What is your relationship like with money? Are you always trying to keep up with the Joneses? Would you and your partner benefit from financial therapy? Don’t judge, because everybody can benefit from therapy.
In this episode of the Finance for Physicians Podcast, Daniel Wrenne talks to Ed Coambs, a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified financial planner (CFP), and founder of Charlotte Couples Counseling. Ed shares practical tips to improve your financial behaviors and relationship with money.
Topics Discussed:
Couples Around Money: Mix of emotion, experiences, and desire to connect
Why financial therapy? Financial stress due to thoughts, emotions, behaviors
Pain Points: Spending versus saving is challenging and problematic for couples
Power Control: What does money mean and represent? What is valued most?
Equal Partnership? Understand social meaning of professional identity
Converted Skeptic: Everybody can benefit from therapy with ability to heal
Male Psyche: Character defect or discomfort doesn’t make a narcissist
Financial Flashpoints: Partner’s experiences and expectations around money
Money Management: Yours, mine, or our money in separate or joint accounts
Money Egg Exercise: Is your relationship with money positive or negative?
Links:
Charlotte Couples Counseling
Healthy Love and Money
Family Money Tree Course
Ed Coambs on Instagram
Money Egg Exercise
ACES Study
The Mask You Live In
Brad Klontz: Financial Flashpoints and Money Scripts
Dr. Dan Siegel: Neural Integration
Financial Therapy Association