One of us is in bed by 9, the other’s just getting started. In this episode, we’re talking about what it’s really like to be in a relationship where your routines don’t match - fitness, food, sleep, all of it. From early frustrations to what actually works for us now, this episode is full of real talk, small wins, and some hilarious stories. Perfect for couples figuring out how to live together, not become the same person.

Let’s get into it, Half Past Crew 💬✨

New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛

🤝Donate to Hallie’s NYC Marathon Charity: https://givebutter.com/H8JMbY

🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchai

Use code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/

Code for Learning Gujarati book https://amzn.to/3H154m7

Time codes

0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI

3:09 - SLEEP

10:45 - EATTING

17:19 - FITNESS

22:49 - WORKING STYLES

27:57 - Our Advice

Tears, tissues, and a little bit of tea - in this episode of Half Past Chai, we’re diving into what actually makes us cry. From the first time we cried in front of each other to learning how to not panic when your partner gets emotional, we're sharing the raw, the real, and the surprisingly funny parts of it all. If you’ve ever cried, wanted to cry, or comforted a crying partner - this one’s for you. Happy Monday Half Past Crew, we hope you enjoy this episode.

New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛

🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchai

Use code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/

Code for Learning Gujarati book https://amzn.to/3H154m7

Time codes

0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI

2:13 - why we cry.

10:34 - the BAD cries.

14:45 - who cried first?

16:52 - crying in front of each other

This week, we’re diving deep into something that’s been on both of our hearts lately: what it really means to be yourself. From shrinking ourselves to fit in, to code-switching just to feel safe, we talk about the hidden cost of hiding who we are and the freedom that comes from choosing authenticity instead. If you’ve ever felt like you’re performing a version of yourself just to be accepted, this one’s for you. Let’s get into it, Half Past Crew 💬✨

New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛

🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/

📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchai

Use code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/

Time codes

0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI

4:00 - Who are you?

10:48 - Difficult conversations

14:32 - Making decisions

23:30 - Why I didnt have indian friends

27:00 - andCollar AD

28:07 - How did Hallie feel about jealousy

33:40 - What has helped us stop hiding our true selves

44:11 - QUESTION OF THE WEEK

What happens when two cultures collide in a relationship? Happy Monday, Half Past Crew. We’re sharing our own journey through the messy, wonderful, and fun world of intercultural love. From navigating family expectations to learning each other’s unspoken norms, we’re unpacking how our differences have shaped our connection - and what we’ve learned along the way. So settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai.

New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛

🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchai

Use code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/

Code for Learning Gujarati book https://amzn.to/3H154m7

Time codes

0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI

7:02 - First experience Hallie had in our culture

11:00 - Suketu experiencing Hallie’s culture

18:40 - Some major differences

22:30 - The topic of RELIGION

29:58 - How have we matured

We’re getting nostalgic (and a little triggered) in this episode of Half Past Chai as we unpack the best and worst advice our parents ever gave us. From wisdom that shaped who we are today to the downright confusing “you’ll understand when you're older” moments—we’re breaking it all down.

Get ready to laugh, reflect, and maybe call your mom afterward. This one’s for anyone who’s ever been told, “Because I said so.”

New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛

🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchai

Use code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/

Time codes

0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI

3:24 - Suketu’s Parents Best Advice

9:24 - Hallie’s Parents Best Advice

18:34 - Suketu’s Parents Worst Advice

28:27 - Hallie’s Parents Worst Advice

36:00 - QUESTION OF THE WEEK

WE’RE BACK. Happy Monday, Half Past Crew. In this episode, we’re breaking down exactly what we spent over the first three months of the year as a married couple - from the necessary expenses to the not-so-necessary impulse buys. We’re also opening up about how we navigate tough financial conversations, balance what we want vs what we need, and keep our relationship strong through it all. So get cozy, grab your chai, and let’s get into this week’s episode.

New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛

🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchai

Use code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/

Time codes

0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI

2:48 - What we spent in the first 3 months of 2025

10:37 - January costs

13:53 - February costs

20:56 - March costs

24:09 - What we struggle with

27:28 - Our budget

31:12 - Our thoughts so far this year

42:18 - Updates moving on with Half Past Chai

This week, we’re joined by two of our all-time favorite Patels - Abi and Resh Patel. Think: the wiser, cooler version of us who somehow make adulting look effortless. They bring this calm, grounded energy that always leaves us feeling a little more centered and a lot more inspired.

In this episode, we dive into everything from parenting and pursuing your passions to navigating Indian family dynamics, building a strong marriage, and even learning Gujarati. It’s full of laughs, real talk, and heartfelt moments.

Whether you're in the middle of figuring life out or just here for the stories, this one’s got something for you. We had such a good time with Abi and Resh, and we know you will too.

New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛

🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchai

The Patels socials:

Patels Instagram

Rasik Kaka Instagram

Resh Instagram

Patels TikTok

Rasik Kaka TikTok

YouTube

Time codes

0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI

4:06 - Sharing their love story

8:58 - Indian parents on dating & reality of dating in India

17:20 - How to have a long-lasting marriage

27:42 - Guide to handling conflicts in relationships

32:56 - How to help your partner grow

59:28 - Wanting to learn Gujarati

This week, we are joined by a very SPECIAL GUEST – Varun Rana!

From ex-Amazon software engineer to full-time content creator, Varun shares his inspiring (and super relatable) journey of breaking out of the traditional South Asian career mold. We dive deep into childhood trauma, immigrant parent expectations, and the highs and lows of chasing your creative dreams.

We talk about:

✨ Quitting the 9-5 and what his parents really thought

✨ The unspoken pressure of "Engineer, Doctor, Lawyer"

✨ Dealing with judgment from the South Asian community

✨ The not-so-glamorous side of content creation

✨ Advice for South Asians wanting to carve their own path

This is one of those episodes that’ll leave you feeling seen, heard, and ready to chase your dreams — with a warm cup of *coffee* in hand, of course.

📅 New episodes every Monday at 7 AM

🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchai

📲 Follow Varun: @the_varunrana

Time codes

0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI

5:08 - Who is Varun Rana?

7:40 - Why did you start making content?

13:30 - Parents expectations for their kids

21:13 - Did you like being a software engineer?

26:57 - What the final push to go into full time content?

28:13 - How did you deal with the external judgement?

34:15 - What’s it like living in NYC?

39:59 - Varun’s Content

49:07 - RAPID FIRE QUESTIONS

50:18 - QUESTION OF THE WEEK

Ever wonder what you can learn from a relationship? In this podcast, I’m sharing all the things I’ve picked up from Suketu, from life lessons to funny moments that have helped me grow as a person. He’s taught me to ignore the haters, embrace my creativity and weirdness, and embrace a culture other than my own. It’s real talk about love, learning, and how being in a relationship can teach you more than you expect. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just figuring things out, this is for you. You won’t want to miss these honest truths and practical words of wisdom!

🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchai

Use code HALFPASTCHAI on https://andcollar.com/ for 15% off

Time codes

0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI

2:46 - Things i’ve learned from my husband

4:44 - 1. Don’t take things too seriously

9:25 - 2. Embrace a new culture

17:39 - &Collar Sponsor

19:21 - 3. Financial Literacy

27:30 - 4: Embrace my creative side

33:02 - 5. Seizing opportunities

39:51 - 6. Ask why and be curious

44:47 - Honorable mentions

This is the most personal episode we’ve ever done. As we celebrate 100 episodes of Half Past Chai, we’re taking a look back at the hardest conversations we had to have to get here. We’re opening up about the texts we sent during our breakup, sharing DMs and questions from all of you, and reflecting on what it took to rebuild our relationship. This one is raw, emotional, and real—but we wouldn’t have it any other way.

New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! 💛

Submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com/

Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai