The biggest enemies of success and how you can avoid them. You will be finding out why you are struggling to find success in your life and what is keeping you from living your dream life!

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What are the biggest enemies of success?

NUMBER ONE:The biggest enemy of success is never defining what success means TO YOU. 

A lot of people will tell you what you should do, and what a successful life looks like… But what they’re telling you about is what success is TO THEM. 

The worst thing you could possibly do, is take these ideas on as your own values instead of setting your own goals based on your interests and passions. 

Here’s the thing… If you’re not working on your dream, your probably working on somebody else’s. Whether that’s your parents, employer, or even your inner circle of friends. 

You have to ask yourself this simple question: WHAT DO YOU TRULY WANT?

You can’t score a goal if there is no target… If you don’t know what you want, you can never achieve it…You can never get to a destination if you don’t know where it is…

You get the idea. 

NUMBER TWO: Being a consumer, and not a producer. 

A spectator gets to watch what happens, the director decides what happens.

Most people are spectators of their own life, whilst society’s norms and standards dictate the script. 

It doesn’t have to be this way… You can actually make your own choices.You could make a choice to produce something of value to others. 

From birth we are trained to CONSUME, CONSUME, CONSUME.More food, newer phones, better cars, faster computers. 

But guess who makes all the money, and leads the most fulfilling lives? THE PRODUCERS of the world. 

There is this incredible feeling that is almost impossible to describe, when you contribute to the world in some way, it leaves you feeling like a HERO. 

It could be the smallest of acts to begin with, maybe even volunteering for some project… Anything that pulls you in. Just makes sure you get the positive spiral going. 

NUMBER THREE:Who is the biggest enemy? YOU. YOU. YOU.

You are your own biggest critic… You are the only one that truly holds back your true potential. Yes other people can have an affect, or impact on your life- and they will, but ultimately you are making your own decisions. 

If things don’t turn out the way you wanted, the only person you can really blame is the one in the mirror. 

So discontinue the habit of pointing the finger elsewhere, because no matter how hard you point at someone else, it won’t make your situation any better.