There are mainly 2 scenarios that occur after going on a date: 1). You enjoy it and look forward to getting to know them more or 2.) You believe you have a clear "not for me" after the date is over. So what do you do? As women, we tend to want to avoid this guy/conversation or "kindly" reject them slowly into the friend zone. But KINDESS is not the best solution following a date, rather, it's CLARITY! Listen as my husband Arden and I share why it's important to communicate after a—good or bad—date and how you should progress if you believe this person definitely isn't for you or could be your future husband.

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