Ten years. Countless versions of ourselves. And a whole lot of lessons learned along the way.

In this episode, we’re packing a decade of love, growth, and hard-earned wisdom into one conversation, the kind of lessons you can only learn through time. From learning to grow as individuals and as a couple, to navigating trust, independence, and all of life’s “firsts” together we’ve been through it.

Whether you’re in a new relationship, married, or just curious what a decade together really looks like, this episode’s for you. 💛

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0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI

3:08 - When we fell in love

8:17 - 1. On the hard days, remind yourself who you fell in love with

11:29 - 2. You’ll go through so many versions of yourselves in a relationship

15:40 - 3. Your partner can’t be everything for you, and that’s okay.

18:36 - 4. You both need your own space to grow.

24:28 - 5. Your vows really do mean in sickness and in health

28:53 - 6. Invest in experiences that strengthen your bond

31:00 - 7. It really is that damn phone. 

33:47 - 8. Don’t seek constant validation from your partner.

36:48 - 9. Just because you have an agenda doesn’t mean your partner does. 

39:08 - 10. Live in the moment