What happens when visitors overstay their welcome or were never really welcome to begin with? In this episode, we’re diving into the messy, funny, and sometimes awkward world of hosting guests, especially when you live abroad. Whether it’s friends booking a “free hotel” or well-meaning others who blur the line between visiting and moving in, expats and locals alike will relate to this episode.

Oh, and this is our 100th episode recorded live at Copenhagen's Comedy Zoo with your host Derek Hartman and an illustrious panel voices living in Denmark:

• British comedian Conrad Molden,
• American content creator Mike Walsh,
• American writer and creator Brooke Black,
• And Danish comedian Cecilie Bau

Together, you'll get their stories of guests who have pushed boundaries (hopefully) without burning bridges. We also poll our audience to ask:

• How long is too long for a houseguest?
• Do you ever feel obligated to say yes?
• And is bringing a bottle of wine really enough?

🎟️ Tickets for our next live show at Copenhagen's Comedy Zoo on September 9th: https://www.comedyzoo.dk/event/1298885

What Are You Doing in Denmark podcast:

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Derek Hartman:

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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robetrotting

Brooke Black:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/brookeblackjust

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brookeblackjust

Conrad Molden:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/conradmoldencomedy

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/conradmolden

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@conradmolden 

Facebook: https://facebook.com/conradmolden

https://www.conradmolden.dk

Cecilie Bau:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cecilie_bau

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ceciliebau

🎙️ Upcoming Live Shows — What Are You Doing in Denmark? — Come Join Us! 🎉

🗓️ 9 September 2025, Copenhagen Comedy Zoo

https://www.comedyzoo.dk/event/1298885

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Kateryna fled Ukraine when the war began, but that was only the beginning of her journey. Now living in Denmark, she’s rebuilding her life one punchline at a time. In this episode, she tells Derek, Conrad, and Brooke how comedy helped her cope with trauma, how it feels to perform stand-up in a new country, and what it means to create joy when the world feels broken.

If you’ve ever taken your safety for granted or wondered how art can help us survive the worst, this conversation will stay with you.

🗣️ You can leave your own voice note for us here: speakpipe.com/waydid or email [email protected]

Share this podcast with any friends who have made the move to Denmark.

What Are You Doing in Denmark podcast:

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Watch our episodes on YouTube

Derek Hartman:

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YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/robetrotting

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@robetrotting

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robetrotting

Brooke Black:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/brookeblackjust

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brookeblackjust

Conrad Molden:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/conradmoldencomedy

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/conradmolden

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@conradmolden 

Facebook: https://facebook.com/conradmolden

https://www.conradmolden.dk

Kat Attack (Kateryna):

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cyberkatattack

🎙️ Upcoming Live Shows — What Are You Doing in Denmark? — Come Join Us! 🎉

🗓️ 9 September 2025, Copenhagen Comedy Zoo

https://www.comedyzoo.dk/event/1298885

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You’ve seen the Instagram photos and passed the crowds in Copenhagen, but how much do you really know about the Little Mermaid statue?

In this episode, Derek, Mike, and Conrad have a laugh-filled discussion about the strange history of Denmark’s most iconic statue. From her origins in a Hans Christian Andersen fairy tale to being commissioned by a Danish beer magnate, to her many beheadings and even a diplomatic detour to China — the Little Mermaid has seen it all.

Laugh along as the guys explore her controversies, vandalism, obscure trivia, and some outrageous one-star reviews of the statue. There are some big feelings in Denmark and beyond so if you're planning a trip to Copenhagen or just love weird cultural history, this episode is for you!

🗣️ You can leave your own voice note for us here: speakpipe.com/waydid or email [email protected] and be a part of a future episode

Don’t forget to share this podcast with any friends who have made the move to Denmark.

For more clips and tips on living in Denmark and follow us on social media:

What Are You Doing in Denmark podcast:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/waydidpod

email: [email protected]

Watch these episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFCSH6KqKooZmSx1GJu9CWZYjX8esjl2F

Derek Hartman:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/robetrotting

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/robetrotting

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@robetrotting

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robetrotting

Conrad Molden:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/conradmoldencomedy

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/conradmolden

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@conradmolden 

Facebook: https://facebook.com/conradmolden

See Conrad Live: https://www.conradmolden.dk

Mike Walsh:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/phillymike999

🎙️ Upcoming Live Shows — What Are You Doing in Denmark? — Come Join Us! 🎉

🗓️ 9 September 2025, Copenhagen Comedy Zoo

https://www.comedyzoo.dk/event/1298885

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When you live abroad, visiting your home country can be a whirlwind—especially when you only have a few days. In this episode, we answer a real listener dilemma: Danielle, who lives in Odense, went back to Toronto for a short trip and chose to spend all her time with family. She didn’t tell her friends she was in town, and now… they’re upset.

Derek and Conrad offer advice along with guests Dharshika Christopher and Abby Wambaugh to unpack the emotional politics of going home, how to navigate expectations from friends and family, and why you can’t be everything to everyone. If you’ve ever wrestled with guilt, time pressure, or hurt feelings when visiting home, this episode is for you.

Plus: tips for setting boundaries, avoiding drama, and keeping your friendships intact—even from across an ocean. And listen to Episodes 27 and 28 for deeper discussions on making friends in Denmark and why it may be different.

Need advice, have a question, or have a story to tell? Leave us a voice note ➡️ speakpipe.com/waydid

Don’t forget to share this podcast with any friends who have made the move to Denmark.

For more clips and tips on living in Denmark and follow us on social media:

What Are You Doing in Denmark podcast: 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/waydidpod

Watch these episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFCSH6KqKooZmSx1GJu9CWZYjX8esjl2F

Derek Hartman: 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/robetrotting

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/robetrotting

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@robetrotting

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robetrotting

Conrad Molden:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/conradmoldencomedy

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/conradmolden

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@conradmolden 

Facebook: https://facebook.com/conradmolden

https://www.conradmolden.dk

Dharkshika Christopher:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dharshika.christopher

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DharshikaChristopherComedy

Abby Wambaugh:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbywambaugh

Help Hole Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/helpholepod/

🎙️ Upcoming Live Shows — What Are You Doing in Denmark? — Come Join Us! 🎉

🗓️ 9 September 2025, Copenhagen Comedy Zoo

https://www.comedyzoo.dk/event/1298885

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Moving to a new country is more than learning the language and eating new food—it’s a full-body, emotional rollercoaster. In this episode, your hosts Derek, Brooke, and Mike break down the 4 stages of culture shock and share personal stories from their lives in Denmark—the excitement, the frustration, the weird in-between moments, and finally… that moment when it all starts to click.

Whether you’re a newly arrived expat, thinking about relocating, or still trying to feel at home abroad, this episode is for you. You'll laugh, cringe, and maybe even recognize yourself in our stories. And we want to hear yours too!

📢 Use our SpeakPipe link to send us a voice note: When did you realize you were finally fitting in? Share your story and we'll compile them into a future episode ➡️ speakpipe.com/waydid

Don’t forget to share this podcast with any friends who have made the move to Denmark.

For more clips and tips on living in Denmark and follow us on social media:

What Are You Doing in Denmark podcast:

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email: [email protected]

Watch all episodes of What Are You Doing in Denmark on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFCSH6KqKooZmSx1GJu9CWZYjX8esjl2F

Derek Hartman:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/robetrotting

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/robetrotting

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@robetrotting

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robetrotting

Brooke Black:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/brookeblackjust

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brookeblackjust

Mike Walsh:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/phillymike999

🎙️ Upcoming Live Shows — What Are You Doing in Denmark? — Come Join Us! 🎉

🗓️ 9 September 2025, Copenhagen Comedy Zoo

https://www.comedyzoo.dk/event/1298885

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In this episode you'll get to know the brilliant Danish comedian Cecilie Bau, who also happens to be our special guest for our upcoming live show! She sits down with Brooke, Conrad, and Derek to talk about dating in Denmark, coming out, and how it's all just comedic inspiration. We also dive into her work as a mental health advocate and how the stigma and treatment of mental health has evolved in Denmark.

Cecilie’s stand-up is brutally honest, hilariously awkward, and deeply personal and you'll love getting to know her and why she "never really understood privacy". We talk about discovering your sexuality at a Christian Danish school, making comedy out of your most "interesting" dating moments, and why Cecilie has never regretted being too honest on stage. She also gives great advice for anyone moving to Denmark and navigating life in her native land.

🗣️ You can leave your own voice note for us here: speakpipe.com/waydid or email [email protected]

Share this podcast with any friends who have made the move to Denmark.

What Are You Doing in Denmark podcast:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/waydidpod

Watch our episodes on YouTube

Derek Hartman:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/robetrotting

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/robetrotting

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@robetrotting

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robetrotting

Brooke Black:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/brookeblackjust

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brookeblackjust

Conrad Molden:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/conradmoldencomedy

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/conradmolden

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@conradmolden 

Facebook: https://facebook.com/conradmolden

https://www.conradmolden.dk

Cecilie Bau:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cecilie_bau

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ceciliebau

🎙️ Upcoming Live Shows — What Are You Doing in Denmark? — Come Join Us! 🎉

🗓️ 9 September 2025, Copenhagen Comedy Zoo

https://www.comedyzoo.dk/event/1298885

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Ever wonder why there are so many common names in Denmark? In this episode, Derek, Brooke, and Conrad dive into Denmark’s strict baby naming laws - with plenty of laughs along the way from our friend Mathias Bach. From government-approved name lists to the historical reasons behind them, we break down what you can (and can’t) name your kid if you're raising them in Denmark. Plus, a few awkward personal stories about trying to navigate Danish names as a foreigner.

🗣️ You can leave your own voice note for us here: speakpipe.com/waydid or email [email protected]

Share this podcast with any friends who have made the move to Denmark.

What Are You Doing in Denmark podcast:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/waydidpod

Watch our episodes on YouTube

Derek Hartman:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/robetrotting

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/robetrotting

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@robetrotting

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robetrotting

Brooke Black:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/brookeblackjust

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brookeblackjust

Conrad Molden:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/conradmoldencomedy

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/conradmolden

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@conradmolden 

Facebook: https://facebook.com/conradmolden

https://www.conradmolden.dk

Mathias Bach:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thiasbach/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thiasbach

🎙️ Upcoming Live Shows — What Are You Doing in Denmark? — Come Join Us! 🎉

🗓️ 9 September 2025, Copenhagen Comedy Zoo

https://www.comedyzoo.dk/event/1298885

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In this episode, you'll learn all about the complicated world of learning Danish as a foreigner in Denmark with an update from Conrad, who’s currently prepping for the PD3 exam, and Mike, who recently passed PD2.

Derek explains what the difference is between the two tests (and why it matters), which one you need for permanent residency or citizenship, and whether those government-sponsored language courses are actually worth it.

We also get into the emotional rollercoaster of trying to snakke dansk—the awkward café orders, the sudden language-switching, and the eternal question: will I ever feel confident speaking this language?

Whether you're in the middle of Danish Module 3 or just wondering if you can get away with saying tak and smiling a lot, this one’s for you.

Even Danes get some honest advice on how to help and not hurt their friends and family in the process of learning Danish.

🗣️ You can leave your own voice note for us here: speakpipe.com/waydid or email [email protected]

🗞️ Conrad's piece on learning Danish in the CPH Post

Don’t forget to share this podcast with any friends who have made the move to Denmark.

For more clips and tips on living in Denmark and follow us on social media:

What Are You Doing in Denmark podcast:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/waydidpod

email: [email protected]

Watch these episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFCSH6KqKooZmSx1GJu9CWZYjX8esjl2F

Derek Hartman:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/robetrotting

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/robetrotting

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@robetrotting

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robetrotting

Conrad Molden:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/conradmoldencomedy

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/conradmolden

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@conradmolden 

Facebook: https://facebook.com/conradmolden

See Conrad Live: https://www.conradmolden.dk

Mike Walsh:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/phillymike999

🎙️ Upcoming Live Shows — What Are You Doing in Denmark? — Come Join Us! 🎉

🗓️ 9 September 2025, Copenhagen Comedy Zoo

https://www.comedyzoo.dk/event/1298885

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In this episode, we sit down with award-winning Danish creator Mathias Bach—TikToker of the Year, mastermind behind some of Denmark’s most viral videos, and former child YouTuber who once tried to shorten school days for everyone.

Brooke, Conrad, and Derek get Mathias's view on growing up in Denmark, what most foreigners really don’t understand about Danish culture, and how he balances humor with social commentary. We discuss the strange reality of being a creator in one of the smallest countries on the internet and what topics are best to poke at for a Danish sense of humor.

We take a serious turn discussing the polarization between Copenhagen and the rural parts of Denmark and where the divide could lead in the future.

Whether you’re an international living in Denmark or just fascinated by how the Danish sense of humor works, this episode is funny, honest, and full of surprises.

🎟️ Tickets for our LIVE SHOW on 6 May at Copenhagen's Comedy Zoo Get Tickets Here

🗣️ You can leave your own voice note for us here: speakpipe.com/waydid or email [email protected]

What Are You Doing in Denmark podcast:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/waydidpod

Watch our episodes on YouTube

Derek Hartman:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/robetrotting

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/robetrotting

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@robetrotting

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robetrotting

Brooke Black:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/brookeblackjust

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brookeblackjust

Conrad Molden:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/conradmoldencomedy

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/conradmolden

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@conradmolden 

Facebook: https://facebook.com/conradmolden

https://www.conradmolden.dk

Mathias Bach:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thiasbach/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thiasbach

🎙️ Upcoming Live Shows — What Are You Doing in Denmark? — Come Join Us! 🎉

🗓️ 9 September 2025, Copenhagen Comedy Zoo

https://www.comedyzoo.dk/event/1298885

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What do Elvis Presley, Harry Potter, and McDonald’s all have in common? They’ve all taken legal swings at Denmark.

In this episode, Brooke brings Derek and Mike three wild tales of copyright lawsuits that landed in Danish courtrooms - from a replica Graceland in Jutland to a magical festival that had to lose a little Hogwarts to survive. Plus, a hot dog vendor who went toe-to-toe with a global fast food empire... and kind of won?

Danish creativity meets international IP law—what could go wrong?

🗣️ You can leave your own voice note for us here: speakpipe.com/waydid or email [email protected]

Don’t forget to share this podcast with any friends who have made the move to Denmark.

For more clips and tips on living in Denmark and follow us on social media:

What Are You Doing in Denmark podcast:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/waydidpod

email: [email protected]

Watch all episodes of What Are You Doing in Denmark on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFCSH6KqKooZmSx1GJu9CWZYjX8esjl2F

Derek Hartman:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/robetrotting

YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/robetrotting

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@robetrotting

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robetrotting

Brooke Black:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/brookeblackjust

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brookeblackjust

🎙️ Upcoming Live Shows — What Are You Doing in Denmark? — Come Join Us! 🎉

🗓️ 9 September 2025, Copenhagen Comedy Zoo

https://www.comedyzoo.dk/event/1298885

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.