Raising Lifelong Learners

When School Refusal Turns Into a Healing Journey


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In this week's episode of the podcast, we talk candidly about what school refusal really means for children and their families, and how homeschooling can offer a path toward healing, connection, and growth. Whether you're considering pulling your child out of school or you're already homeschooling but feeling stuck after a tough season, this conversation is for you.

Here are three key takeaways for parents facing this challenge:

  • School refusal is communication, not a character flaw. When a child can't attend school, it's their nervous system asking for safety, not a sign of failure.
  • Healing comes before academics. Focus on rebuilding connection, trust, and emotional safety—academics can (and will) follow once these foundations are strong.
  • Small, intentional changes add up. Shifting your daily routine, setting gentle non-negotiables, and celebrating even the smallest progress can move families from burnout to breakthrough.

You are the best teacher and advocate for your child. If you need more support, resources, or simply community, know you're not alone on this path.

Let's keep learning and growing—together.

Links and Resources from Today's Episode

Thank you to our sponsors:

CTC Math – Flexible, affordable math for the whole family!

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The Learner's Lab – Online community for families homeschooling gifted/2e & neurodivergent kiddos!

  • The Lab: An Online Community for Families Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kiddos
  • The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners
  • Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family
  • The Anxiety Toolkit
  • Sensory Strategy Toolkit | Quick Regulation Activities for Home
  • Affirmation Cards for Anxious Kids
  • Sensory Struggles and Clothes: How to Help Your Child Dress Without Tears
  • Navigating Sensory Overload: Actionable Strategies for Kids in Loud Environments
  • Building a Sensory Diet Toolbox for Neurodivergent Kids at Home
  • Playful Sensory Learning at Home: Five Senses Spinner
  • What Exactly is Deschooling.. and Do I Need to Do It?
  • Falling Unexpectedly in Love With Homeschooling My Gifted Child

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