grieving.”
And that’s more than okay.
So, that's all for now...that's the nugget to carry today
Take a breath. Take what you need. leave the rest. And come back tomorrow because, remember, you're not broken—you're grieving. And you're not alone in this madness. ---I'll be right here Talk Soon."
[P.S... Like this podcast? Support the show by clicking...thank you]
SEE YOU TOMORROW!!!
__________________________________________________________________________
My WEBSITE "The Leftover Pieces; Rebuilding You" is support central.
If you, or someone you know, is struggling ww suicidal thoughts, reach out:
CALL 988 in the US or Canada OR, you can also TEXT the word "HOME" to 741741 in the USA & Canada
Support the show
__________________________________________________________________________
Get THE Leftover Pieces APP & don't miss anything! CLICK HERE
💜 The Leftover Pieces is support central for grieving hearts.
🔗 Stay connected: Join my free email community for weekly check-ins, resources, and encouragement.
🌟 For moms: Explore the $9 Lighthouse Community — safe connection, tools, and hope.
🛠 Resources for all grievers: Start here.
🤝 One-on-one grief coaching for moms after child loss to suicide: Learn more here.
📞 Need help now? If you or someone you love is struggling with suicidal thoughts, dial 988 in the U.S. & Canada, or text HOME to 741741.

76,009 Listeners

43,709 Listeners

7,738 Listeners

312 Listeners

12,719 Listeners

28,490 Listeners

13,269 Listeners

112,751 Listeners

411 Listeners

378 Listeners

3 Listeners

10,392 Listeners

20,104 Listeners

13,286 Listeners