Today, we're digging into a story of grief and joy in John 11, the story of Jesus raising Lazarus from the dead. We'll see the profound ways in which Jesus interacts with individuals experiencing grief and sorrow, demonstrating compassion and understanding by meeting each person where they are in their emotional journey.

What Does It Say?
Read along with us in John 11.

What’s the backstory

it's really important here to notice that we're in a sorrowful moment of an untimely death. This is a hard reality, a hard truth happening in this world right now. And what's more with Mary and Martha to lose Lazarus, their brother, who, you know, likely was supporting them and providing them with safety in a home because that's how it was in that culture. They've lost their brother whom they love, but also, this is an untimely death, and they really believe that Jesus could have done something about it. And yet these days have gone by. Lazarus has been in the tomb for four days. The four is important a little bit in the backstory because some would say that Jewish leaders would maybe say the soul would hang around a body for a while, maybe try to reenter the body. So they're like, it's like four days is not just kind of dead. It's really dead. It's like a long enough that, okay, now it's time to really say goodbye. This is permanent.

What does it mean?

Two things that came to mind that really stood out for me this week in this passage. The first is this: there's more to this life than sorrow and death. All the time, there's always more going on than just the sorrow and death that we might see. That's the first thought, just to challenge you in your mind. The second one for me, and of course there's many principles you can pull out from this passage, but the second principle for today, Jesus doesn't just lead us to the resurrection, he is the resurrection. Like, that is a mystery to ponder, to pray on, to ask, like, what does that mean for my life?

What does it mean for me?

Two things that came to mind that really stood out for me this week in this passage. The first is this: there's more to this life than sorrow and death. All the time, there's always more going on than just the sorrow and death that we might see. That's the first thought, just to challenge you in your mind. The second one: Jesus doesn't just lead us to the resurrection, he IS the resurrection. Like, that is a mystery to ponder, to pray on, to ask, like, what does that mean for my life?

Second: the disciples were disappointed and disconcerted by Jesus's choices. Martha's disappointed, but intellectually trying to process the why. Mary is just lost in her grief, lost in her emotions. How do you react to your struggles? How do you handle sorrow? How do you handle pain? What's your response? Do you try to control it? Do you try to fix it? Do you try to solve it? Do you find yourself spinning up on all of these different plans and all of these different contingencies that you yourself are going to figure out? Or do you slow down enough to actually bring God your sorrow? Have you thought about taking that burden before him and just saying, Lord, are you here? You feel absent to me in this thing. Because in many ways, that's what Mary and Martha said. Both of them said to him, if you'd been here, Lazarus wouldn't have died. You've disappointed me. Why is it this way? Why were you absent in my time of need? If you have that question, bring it to the Lord. He can handle it. 

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