In this raw episode we dive headfirst into one of the lifestyle’s most nerve-wracking moments: the day a parent finds out and isn’t thrilled. Kicking off with the real life situation that just happened.  We ask the question, “Do you deny it? Defend it? Or just nod, smile, and change the subject?” 

We explore the emotional tightrope of denial (and why it rarely works long-term), the pitfalls of launching into a full-throated defense (it can backfire spectacularly), and the art of the graceful exit acknowledging feelings without inviting a debate.

Whether you’re newly outed to family, dreading the day it happens, or just want to feel less alone, this episode is a lifeline. Because in the lifestyle, the hardest part isn’t always the play, it’s the people who should love you most.

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