February 10, 2026

What Christian Men Are Looking For

49 minutes

We are so excited about this one! With Valentine's Day just around the corner, we wanted to bring another episode of encouragement and insight to all our single ladies—and who better to hear from than two amazing single Christian men? We sat down with Jamey and Nikolai to talk all things dating, singleness, and what they're actually looking for in a godly woman. From bold dating stories to the struggles of Christian singleness, these guys brought the fun, the wisdom, and the honesty we LOVE.

Whether you're feeling discouraged in the dating scene, wondering how to shoot your shot, or just curious where the good guys are hanging out—this episode is for YOU. Get ready for laughs, vulnerability, and a whole lot of truth about how to pursue Jesus and love in today’s world.

In This Episode

01:50 – Most unpopular dating opinions

04:00 – Embarrassing stories & creative first dates

07:00 – What they’re actually looking for in a woman

10:30 – Living full lives while single

14:00 – Where they hope to meet someone

16:00 – The “why am I still single?” convo

18:00 – Can girls make the first move?

22:30 – What a great first date actually looks like

25:00 – Why these guys aren’t dating much right now

28:00 – The Christian girl + guy disconnect

30:40 – Things girls worry about that guys don’t

33:00 – Major turnoffs an icks

35:00 – Real struggles guys face in singleness

38:00 – Their “elevator pitch” to the single ladies

Meet Jamey

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Meet Nikolai

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